Chances are he is waiting to see what you will wear.
My advice would be to see if you can find out what the wedding party is wearing, and then wear something that doesn't match, but also compliments. You don't want to wear bright red if the wedding-party is in light purple...it might draw negative attention to you. You also don't want to accidentally wear the same color as them!
If all else fails, dark neutral colors are usually a go-to. You can barely ever go wrong with navy or muted forest green or the like.
Shein is a fantastic place to find cheap-but-cute dresses for a special occasion.

Overall, don't stress too much! Black, navy or grey will compliment literally anything you wear. If you get your dress a little early, you can always check with his clothing to see which looks the best.

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That's pretty good advice! As a 14 year old boy this helped a lot lol

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My family owns a wedding facility in Southern California. I've worked over 2000 weddings. He's neutral, so be bold, but not overly sexy. I've seen so many wedding guests who look great for an hour or so, but those stilettos and ultra tight dresses start to wear a person down, especially in the heat, not a good look. If it's a late summer wedding and it's going to be hot, wear a dress that is light and breathable so you can remain physically comfortable all day. It'll make your new guy impressed with your cool composure. As long as you're not wearing the dominant color used by the bridal party, you're good. Most couples have a website, instagram or whatever associated with the event, do some digging and go with what compliments you personally and doesn't conflict with what the wedding party is doing. Look at the invitations, usually the bridesmaids are wearing a color that's featured in the invite. Most importantly: be comfortable, when the drinking and dancing starts, you want to be the girl who can still stand in her shoes and dance without sweating her spanks off.

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Guy here with no fashion sense just an odd sense of humor. I will give you 5 bucks if you wear a white dress. Lol.

Seriously, I love my wife and even from the beginning i never cared what she wore. I wanted to spend time with her. If this fella ( sorry just recently moved to the country haha) is meant to be then it will be. Hopefully your paths continue down the road a piece.

(I will take my dad jokes leave now. Good luck.)

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