What a scumbag. Hide the tracker in a hospital and ghost him. I wonder if he responds but I don't think so. He left for 3 THREE weeks for a wedding and they have a new baby !!! Wanna bet he's the one that needs to be tracked !

Paused reading to say THREE WEEKS for a wedding, leaving his wife with kids and a new baby. What a giant AH... back to the thread... If he'd put them IN his suitcases, they wouldn't have 'accidentally' fallen out, so, yup, he's a giant AH. Not sure how many kids she has, or what he's normally like when at home, so it's not as easy to advise her to jump straight to divorce ... temporary separation, at first, divorce if he's a giant AH at home, too. Back in the day, mothers had no choice but to remain married. One reason (in the UK, at least), it was hard to get child maintenance - my mum/dad divorced when I was 3, brother, 5, sister 1, in 1965 (she remarried when I was 10, to a great bloke). My bio dad was a DVer who was also cheating on her with his.... secretary! He walked out & stopped paying the mortgage, so she was (SAHM) forced to move into a 2-bed flat with 3 kids, and get a 7am-5pm job to support us (my dad owned his own business, btw), and mum spent numerous hours in the courts over thefollowing 10 years, and he rarely paid anything. BTW, he died alone after being married/divorced 4 times and engaged countless times. #Karma But yeah, it's easier now to do the walk, thankfully.

Put it in an envelope and mail it to Mogadishu.

Editing to say that I've looked at the original thread, and evidently this is part of a long series of posts by that OP, some which point to an abusive relationship. The history is also that she never does anything but will come back a few months later with an entirely new story, as though the previous one never occurred. This post was in January, and in July she posted an entirely new thread about how she wants to leave the youngest with her sister in law so that she and her husband can have time to themselves. Also, the wedding was in Pakistan where her husband has a large family, so that three weeks also includes visiting extended family. There may be more nefarious stuff going on, but it's probably not a way for the husband to get laid far away from home.

Read the thread. It’s from January, so whatever was going to happen has long since happened. Abusive husband, abusive MiL, from a famously misogynistic culture. She got a lot of good advice, some really dangerously stupid advice, and there’s a fairly high likelihood she didn’t follow any of it. Best case she GTFO while she had a three week window to get things done without interference. Worst case, she and her kids are now trapped with an abusive extended family in a 3rd world country with a horrible human rights track record.

Guilty people do guilty stuff. The red flags are waving high and bright!! 3 weeks for a wedding without his wife and child?! Nope nope nope! It's the perfect time to get a lawyer.. but leave the tracker at home so he doesn't know where you are. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I'm wondering if OP can track the Air tags in his suit case? That might be interesting.

Tell him you called the police and are pressing charges because you are being stalked by someone putting an airtag on your car. Or mail it to him where he is staying for the next few weeks!

Slap it on an interstate Semi Truck.

I would put the tracker in a packet and mail it back to him, with the divorce papers

The reasonable thing to do is just ask why it was there, and what his intentions were. Then communicate that you didn't like that, and that it was inappropriate and crossed a boundary that didn't need to be set. Don't make assumptions, don't pretend to know what he was thinking. Just talk it out and set boundaries and expectations

Drive with it straight to the police station and leave it there outside somewhere where it can't be found and let him think you got arrested.

I'd probably draw a face on it with a sharpie, name it, and take pictures of our adventures with the three kids to post on social media while he's gone. Just so he knows where I am at all times. For my safety. Srsly, this is a weird thing to do. The only guy I've ever been with who was bizarrely jealous and suspicious like this was actually cheating on me. He doing it, so he can imagine you doing it.

Mail it to the address that he's supposed to be for the wedding. That'll freak him out thinking that you're on your way!!!

I would find out where he is staying and mail it to him. Let him watch that on the tracking app.

I'd freak him out a bit by ground-shipping it to the city where the "wedding" is taking place. A little of his own medicine.

He's projecting. He intends to fool around for those 3 weeks, and he's assuming she's a scum just like he is. I'd drive down the freeway, sit for about an hour in an odd spot, then rush to the hospital. Find a place to dump the tracker in the hospital, and then go see a movie. Let him freak out for awhile thinking you were on an accident. Or just put it on a bus going cross country. Let him think you're running away.

where was it, under a seat in the trunk magneted onto the body frame? where it was found can tell you alot. the thought he put into where he put it tells you alot. he may have just forgot to tell you he put it in the car or he may have purposely hid it to try to catch the OP at something. i have been with my hubby for 20 year and never once felt the need to track him or go through his phone or anything like that and we have had some ups and some downs but never have i felt the urge to track him lol i agree she should low key look for hidden cameras so he cant see her looking for them and if she finds them call the police to debug her house and file a report of a break in or something because she doesn't know how they got there and is afraid someone broke in to place them there. and file a report about the air tag saying she thinks she may have a stalker and her husband is away.

Post it to him

Why is he at a wedding for 3 weeks? Does he go to honeymoon with his brother? Usually wedding is max few days and whole travel should also take similar amount of time.

Wish there was an update!

Taken from the movie DaVinci Code......hide the airtag in a piece of soap (or other garbage) and toss it into a garbage truck (or dumpster). First, of course, you take pictures of where you found it in the car and where you put it and save all of your text alerts from the app - to take to the lawyer when you realize there is no choice but divorce.

I work at a funeral home. Send it to me and let him wonder....

Call him, NO texting: no time to think of an explanation. There must be a reason, and only talking to him will clear things out. Sneaking and making tricks won't give an answer. You are smarter than he thought.

I like the f you route. I too thought of a bus, or simply the garbage

Im a guy. I saw airtags onsale. I got myself a few. Both cars are "bugged" why should you guys be bothered?? Pop open ur chat. Say "my iphone detected an airtag inside car, should i call the cops or leave it in?" I used to leave an old mobile inside just to have location tracking. £20 for new cheap mobile... Plugin to charger. Register ur homewifi and hotspot. Do it yesterday. You can read the data of husbands luggage airtags right?

This guy has a screw loose. This wasn't for your protection. Because what would he do if you were in trouble, with him being so far away? Nah, this was to keep tabs on you. First, I'd talk to a lawyer. Then I'd wait until he gets home and present it to him. It wouldn't surprise me if he was the one cheating. Why would he leave you home alone for 3 weeks with a young baby?

He is cheating. He knows he can't be trusted so he doesn't trust her. And three weeks with a 3 month old. What wedding is taking three weeks? He is there to see his "other"

Drive to High power divorce lawyer and leave it with them

He is trying to generate some excuse evidence for a divorce. Does he have some basis to suspect you are unfaithful? Go attach it to some guys car at a porn shop. Or attach it under the fender of the next door neighbor's car. They are not that accurate, so it can't distinguish between next door and your home. Send him on a wild goose chase.

He went home to his country, probably to f**k hot bitches. I would divorce him if he’s not from one of those religions that kill women for divorce embarrassment.

I'd go to the police and say you found it on your car and since your husband is away and you have young children you are worried. Then see him try to get out of that one.

The person who said that those who suspect you of cheating are probably cheating themselves is spot on. Plus, she has a 13 week old baby? Wtf does he think she's gonna do?

Did anyone think about the fact that he just wanted it on the car in case it was stolen like the millions of other sensible people like me WHO USE AIR TAGS FOR THIS, WHICH IS THE EXACT REASON THEY WERE MADE????

If it were me, I'd just go to the nearest divorce attorneys office, leave it under a chair in the waiting room and walk out. No cost at that point, but the point comes across.