Why wasn't there a 'no' option on the poll. Because hell no he isn't justified; he's an arsehole!

YTA comment's are freaking insane they all sound like Dad's wanting a out freaking losers I mean seriously

Her husband and his family are c**p.best to rid them out of her life. I’ll bet the accusations are because he cheated on her when she was gone working.

Excuse me, poll setter - where is the "NO, the husband is *not* justified!!!" option?

Why is there no choice in the poll like the guy is an abusive leech and she should divorce yesterday?

Yes, hi. I would like to answer the poll but I cannot. My answer is NO and I am sure

A paternity test isn't a big deal. The reason for the paternity test in this case IS a big deal. If I were OP I'd get it done but only if the husband agreed (with a contract) to sign divorce papers that were favorable to OP when the test showed that he was the father. Screw that guy and his s****y family.

These guys are so dumb. If you have doubts, get the test done after the baby is born without your wife knowing. Swab the baby’s mouth and mail it off, easy-peasy. But guys like this one can’t figure it out because they are used to their wives organizing everything.

Um, why is "No" not an option on the end of article poll?

Hand him the divorce papers with the results from the paternity test and kick him out of the house that YOU own. (the post-nup is also a good idea.) You do not need this worm in your life; all he's doing is costing you money and distress.

Again YTA's are out again!!!! Get a life! He's a mooch and he's probably insecure because he did the dirty. Why are YTA's just out trolling? Because you've nothing better to do, and you're the same people that would demand the same for your brothers if you knew his wife "who saved his a**e and is leeching off her" worked away.. sad MF's she's literally carried this bloke and he has been done over by members of his family, and this is what she HAS to put up with? FT his leeching family are/have/will screw others over and highly likely to cheat! So everyone is just like them! They'll regret this massively, especially if she leaves and he will have to pay child support (he doesn't pay much else) he won't have a dime for them to mooch off. Big mistake "huge"

Is this whole "freaking out about the paternity" a new thing? I feel like I haven't seen this a couple years ago. I get why people would be mad at learning that the child that they thought of as biologically theirs isn't. That's a massive betray. But at least in my eyes, a child's parent is the one who raised them. Biologically related or not.

This woman is such an idiot for getting involved with this twat and paying his way for almost everything. Hope she gets the prenup, the pat test, then divorces him and takes what she's owed. Chances are she's too daft to do that too though.

A marriage without trust or respect is neither a good one nor a lasting one. Take the p-test & hand him your divorce papers along with the result

And today's word kids is : P R O J E C T I O N!!

NTA. I would suggest (as many have done) get in contact with a good lawyer to make sure all of your assets and money are protected. Then do the test and hand the test results and divorce papers in the same moment . Also let him know that he had your complete trust all those times you had to travel, but with all of what he put you through there is not a test in the world that will give you peace of mind that he didn’t cheat on you while you were away. And wish him good luck with his family that only sees him as their financial supporter

Update for those asking- https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1ejhv32/update_aitah_for_being_mad_that_my_husband_thinks/

I am guessing the yta commenters have at least thought about cheating, otherwise they would see it for the insult it is. The only way the op is TA is if she stays with a jerk and exposes her child, and any possible future child, to his jerk mindframe. Seriously, if he can't wait for the child to be born and see some evidence of his wife cheating, it shows that he has zero trust in her.

Give us the "no" option in the polls, you cowards.

What kind of options are those for the freaking poll?

I'm annoyed that the "Poll Question" doesn't offer "HELL NO" as an option.

The post-nup is a good idea. She makes more than him and had more assets, so in the event of a divorce she might have more to lose (and he may not want a divorce). He may also decide he doesn't want the post-nup but continues to harbor doubts and decides he doesn't want to have anything to do with them, leaving her as a single parent in her own marriage. Moral of the story: women with assets and high pay: don't get blinded by love and promises (more like illusions/delusions), be the smart women that got you where you are now and protect yourself before getting married.

Paternity Test just to make sure child support is provided after the divorce.

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Get the test done already... It's is not the end of the world