And here, ladies and gentlemen, is a "pick me" girl in her natural habitat. Pretty sad that she's still acting this way at 36yo. Also, why the hell would he text her from his honeymoon?!

"casing point"

It started bad with the "sorry/not sorry for typos" and declined exponentially. This girl isn't a friend to anyone if he treats everyone like this. Edit: after a couple kind replies I realize I misunderstood the gender of the friend. It's changed now.

"I'm not completely tone-deaf." Continues to be tone-deaf.

Wow. I kind of think anyone who comes between her and Leo is going to find themselves on the end of this asshat’s ‘hilarious’ sense of humour. She screams jealous, needy can’t get her own life ‘friend’. Leo needs to kick her to the curb.

OP sounds like a real peach. The epitome of "I'm not being an a-hole, you just can't take a joke" passive-aggressive toxicity and cluelessness.

"He didn't text me from his honeymoon once." What kind of a*****e EXPECTS any form of communication from their friend on their honeymoon??? Insane.

The post has since been deleted, but the replies are still there. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vgki3k/aita_for_making_divorce_jokes_during_a_best_man/

I love how she thinks that highlighting what this guy means to her somehow saves the massive disrespect she just showed the bride......

Seems to me she's the one who's insecure. She points out how she's, "one of the guys" every chance she gets and talks shît about their girlfriends like they're just passing flings when it couldn't be more obvious that she wants to screw one or all of them...How would she feel if it were her wedding and one of them made a speech like something along the lines of, "wow! We never thought the day would come where you'd manage to find someone to actually put a ring on it"...HUGE YTA.

Grow up, assclown.

When you have to tell people you're funny, you're not funny. I bet "part time standup" means he goes to some open mic nights. What a tool.

This is.... odd..... It sounds like my first and second weddings.... my "sister" was like that.... oh man i hope it's not her ( her "gf" told me she was glad my mom died and wished it was me, this was after pretending to be my "friend" for years and me trying to help her, i told my "sister" and she said she wouldn't stop her but i could tell her "gf" to stop as it would "upset her" despite her telling me she wished i died from my cancer and blood clots and my Adopted mom who adopted me from a physio step mom that DID try to kill me} died to get from me)

"didn't text me from his honeymoon once." tf?

Just admit you want to marry Leo and be done with it.

I call b******t on this one

This screams pick me girl

100% the AH

Wonder if she ever got picked

YTA. Annie clearly knew what you would be like, and was right to keep you out of the wedding. It was dumb assed of Leo, letting you "Introduce the best man, letting " Shame on you for making a speech, and using it to joke about the failure of his previous marriage and suggest they're going to divorce. They're not "Having an extreme reaction to a joke." You disrespected them both, publicly, at their wedding. You disrespected their relationship. You were incredibly rude, and you haven't bothered to look at it from their perspective and apologise. There's a good chance Leo is no longer your "ride or die."

Ooooooooooooooooooooooof, terrible terrible "friend".

Yes, it was really so bad, you moron. That was a wedding reception, not a roast. Whatever you may have thought of Annie, you had no right to take potshots at her. As far as Leo is concerned, unless you apologize, you've lost a friend.

Hm, I guess I am at least partially contradicting general opinion here: I do not think that she is necessarily the complete AH you made her out to be. In my opinion, you can make this kind of jokes/roasts (personally, I find them funny) even at a wedding. So she isn’t TA for that alone and it’s not fair to scrutinize and villainize her for that the way you did, since you basically have no way of knowing her true motivations. However, if you want to make these jokes at someone else’s wedding, you have to be 100% sure that they will find them funny and see them as friendly roasts, which obviously failed in this case. That’s the point where she could be called TA for, not being sure that both, bride and groom, share the sense of humor. And yes, she definitely should apologize for this. But: You simply can not know if it was just a failed attempt at humor or if there’s a deeper vindictive reason. So you shouldn’t judge her this harshly based solely on your assumptions.

Just the title makes me say YTAH

This person needs a MASSIVE reality check; like the so called best friend, his brother and their entire family cutting her off… Also. Really? He didn’t text from his honeymoon?! I’m pretty sure he had happier things on his mind.

Beyond a doubt: complete a55hole

you indeed are the as$hole

definitely TA. not okay.

Yes you were that bad.

Strange that she need to ask if AITA. If she really is a comedian she must have understood that she was the AH of AHoles. Wonder if it was worth it to lose a friend of long standing?

🤔 You made a speech that suggested ‘wives come and go but me and Leo are forever’ and are shocked that Annie is upset? She’s probably not jealous as much as protecting her relationship - you may not realize it but you’re being territorial. Why didn’t HE call YOU on his honeymoon? Please go watch ‘My Bestfriend’s Wedding’ and sort yourself out. Annie is the most important person in his life and if you care about him you would value her as well. YTAH and possibly a narcissist.