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Real love does exist, and this woman proved it. She received a private message from a guy she had some political banter on Facebook with, and it was clear what his intentions were. At first, she mentioned her husband and politely refused but the guy persisted so she went into full savage mode.
The woman’s message achieved two things: it proved her love to a man who truly deserves it, and it also left a nasty burn on the homewrecker. She uploaded the exchange to Imgur, and the internet instantly fell in love with her: “Power moves only. Well played,” said one commenter. “Brutal. Love it,” said another. Scroll down to enjoy this amazing act of loyal love.
P.S. Do you think his wife should know about this?
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What do you think ?
Wezbie 7 years ago
Bad enough to keep pushing a married person to cheat, but to admit so happily that you're married too and don't care is so incredibly shameless. The whole ordeal makes me sick. All in all, she let him down in such a nice and honest way. It is sad that some people don't have the same idea of marriage as her...
Paul K. Johnson 7 years ago
When I was in the Army I had to work with a guy who would brag about all the women he cheated on his wife with AND then he would talk about how stupid his wife was for not figuring it out. I'd finally had enough of it and told him that if he ever talked to me about that s**t again I would report him. Adultery is actionable under the UCMJ.
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Marceline 7 years ago
Two kids! There is also a baby down to the left! Great a*****e!
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Shikha 7 years ago
My mother lost all sensation below her navel in a car crash this January. My father was in the same crash as well but recovered by March. All three of us, that is my father, my elder sister and I have been looking after her all this while along with her medical treatment. This time has made me see the unconventional love my parents share and how pure and untainted it is. They make me believe in love.
Benski Trenkins 7 years ago
Could write a lengthy post on what I think of the dude... but I'd rather focus on her husband and give credit to his devotion to his wife.
therealpixie 7 years ago
You ask if his wife should be told. My goodness, his picture w/his kids has been posted for the whole world to see. Do you honestly think somebody didn't tell his wife within fifteen minutes of it's going viral?
ivett cser 7 years ago
good woman. its hard to be that polite. should know, my own family is toppling over and I am the eldest of two children watching it unfold. its nice to see this handled so nicely.
Peter Ager 7 years ago
Let's hope that ahole's wife is a fan of Bored Panda. She'll click on this link, see the profile pic and go "Oh, Snap!"
Agnes Jekyll 7 years ago
This is actually a really kind response on her part. Hopefully he'll do it--either leave his wife or commit fully.
Zanna Du 7 years ago
I wasn't married, but was with a man for over 7 years. I found out I was sick, and he began an affair with his neighbor. It has continued to this day, all the while my disease was progressing and they both continued to lie. To top that all off, I had a fire in my home and stayed with him while it was being renovated. He collected thousands of dollars in payments from my insurance, which we now believe he gave some to her while I was struggling to get proper repairs on my home. Now, we know that there are people who are just natural born liars, cheaters and downright thieves out there. What makes it worse is when you find the person you've loved with your heart and soul is one of those people, and even worse, was more than willing to do it all while you were sick. The thing I will never understand, is instead of being honest about what is really going on, how the hell can you keep doing it and then use the person for money??
Agnes Jekyll 7 years ago
I hope your health has recovered entirely and that your heart has recovered as well.
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Allana Rose 7 years ago
She spelled it out for him in the only way he could possible feel how he was such an idiot. "To death to us part" Isnt just a line in our marriage vows and itsnt in there just to sound pretty. It is a vow and a vow is pledging from our hearts our intent, and in this one, it means to stay by our partners side no matter what. Something this guy obv. knows nothing about. A very good lesson that I hope he has learned this day. I love how the lady gave him payback in such a classic way.
Elizabeth Molloy 7 years ago
Why do some people even get married if they don't mean it? Disgusting!
DeeDee DeLong 7 years ago
Should've told his wife, she deserves better than to spend her life dedicated to that man without at least informed consent of his intent to cheat on her.
Michèle Gyselinck 7 years ago
She is a grateful and loyal wife to a guy who deserves it. The cheating husband also deserves the response he got. That should teach him to be careful about making assumptions.
Michael Rezendes 7 years ago
Touching content but since nobody is mentioned I have to assume it's a FAKE story. CLICKBAIT
Michele Bridges 7 years ago
Well done on her part. And yes, the mans wife should know. Not sure I'd want to be the one to let her know and be drawn in to that drama. She WILL find out, just not sure how long it will take her or the repercussions that will follow.....particularly for their children. Sad.
Alexandra Maas 7 years ago
His wife needs to know. He 's not worth the light of day, and god knows there are a LOT of men like this.
Charles Batchelor 7 years ago
If they are will to cheat to be with you, they are willing to cheat on you to be with someone else.
Thomas Crowden 7 years ago
I was in a relationship for 22 1/2 years I thought every thing was fine till I took ill back in 1999 it was hard going but she stood by me and after 6mths I got myself back to work,but was told by her that she would never go through watching me being ill again,I took a Heart Attack in 2003 and she was fine with that but with in 4 weeks I had taken 3 other Heart attacks but after the second one she picked me up from the Hospital we cam in and she turned round and told me I AM OFF and she buggered off and moved out well it was a shock to the system but I have got my self on a healthy life style without a woman its just me and my dog she thought she was taken the dog with her she got a shock when the dog refused to go with her so remember LOVE ME LOVE MY DOG , I do not hold a grudge and we talk and she will pop in for a chat if she is in the area,there was an age difference but its better to to be friends than hold a grudge for the rest of your life .
cybermerlin2000 7 years ago
The only time I cheated on my fiancee was when I snuck an extra hotel on mayfair.
AveValencia 7 years ago
She should've flat out said No to begin with instead of trying to be nice about it. People misinterpret nice Nos for Maybes all the time.
Maria Bumbac 7 years ago
She is so authentic because she is dying. She made the other see this reality and told him he will have to think about. Nice thought. Otherwise it is true...death is always creative for life. Someone dies while another one is born. Nice life philosophy at an end. Cheaters will onlt exist. Wake up guys everyone decides for himself whether he says yes or no. Stop this childish games on the bad guys that haunt you. You are grown uo adults (I hope!).
jacluckycat 7 years ago
What's up with these regurgitated articles wherein t****r harasses woman via text and she burns him in reply? We've seen the teen version, the perv version and now the married version. I get that this is supposed to be some female empowerment narrative but it wasn't really very interesting the first time around
AnnieLaurie Burke 7 years ago
I hope for vibrant health for this amazing lady, her devoted husband, and her children that are so fortunate to have such amazing parents. As for Iago, go f**k yourself.
Elizabeth Jones 7 years ago
wonder if was mt ex husband, it was the sort of thing he would do! After being cheated on, lied too, and hit on many occasions, this man makes me sick. yeah tell his wife in fact forward the messages to her, god knows how many women he has cheated with. if you cant stay faithful dont get married!
Violeta Petrescu 7 years ago
My husband had a 4 yr affair with a woman who was married and was a firmer co worker. I found out tthrough snooping his cell phone. I never did before but my gut kept telling me to do it. I didn’t know his password but with luck and the grace of young kids,my daughter blurted it out one day. Sure enough I found the incriminating text and after that emails etc that proved my husband is a lying Riu he and she is nothing but a whire
Darrell Barber 7 years ago
You should have called his wife and told her about her husbands cheating and then called the police and have him arrested for sexual harassment against you and always record your phone conversations its very easy. Then sued him for sexual harassment.
Darrell Barber 7 years ago
You should have called the creeps wife and tell her to stop her husbands perverted sexual advance to you or you would call the police and then sue him.
Catarina Tedesca 7 years ago
I can only speak for myself, I would have found out who his wife was and sent her the information and I would have told her that her husband was doing. I have no qualms about taking someone else down if they are trying to tempt me into doing something that is wrong. That's just me. I can attest that the rest of the world is to scared to get involved. My ex-husband - despite having proof of his adultery, he was never once slapped with the UCMJ. His unit commanders are still covering for him, he's married to and cheating on the woman he had an affair on me with. So tell me where the justice in that, despite the fact that I remained faithful. No on ever once came forward and was honest with me about the cheating. Even though I knew, they didn't try to hide it well. So yea no people stay away from that, they dont step up and help or defend.
Adam Bryce 7 years ago
that cad got a nice chinese burn on his conscience, for certain. yes, he will wonder who's going to watch him die, for a l-o-n-ggg time now.
Gabriel Guianan 7 years ago
I think the song is Death Cab For Cutie's "What Sarah Said." Gives me chills whenever it gets to that line. Really puts things into perspective too. Really impressed that's what she used to shut him down.
Talor McPherson 7 years ago
Ugh! People that cheat... One of my best friends from high school is married to a total sleazebag that messaged me once to "go out for drinks". I knew he and his wife weren't supposed to drink for religious reasons and he and I didn't have any sort of friendship so I immediately sent his wife a screenshot of the messages. She made excuses for him and not shortly after she was pregnant with their first baby (to "make things better"). I talked some other girlfriends of mine and they said he had messaged them as well. The wife always talked about leaving him but was pressured by her church to stay, then she felt obligated to stay when they had the baby. Now she spends her stay-at-home-wife life trying to convince facebook that she is "living the dream" with her "perfect little family". GAG! I still can't stand looking at the creep!
jamie collins 7 years ago
i know women cheat too, but i have to say as a married woman, i've had so many married men and unmarried men who know i'm married give me indecent proposals that its made me completely paranoid about my own husband. Some men are the husbands of friends. It leaves me shocked and offended at the fact that they seem to assume that I would down for it. Its heartbreaking. I struggle constantly with whether or not I should narc these "men" out. Instead, I try my hardest to let them know that there are more important things in life than sex, such as loyalty and love, and I hope my guilt trip makes them reconsider, but i doubt it does.
Rob Johnson 7 years ago
Realistic Plot Twist: Her husband has been cheating through out this whole ordeal.
Rob Johnson 7 years ago
Realistic Plot Twist: Her husband cheated through out the whole ordeal.
ElizabethVargas 7 years ago
I am sharing this testimony to let the people know about Dr.Mack, I recently caught my husband with his ex girlfriend. Recently, he has been distant unloving and disrespectful towards me. I had a feeling he was going to leave me in no time and he later did this was After 3 years of marriage, my husband left me and never returned. I felt like my life was about to end, my life was falling apart.. I contacted Dr.mack via email:dr_mack at yaho o dot co m and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, My Husband rang me 6 times, He came back to me. We solved our issues, he said he was sorry for leaving me, he said he wants us to be together again. I am so happy this finally ends with joy! I feel my heart beating again! and we are even happier than before. My life is back!!!! Many thanks to Dr.Mack, please re-write the email address
alison cage 7 years ago
I suffered from infidelity for a long time until cyberexpert101@gmail.com saved me. I was depressed for weeks, and started developing high blood pressure and loss of weight. My husband kept deleting all his messages everyday, and even never gave me access to his phone, my curiosity grew strong so was my depression. People around me started to notice my attitude. I couldn't hold it anymore so i decided to spit out my problem to the world then a friend introduced me to the hacker, he help me monitor my husband’s communications including all his deleted messages. he can handle any kind of hacking like Access/Password,Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram, bbm,Skype, snapchat, Various blogs, icloud, apple accounts etc Clearing of criminal records,email accounts hack. You can contact him, I vouch you will get a good services.
Micheal Roland 7 years ago
One of the most annoying questions I hear is "are there real hackers?" or "Can i get a real hacker?" or "Where can I get a hacker ?" Well, I'm going to tell you this TOP SECRET thing I found, and trust me he is the answer to all your questions, he is an ethical hacker, reliable and affordable, no other than cheeterhacker AT outlook DOT com. I know this because I've have made use of his services a lot such as hacking a cell phone, hacking into a website, helping me boost my credit score and clearing my bank debt and he has never dissapointed me for once. I have also reffered him to my friends who also required services of a genuine hacker and they've been testifying to his good works. Stop being scammed by these fake hackers and contact a real one.
Adrijana Radosevic 7 years ago
I think this is a lie. If she was in the described horrible situation only a year ago, no way in HELL would she look decent enough for ANY guy to ask her for a little porkiola. Pass.
endelbendel 7 years ago
Both are 'trading up' = neither loves the spouse. Altho the sick woman's spouse is showing love.
Nga Kieu 7 years ago
yay, you're an a*****e and want everyone to know. Yay, you're such a bully. Yay, you got down vote. Yeah, Yay.
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Wezbie 7 years ago
Bad enough to keep pushing a married person to cheat, but to admit so happily that you're married too and don't care is so incredibly shameless. The whole ordeal makes me sick. All in all, she let him down in such a nice and honest way. It is sad that some people don't have the same idea of marriage as her...
Paul K. Johnson 7 years ago
When I was in the Army I had to work with a guy who would brag about all the women he cheated on his wife with AND then he would talk about how stupid his wife was for not figuring it out. I'd finally had enough of it and told him that if he ever talked to me about that s**t again I would report him. Adultery is actionable under the UCMJ.
Load More Replies... Marceline 7 years ago
Two kids! There is also a baby down to the left! Great a*****e!
Load More Replies... Shikha 7 years ago
My mother lost all sensation below her navel in a car crash this January. My father was in the same crash as well but recovered by March. All three of us, that is my father, my elder sister and I have been looking after her all this while along with her medical treatment. This time has made me see the unconventional love my parents share and how pure and untainted it is. They make me believe in love.
Benski Trenkins 7 years ago
Could write a lengthy post on what I think of the dude... but I'd rather focus on her husband and give credit to his devotion to his wife.
therealpixie 7 years ago
You ask if his wife should be told. My goodness, his picture w/his kids has been posted for the whole world to see. Do you honestly think somebody didn't tell his wife within fifteen minutes of it's going viral?
ivett cser 7 years ago
good woman. its hard to be that polite. should know, my own family is toppling over and I am the eldest of two children watching it unfold. its nice to see this handled so nicely.
Peter Ager 7 years ago
Let's hope that ahole's wife is a fan of Bored Panda. She'll click on this link, see the profile pic and go "Oh, Snap!"
Agnes Jekyll 7 years ago
This is actually a really kind response on her part. Hopefully he'll do it--either leave his wife or commit fully.
Zanna Du 7 years ago
I wasn't married, but was with a man for over 7 years. I found out I was sick, and he began an affair with his neighbor. It has continued to this day, all the while my disease was progressing and they both continued to lie. To top that all off, I had a fire in my home and stayed with him while it was being renovated. He collected thousands of dollars in payments from my insurance, which we now believe he gave some to her while I was struggling to get proper repairs on my home. Now, we know that there are people who are just natural born liars, cheaters and downright thieves out there. What makes it worse is when you find the person you've loved with your heart and soul is one of those people, and even worse, was more than willing to do it all while you were sick. The thing I will never understand, is instead of being honest about what is really going on, how the hell can you keep doing it and then use the person for money??
Agnes Jekyll 7 years ago
I hope your health has recovered entirely and that your heart has recovered as well.
Load More Replies... Allana Rose 7 years ago
She spelled it out for him in the only way he could possible feel how he was such an idiot. "To death to us part" Isnt just a line in our marriage vows and itsnt in there just to sound pretty. It is a vow and a vow is pledging from our hearts our intent, and in this one, it means to stay by our partners side no matter what. Something this guy obv. knows nothing about. A very good lesson that I hope he has learned this day. I love how the lady gave him payback in such a classic way.
Elizabeth Molloy 7 years ago
Why do some people even get married if they don't mean it? Disgusting!
DeeDee DeLong 7 years ago
Should've told his wife, she deserves better than to spend her life dedicated to that man without at least informed consent of his intent to cheat on her.
Michèle Gyselinck 7 years ago
She is a grateful and loyal wife to a guy who deserves it. The cheating husband also deserves the response he got. That should teach him to be careful about making assumptions.
Michael Rezendes 7 years ago
Touching content but since nobody is mentioned I have to assume it's a FAKE story. CLICKBAIT
Michele Bridges 7 years ago
Well done on her part. And yes, the mans wife should know. Not sure I'd want to be the one to let her know and be drawn in to that drama. She WILL find out, just not sure how long it will take her or the repercussions that will follow.....particularly for their children. Sad.
Alexandra Maas 7 years ago
His wife needs to know. He 's not worth the light of day, and god knows there are a LOT of men like this.
Charles Batchelor 7 years ago
If they are will to cheat to be with you, they are willing to cheat on you to be with someone else.
Thomas Crowden 7 years ago
I was in a relationship for 22 1/2 years I thought every thing was fine till I took ill back in 1999 it was hard going but she stood by me and after 6mths I got myself back to work,but was told by her that she would never go through watching me being ill again,I took a Heart Attack in 2003 and she was fine with that but with in 4 weeks I had taken 3 other Heart attacks but after the second one she picked me up from the Hospital we cam in and she turned round and told me I AM OFF and she buggered off and moved out well it was a shock to the system but I have got my self on a healthy life style without a woman its just me and my dog she thought she was taken the dog with her she got a shock when the dog refused to go with her so remember LOVE ME LOVE MY DOG , I do not hold a grudge and we talk and she will pop in for a chat if she is in the area,there was an age difference but its better to to be friends than hold a grudge for the rest of your life .
cybermerlin2000 7 years ago
The only time I cheated on my fiancee was when I snuck an extra hotel on mayfair.
AveValencia 7 years ago
She should've flat out said No to begin with instead of trying to be nice about it. People misinterpret nice Nos for Maybes all the time.
Maria Bumbac 7 years ago
She is so authentic because she is dying. She made the other see this reality and told him he will have to think about. Nice thought. Otherwise it is true...death is always creative for life. Someone dies while another one is born. Nice life philosophy at an end. Cheaters will onlt exist. Wake up guys everyone decides for himself whether he says yes or no. Stop this childish games on the bad guys that haunt you. You are grown uo adults (I hope!).
jacluckycat 7 years ago
What's up with these regurgitated articles wherein t****r harasses woman via text and she burns him in reply? We've seen the teen version, the perv version and now the married version. I get that this is supposed to be some female empowerment narrative but it wasn't really very interesting the first time around
AnnieLaurie Burke 7 years ago
I hope for vibrant health for this amazing lady, her devoted husband, and her children that are so fortunate to have such amazing parents. As for Iago, go f**k yourself.
Elizabeth Jones 7 years ago
wonder if was mt ex husband, it was the sort of thing he would do! After being cheated on, lied too, and hit on many occasions, this man makes me sick. yeah tell his wife in fact forward the messages to her, god knows how many women he has cheated with. if you cant stay faithful dont get married!
Violeta Petrescu 7 years ago
My husband had a 4 yr affair with a woman who was married and was a firmer co worker. I found out tthrough snooping his cell phone. I never did before but my gut kept telling me to do it. I didn’t know his password but with luck and the grace of young kids,my daughter blurted it out one day. Sure enough I found the incriminating text and after that emails etc that proved my husband is a lying Riu he and she is nothing but a whire
Darrell Barber 7 years ago
You should have called his wife and told her about her husbands cheating and then called the police and have him arrested for sexual harassment against you and always record your phone conversations its very easy. Then sued him for sexual harassment.
Darrell Barber 7 years ago
You should have called the creeps wife and tell her to stop her husbands perverted sexual advance to you or you would call the police and then sue him.
Catarina Tedesca 7 years ago
I can only speak for myself, I would have found out who his wife was and sent her the information and I would have told her that her husband was doing. I have no qualms about taking someone else down if they are trying to tempt me into doing something that is wrong. That's just me. I can attest that the rest of the world is to scared to get involved. My ex-husband - despite having proof of his adultery, he was never once slapped with the UCMJ. His unit commanders are still covering for him, he's married to and cheating on the woman he had an affair on me with. So tell me where the justice in that, despite the fact that I remained faithful. No on ever once came forward and was honest with me about the cheating. Even though I knew, they didn't try to hide it well. So yea no people stay away from that, they dont step up and help or defend.
Adam Bryce 7 years ago
that cad got a nice chinese burn on his conscience, for certain. yes, he will wonder who's going to watch him die, for a l-o-n-ggg time now.
Gabriel Guianan 7 years ago
I think the song is Death Cab For Cutie's "What Sarah Said." Gives me chills whenever it gets to that line. Really puts things into perspective too. Really impressed that's what she used to shut him down.
Talor McPherson 7 years ago
Ugh! People that cheat... One of my best friends from high school is married to a total sleazebag that messaged me once to "go out for drinks". I knew he and his wife weren't supposed to drink for religious reasons and he and I didn't have any sort of friendship so I immediately sent his wife a screenshot of the messages. She made excuses for him and not shortly after she was pregnant with their first baby (to "make things better"). I talked some other girlfriends of mine and they said he had messaged them as well. The wife always talked about leaving him but was pressured by her church to stay, then she felt obligated to stay when they had the baby. Now she spends her stay-at-home-wife life trying to convince facebook that she is "living the dream" with her "perfect little family". GAG! I still can't stand looking at the creep!
jamie collins 7 years ago
i know women cheat too, but i have to say as a married woman, i've had so many married men and unmarried men who know i'm married give me indecent proposals that its made me completely paranoid about my own husband. Some men are the husbands of friends. It leaves me shocked and offended at the fact that they seem to assume that I would down for it. Its heartbreaking. I struggle constantly with whether or not I should narc these "men" out. Instead, I try my hardest to let them know that there are more important things in life than sex, such as loyalty and love, and I hope my guilt trip makes them reconsider, but i doubt it does.
Rob Johnson 7 years ago
Realistic Plot Twist: Her husband has been cheating through out this whole ordeal.
Rob Johnson 7 years ago
Realistic Plot Twist: Her husband cheated through out the whole ordeal.
ElizabethVargas 7 years ago
I am sharing this testimony to let the people know about Dr.Mack, I recently caught my husband with his ex girlfriend. Recently, he has been distant unloving and disrespectful towards me. I had a feeling he was going to leave me in no time and he later did this was After 3 years of marriage, my husband left me and never returned. I felt like my life was about to end, my life was falling apart.. I contacted Dr.mack via email:dr_mack at yaho o dot co m and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, My Husband rang me 6 times, He came back to me. We solved our issues, he said he was sorry for leaving me, he said he wants us to be together again. I am so happy this finally ends with joy! I feel my heart beating again! and we are even happier than before. My life is back!!!! Many thanks to Dr.Mack, please re-write the email address
alison cage 7 years ago
I suffered from infidelity for a long time until cyberexpert101@gmail.com saved me. I was depressed for weeks, and started developing high blood pressure and loss of weight. My husband kept deleting all his messages everyday, and even never gave me access to his phone, my curiosity grew strong so was my depression. People around me started to notice my attitude. I couldn't hold it anymore so i decided to spit out my problem to the world then a friend introduced me to the hacker, he help me monitor my husband’s communications including all his deleted messages. he can handle any kind of hacking like Access/Password,Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram, bbm,Skype, snapchat, Various blogs, icloud, apple accounts etc Clearing of criminal records,email accounts hack. You can contact him, I vouch you will get a good services.
Micheal Roland 7 years ago
One of the most annoying questions I hear is "are there real hackers?" or "Can i get a real hacker?" or "Where can I get a hacker ?" Well, I'm going to tell you this TOP SECRET thing I found, and trust me he is the answer to all your questions, he is an ethical hacker, reliable and affordable, no other than cheeterhacker AT outlook DOT com. I know this because I've have made use of his services a lot such as hacking a cell phone, hacking into a website, helping me boost my credit score and clearing my bank debt and he has never dissapointed me for once. I have also reffered him to my friends who also required services of a genuine hacker and they've been testifying to his good works. Stop being scammed by these fake hackers and contact a real one.
Adrijana Radosevic 7 years ago
I think this is a lie. If she was in the described horrible situation only a year ago, no way in HELL would she look decent enough for ANY guy to ask her for a little porkiola. Pass.
endelbendel 7 years ago
Both are 'trading up' = neither loves the spouse. Altho the sick woman's spouse is showing love.
Nga Kieu 7 years ago
yay, you're an a*****e and want everyone to know. Yay, you're such a bully. Yay, you got down vote. Yeah, Yay.
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