Same goes for wearing a cup too then, right?

"Girls shouldn't dress provocative" comes form the same men who say "Women better dress sexy if they want my attention". Yeah. Wonder why....

I work out a lot. Anytime there is free time in my day. It helps my severe anxiety and ptsd. Biking, walking, yoga... I'll do it anywhere. I wear leggings or yoga shorts and tank tops or hoodies 90% of the time for this reason. I've been hit on so much its insane. Followed. Grabbed. Looked at nastily by older women and if they're with a man, they pull them closer. I'm not seeking attention. It's comfortable to me. Why can't people just let others live?? Very frustrating. Just bc my pants are tight or my arms are exposed, I'm not interested in you. Same goes for everyone else. I promise. We'll let you know if we're interested.

How come the only time these dudes hear women "asking for something" is not when they ask for equal pay or equal rights, but when those short skirts talk? And note, they could listen to the woman, then, too, but they don't.

People that try put fault on the victim confuse me. I mean yes, there are certain measures you take in life to be safe. Like do not try hand feed a shark, chances are it might not end well. But this is not one of those things. It is clothing. Tons of men walk around with no shirt in at all, and you never hear this type of talk. When people state women are "asking for it" they are pretty much admitting they are supporting rape.

Nobody is ever ''asking for it!'' I wear crop tops and mini skirts and stuff like that all the time! I'm 100% sure I'm not ''asking for it''

so if you are wearing expensive watch on your wrist it's ok for me to rob you... because come on, you were asking for it

We Germans have beaches especially for being in the nude / go to the sauna in the nude but nothing happens there. Somehow these men can control themselves.

If I see someone wearing expensive designer clothes, I have the right to rob them because they're asking for it by showing off how much money they've got.

Brilliant response, I will be using that one in the future if I come across this type of disgusting remark.

Even if the woman is trying to provoke, any normal person should know better than to make sexual advances without clear consent. I mean, there are people who would stand there and lure you in, when all they want was your kidney, you'd fall for that, wouldn't you? Don't make excuses when you can't keep your thing in your pants.

I think one of the most mind blowing dumb as f**k arguments that was brought up by a ugly old bitch go figure was on a rape victims UNDERWEAR in COURT. You'd have to remove someone's clothes to see their underwear to start with before you can even get into all the other levels of stupid in such a line

If what you wore caused rape, then if a woman were to be naked then there would be a line of mindless men from here to the moon waiting to rape her.

Gals I know were wearing camouflage and combat boots when they were raped - by other soldiers. Or Barbie Underoos, at home in their own bed at age 6. So shut. Up.

I mean, yeah! If he views it that way, might as well view him that way.

You car was stolen. It was your fault for buying such a nice car and leaving it parked outside. As ridiculous

If a guy wears tight pants and no shirt in public, I can then rape him in the ass repeatedly, because he was asking for it, right?

The idea that girls are asking for "it" is that of a ''less than bright' man.

Sure does, man, sure does.

Excellent savage comeback!

Borat's mankini is a provocative piece of clothing that just looks ridiculous... just as some women's clothing looks similarly idiotic.

Ok one thing though. When my daughter was 15 she was 5 feet tall with a D cup. She wore daisy dukes and tank tops in the summer. She has a trusting and open nature. She literally asked me, "Dad, why do the creepy old men in the mall stare at me?" "Because you dress like jailbait" was my immediate reply. Ooh she was mad. Yes, it's on the males not to be jerks. But realistically, if you carry raw meat around you think dogs won't follow? I always tried to teach her that the real world is far from ideal and you have to be careful out there. She much older and just fine now, thank the gods who watch out for overconfident children...

Grrr is all I can type on this one....

Ok, hold up. That's not how sexuality, snake brains and monkey brains work. I hate this. Because ignoring an issue with stupid comments wil not work. Please start from the mindset that I don't agree with both statements. But. You cannot state that it's ok to expect work environments to have dress codes, while maintaining that how we dress does not impact our social behavior. Skimpy clothing in a club is also different from wearing a bathing suit on the beach. But never is anyone invited to cause irreparable physical or psychological harm.

true that girls and women have choices but that does not put a bullseye on their heads. pew! pew!

Wow! Burn!

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If a girl wears a low cut top clearly she wants people to look at her cleavage!

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I would say be situationally unaware has harmed more people than what they were wearing. Wearing clothes you can't run in would just be an added detriment to personal defense. And no, the person who was attacked doesn't deserve to be attacked. The gazelle on the Sahara just getting a drink of water from a watering hole doesn't deserve to be eaten. But predators exist and they're gonna try to get a meal if they can.

As a German, I can fully back this!

Say it louder for the ones in the back. Not that they listen to sense.

What does being transgender have to do with trust. Makes no sense to me.

And polio, measles, pneumonia, diptheria, influenza? Oh and that pesky Bubonic Plague. A healthy gut sure worked there.

I remember this from a few weeks ago! After all, ii did say I wanted to, given its a brilliant comeback :D

WIN