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Dealing with my emotionally immature parents, throughout my childhood, teenage and young adult years. Looking back now, it was exhausting, and it instilled bitterness and a deformed perception of relationships in me.
I particularly remember the moment when my father bought a video game, theoretically for me and my brother. I was about 14 at the time. My father would literally spend hours daily playing the video game, trying to "get points and break the record". I wanted to try it myself once, and he started yelling at me "I cannot play because of you, whenever I want play the game you are here, get out of my sight!" I never touched the damn game ever again, nor did I speak to my father for months. He was happy with his game, so he didn't care.
When my school wouldn’t step in and take care of my education. I have adhd. So I had to take charge and now things are better.
Also, when I was young, I lived in the hood. So everyday I had to be big or be beaten
When some one cussed me out over a milk machine not working cause they wanted a milkshake. I told them plainly you could got to these different restaurant just like ours that had milkshake machines. Did not cuss him out which is what he deserved.