We all love our revenge and "getting back" at people, but at the same time, we have to know when revenge goes too far. Where do (or would) you draw the line?
This post may include affiliate links.
1) When the revenge affects more than just the intended person
2) When it gets to the point that you can only think about planning revenge
3) When it's completely disproportionate to what's been done to you (eg spreading false rumours about them)
4) When it's been years since the thing you want revenge for (this obviously depends on the severity of the offence—if you have experienced SA or something like that then you should report it, for your own piece of mind and for the safety of others)
Also a fourth one I usually follow because I'm kinda lazy and don't really care much for revenge is
5) When you have to go well out of your way to exact it. I'll usually just get back at the person if the opportunity crops up in the moment
When innocent people get victimized for the sake of revenge.
Only go for revenge on whoever wronged you if you need to take revenge.