When have you ever second guessed your reaction due to others? Gaslighting? Family? Etc.

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I'm really pissed off at this one person in English because he told me I couldn't speak since I'm a girl but everyone else at my table laughed and now I feel like I should have found it funny. AITA?

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Shaba Ding Dong
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA, he should apologize and someone should have stood up for you. Male and female equal rights meaning that you have no reason to not talk because your a girl.

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    #2

    I made some posts and people downvoted me AITA?

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    Shaba Ding Dong
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on what you posted, if it was rude yes, if it was something controversial then probably not because sometimes people downvote when they don't agree with you.

    #3

    AITA for breaking up with my bf because I’m still hung on an ex?

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    #4

    just, AITA. Thats it. I'm so scared that im a bad person

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    #5

    AITA for not apologizing to the person I bullied in 6th grade?

    I heavily bullied my classmate in sixth grade. My reason (not an excuse or justification) was because I was being abused at home, and he was very short so I felt I had power over him that I didn't have anywhere else. My behavior was obviously unacceptable and I have thought about finding him on social media and apologizing.

    But here's the thing—I have since blocked out most of my childhood, so I don't remember the specifics of what I did. All I can remember is that I harassed him for being short, but I don't remember what exactly I said or did, how he responded, or the effect that it had. So I worry that apologizing for something I don't remember might be worse than not apologizing at all. I'm not sure what to do.

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    Shaba Ding Dong
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mostly NTA, if you are currently in you're 30's or somewhere close to it makes sense that you blocked it out and forgot about. I think that if you knew it was in a general area that it should be a good enough apology (for me). Try make it sound like you actually care and put detail like sorry for harrassing you in 6th grade, I was being abused at home and took my anger out on you and I hope you can forgive me.

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    #6

    AITA for blowing up at a friends ex?
    My(F) best friend(F) had an ex(F) and for the sake of her privacy we'll call her Amy. So Amy, me, and my Best friend were all kind of friends. She wasn't bad in any way, she was actually really nice. Then Amy suddenly broke up with my friend. She asked why and she said she wasn't over an ex, then she said it was confusion, then she said there wasn't love, THEN she said it had nothing to do with her ex, anyways, the stories changed alot. I finally blew up after she said she was calling another guy "babe" and saying "I love you" with hearts. They broke up a week ago. I got fed up and yelled at her, and now she's playing victim. AITA?

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