it could be sleeping earlier or completing homework share a small victory
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picture this; I'm in fifth grade and playing dodgeball, one of the last few kids on my team. I was facing off against one of the sportsy girls with a good throwing arm. I was lacking in the catching and throwing skills. she threw the ball, I caught it, she was out. I felt powerful.
So my dad's horse turned really quickly and snapped part of the saddle and my dad fell off and we couldnt use the saddle. And I fixed the 2,000 dollar saddle without buying anything! I freaking loved myself. My dad did end up not being able to walk well for a while tho, but hey.... I fixed the saddle!!!!
First time since the beginning of the year, all my grades are 90 or higher
My grade in math is going up. I also still have one friend even though we haven't seen each other in a year
That is the best I got lmao. Life is not working out like I planned
I had a big self-growth moment. I kept trying to hold onto people in relationships and friendships that weren't giving me the same energy. I realized, and I took a step back. I have quite a few less "friends" now, but all of my friends are in my life because they want to be, not because I kept clinging to them and trying to force the relationship.
Two small victories
1) I finally figured out how to make an overeasy egg without breaking the yolk
2) I completed the Pokedex on a game of Pokemon I've been playing since 2015
I talked on RAINN.org about something that happened to me a year ago, still trying to figure out what to do from here, but it's the first time I've really talked about it to someone with any expertise on the subject