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Sorry if this is a weird ask, I’m planning to come out as genderfluid. 2 of my best friends already know and my ex-best friend was super transphobic, so I’m scared.

My best friend calls me el, as my name is Eleanor. I’ve thought of Elliot and Ellis and I kind of like them, but I want something that starts with el or ends with el.

Also, I’m so scared to come out I don’t want to deal with judgement or bullying or anything.

Again, sorry if this is weird or too personal, but I need help!

#1

Ela, Elly, Elli, Elia, Elyn, Elee, Elier, Elif, Eldin, Elai, Hazel, Axel, Gael, Ariel, Cael, Jael, Mel.

Hope this helps, I hope everything goes well with coming out, I know you will be ok, and your ex-best friend doesn't deserve you:)

Have a great day!

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#2

Just do it
Whats your ex-best friend gonna do, have different views?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know she does, but she said really mean things, and this is the first fight we’ve ever had, and we were so close for the first 12 years of my life, and me being genderfluid doesn’t hurt her but the things she said really hurt me. You have a point tho