Hey Pandas, What Was Your One Decision Which Completely Flipped Your Life? (Closed)

Tell about any decision that changed your whole life, whether positively or negatively.

Optional: Whether you may want to suggest it to others or not!

I quit doing d***s!!! I went from an angry depressed girl to a happy well adjusted recently married woman!!! It'll be 6 years in August.... I'm sooooooo proud of me!

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Nichole Harris

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volcanic_larva3 8 months ago

be proud of yourself for overcoming that👍

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I moved away from my abusive, toxic family. It was truly life changing.

My new home was - is - so quiet, so welcoming, and so comfortable. No yelling, no arguing, no slammed doors at 6 A.M, no walking on eggshells. Nobody to constantly criticize me or call me names. And I can finally sleep at will. It took me about one year to relax and process all that.

I realized I had always been on survival mode, and this took a huge toll on me. I do regret not moving away sooner.

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Alexia

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Lyn Starsblood (she/her) 8 months ago

Good on you!

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I completed a comprehensive course of cognitive therapy. It took me most of a year and cost me heaps but it was worth every dollar. Changed my attitudes and thinking radically. Family and friends told me how changed I was. It was genuinely life changing and life saving.

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14points

WordWeaver

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Me, Myself, and I (She/Her) 8 months ago

Congratulations!!!!

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Adopting my rabbit. It's one thing to not take care of myself, but he gives me the motivation to do positive things so that I'll be around to take care of him. He makes me so happy and makes me feel loved, and not alone.

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12points

Firstname Lastname

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Rita Hatch 8 months ago

My sister adopted a rabbit, too. Since having him, my sister is so much happier and less anxious about things. He’s been a true life-saver for her.

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The day I adopted my first kitten. She kept me sane, loved and protected from dragons. I awoke from a nightmare with her curled up on my chest. She crossed the rainbow bridge over 20 years ago and I still miss her so much

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Julia H

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MeMyself&I (She/Her) READ BIO 8 months ago

im sorry for your loss, it sounds like she had an amazing life!

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At the age of 59 1/2 I got sober. I lost 35 pounds, I exercise like an athlete, got new "pretty" tattoos, feeling like I should feel!

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Rudo

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Nichole Harris 8 months ago

Sooooooo proud!

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I was living in a passive aggressive relationship with a guy much older than me (I was 23). Once again he had arranged to go away for the weekend without me but, expected me to do the weeks food shopping. When he went away he refused to pay anything towards the food shopping as he was going to be away for the weekend despite earning far more than I did. This was in the pre-internet time when phone dating was still a thing. I rang one of those premium rate numbers knowing that my so called partner paid for the phone bill but, was too lazy to check it. The man whose number I found when I rang him was out for the evening. I almost threw his number away but then decided not to. I rang again the following night and we spent most of the weekend together. I was 23 then and we were still together when he died 32 years later. The best phone call I ever made in my life.

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Keith Lancaster

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Julia H 8 months ago

I'm sorry he passed. 32 years of great memories though.

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Used to get 5 hours of sleep daily because I would stay up really late online. Like, extremely late. I got 6 hours of sleep today? Ha, I slept in. Finally went to bed at a decent time, got 8 hours. Just... wow. Sleep really makes a difference guys. If you're able to, GET ENOUGH SLEEP.

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ThatGirlCalledWren

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volcanic_larva3 8 months ago

sleep is the oxygen of the brain ~me

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Joining the Navy. I am intelligent, but I was very lazy in school and did the bare minimum to get by, all the way through.
One year of college, and I discovered that my strategy (bare minimum) didn't work. Almost 19, no prospects, 1968, Vietnam (!). So, I joined the Navy, and discovered that if I tried the bare minimum strategy there, they could and would punish me for it: pay forfeiture, restriction, extra duty, ultimately an other than honorable discharge. So, I grew up, started to do my work, got advanced in rating, made Chief Petty Officer, was promoted to Chief Warrant Officer (in the US Navy this is a commissioned officer in a technical specialty; in other navies it is not). Retired at 38. I've had other jobs since, but now I am comfortably retired, can travel, enjoy my life.

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8points

Robert Trebor

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Mimi M 8 months ago

Thank you for your service and I'm sure you are a role model for others as well.

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#10

Standing up for myself. I got out of my abusive household, distanced myself from 'friends', found a community that respects and loves me. I feel more myself than I've ever been. I'm happy, safe, and healing. It's worth it to keep going. The best is yet to come.

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Harvey

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#11

1977, Dallas Texas. 20 years old. I'd been in TX 4 years and was headed nowhere. I was raised to be a country club trophy wife and I learned nothing of life. Then 3 years of trying to make it on my own. So I broke free and joined the Air Force and became a 2 engine jet mechanic for 10 years. Changed my life and made my ADHD useful. (not diagnosed until late 50's).

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Vermonta

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#12

I was in a s****y job with a small flat, away from my wife when Covid struck. We were together for fifteen years - married for five and had already planned to move together in a few years. As the pandemic started I immediately quit my job and moved to my wife. Best decision ever! :)

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Rizzo

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#13

Recovered from alcohol addiction

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Ryan H

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Rostit.. . 8 months ago

good job Ryan. you are worth it.

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#14

Took a chance, quit my job and joined the military at 32. Been in 12 years now and have zero regrets. Before I joined I managed a pet food/supply store and would have had to work until I dropped d**d. Now I'm building a pension and have done and seen some amazing things/places and met some great people.

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R.C.

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Mimi M 8 months ago

Thank you for your service.

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#15

Got a divorce from someone who was abusive for years, lived by myself for a bit over a year (enjoyed my freedom immensely), but then made the mistake of getting into a relationship again, and now my life is a mess. She's basically very irresponsible, drinks too much, insults me and thinks it's ok, never apologises, and spends money like it's water, so now I'm bankrupt, unemployed, and being bullied by a drama queen, and can't afford to move anywhere else or even sleep in my car. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, look before you leap.

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censorshipsucks

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Rostit.. . 8 months ago

to clarify , I booked a plane ticket at 11 at night for a flight at 2:30am and used my last $20 to take a cab to the airport. I went from having a full on fiance', apartment, jeep and future with a narcissistic abusive alcoholic addict who was a pile of fun(but terrible). to sleeping on my parents couch in the basement with no job and no prospects. Best thing I ever did. 6 mo later I was employed and living on my own. That lasted a while longer until I met my now wife who is nothing like my ex but in all the right ways.

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#16

After dropping out of college due to money issues and about 5 years of dead end jobs. I decided one day that I hated my life and went and visited an Army recruiter. I spent 4 years in the Army and hated it, but it allowed me to finished my degree and I started a successful career in IT when I got out.

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James Paull

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Mimi M 8 months ago

The military can have some a-holes, but it's also full of some of the best people you will ever meet. And it can really help people. Thank you for your service.

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#17

Saw two guys across the hall from my office at work doing something interesting (they were working in a clean room). Picked the name of one of them from their door plate and emailed him to ask what he was doing because it was interesting. Later on I married the man that replied and we've been together almost 20 years and had one lovely daughter.

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EJ Author

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#18

going back to college. hadn't intended to return but my then husband who was attending college had made a couple of back-handed comments on how i wouldn't be able to do it. made me mad. got even more angry when he refused to help allocate any funds for my return but we still had funds for him to go and do things with his buddies. came up with a crazy plan that i would raise the first semester tuition and books by participating in a craft fair held by my mom's church and then apply for all grants/scholarships that i could and work part time in-between. that craft fair raised the money for the tuition, books and enough for a cup of coffee. was terrified the first day as i had never had confidence in my academics in high school as well as being the only 'old fart' in most classes. how did it end? managed to graduate with three degrees as well as a prestigious award. the entire experience showed me that i was smarter than i thought, had more confidence than i thought, and that i could achieve my goals. it was also when i realized while i had been taught that i should try not to lose my temper i learned that anger can make you stronger than you think you are and help you do amazing things...including learning that you don't need an anchor holding you down.

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talliloo

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LightYagami 8 months ago

Girl. Instead of having him tell u what to do, get a divorce or GET AWAY FROM HIM FOR A LONG LONG TIME! You do NOT need someone telling you what to do!

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#19

I moved abroad, which I had never considered before. I saw an ESL job posting, applied, sold everything, and was on a flight six weeks later.

Immediate effect: cut ties from an abusive "family" (zero contact), left dead end jobs, restart my life with a clean slate.

Twenty years later: I live fully "out" and date who I want, have a successful life, genuine friendships, and future possibilities in other countries.

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Guess Undheit

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#20

I joined my school's GSA! I was bullied until grade 10, and now I’m part of the leadership team

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Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish)

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Briards Are Best 8 months ago

Excuse my ignorance - GSA?

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#21

My other was leaving the family at age 16 1/2 after finishing high school. Home was an abusive, toxic mess for many years and I couldn't cope. I divorced the majority of them in a fashion but regret losing both my Aunt and Grandmother. I found Nan later in life and had valuable time with her before she passed. I learned from a neighbour of my Aunt that she had followed me on social media for some years and was immensely proud of what I had accomplished. She, too, had sadly passed. Those were my only regrets and I live quietly now as a self-imposed orphan.

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Briards Are Best

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#22

Moved 4 hours from the guy I had been dating for 6 years. He found someone else and I met the man I've just celebrated a 41st anniversary with - win, win.

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Robin Roper

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#23

I feel in love for the first time at 16.

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Kim Shannon

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censorshipsucks 8 months ago

That's super early, in my opinion. It didn't happen to me till I was 25.

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#24

At the end of my first degree I had two solid offers on the table. I opted for one and it led me down a very interesting path but also changed my entire perspective on humanity and the world. I believe I am the cynical, sarcastic person I am today because of those experiences. Regrets? Maybe a few, but far too late now to worry about them.

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Briards Are Best

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#25

This might seem weird to some but becoming a Christian changed my whole life for the better. I've been som much happier since and truly enyoy life. I have a great job on a farm and a great family and even though there's still very hard times it's been great

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Colorado_mountain boy

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The Thumbs Up Dude 8 months ago (edited)

bruh who the heck down voted this, honestly good for you

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#26

Tried sailing 3 years ago now I’m on my schools sailing team and can’t wait for the next season 10000% don’t regret trying it!!!!

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TheRealFrappuchinoTheHedgehogr

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censorshipsucks 8 months ago

sailing is great fun but I capsize so often I once got hypothermia.

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Sweet Taurus 8 months ago

The best decision I ever made was finally moving away from my hometown. It took me a little over 30 years to do it but it was absolutely worth it. Moved somewhere I knew absolutely no one but the best part was absolutely no one knew me either. I was able to figure out who I wanted to be in life and became her. Now I'm in my first healthy relationship with a stable life filled with so much love, happiness, support and joy! My only regret was not doing in sooner in life. I guess if I had I wouldn't have met my soulmate though!

BigBuckler 8 months ago

Myself & Wife moving outside the U.S.,back to where our early years framed both our futures.More at peace and we actually feel,not just recall, younger than we really are.It was an very healthy decision.

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Jessica SpeLangm 8 months ago

Met and married my husband of 20+ years in 2003. We were similar in both being rather "socially akward", but we have a great life and neither one of us "wears the pants" in the family so we communicate with each other and neither one is the sole decision maker like my mom is.

Hey Pandas, What Was Your One Decision Which Completely Flipped Your Life? (Closed)

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