My mom telling me that I’m a horrible person during the middle of a fight. It basically affirmed everything that I am afraid of. She said that I was just like my grandmother (an horrid person, narcissist, and pathological liar). I really don’t want to be another horrible person out in the world.

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She doesn’t actually mean that, trust me. When people are in the middle of a super heated intense argument, they tend to say stuff that isn’t said for truth but to hurt you. It’s not true. Even the best kindest people do this, it’s really about just tryna win the fight. You are not a horrible person, you are amazing and slay (srry ik I’m weird but like you are) don’t forget it!!!!

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One day at the end of the school year, one of my friends hurried over to me in the morning and told me that two kids had been talking about me on the bus ride to school, about how I was annoying. I acted like it was no big deal but it was devastating, as I thought those kids had been my friends. I’m known as the loyal, friendly, funny person, and it felt like they were just laughing at how hard I try to make people feel like they have another friend to go to if they need someone.

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i know how you feel dude. i was left out cuz i was the hyper "annoying" kid. i kinda changed my personality to fit society's standard and got some friends back who left me for being too annoying (NEVER change your personality for others i learnt this the hard way because yes, i got friends, but not real friends, besides, i was so drained after talking to them. i bet ur a GREAT person and your personality is beautiful :D) i had found some friends who actually liked me for me and i promise you, when you have found your gang, you will feel like you belong.

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I think mine was when my therapist told me that I was making family too important.
My family is my life.
It was very hard to except that I needed to outgrow them in some ways and fight for myself sometimes.

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That I'm a control freak. I always knew I start to internally panic a little if I feel like situations are out of my control, but I never really realized how that came across to others.

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Or maybe, you aren't a control freak, you just feel like you can't trust others to take care of you...that you have to do it yourself or you will get hurt?

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That I’m extremely annoying and obnoxious. Maybe that’s why I don’t have any friends, because I drive people crazy when I’m being annoying and obnoxious. That’s why I’m not popular at school, because I suck, and maybe I should stop being alive so that people will be glad that I’m dead.

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I don't think that's the truth. I think that is a lie. You are amazing! Don't tell yourself that you are annoying, tell yourself that you are unique and work to find people who will love that uniqueness. All of us at BP love it already!

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