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Hey Pandas, What Are You Insecure About?

A safe space to open up about our insecurities, because I've found talking to people about mine helped me to overcome them.

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#1

I’m a bit curvy and feminine-looking. I hate it. I’ve tried (diy) binders and oversized clothing but it doesn’t really help my dysphoria. I might get some surgeries when I’m 18+ to help me look less feminine. I’m trying to let my parents go thrifting alone with my friends so I can (possibly) get an actual binder or smthn. They’re pricey though and im just a broke 13 yr old, I barely have $10. I have no idea what to do.

Final score:

8points

Lex <3 (they/them)

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#2

Hahaha better question is what am I not insecure about? (Answer: absolutely nothing)

Final score:

8points

#3

I’m insecure about my face and the fact that I might do terrible in my exams

Final score:

7points

Stardust she/her

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#4

My weight and my gender. No wonder I suffer from an eating disorder and have horrible gender dysphoria.

Final score:

7points

Charlie Spring Fan (He/Him)

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#5

Too many things to list all of them lol. My s****y social skills and body have been the worst lately tho

Final score:

5points

《~ ɴɪᴋᴋɪ ~ 》

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#6

I’m insecure that everyone knows things that I don’t or like if there is some unwritten social code that I don’t know about. I’m also insecure because I’m in an all girls school and my parents won’t let me shave my legs

Final score:

5points

One Happy Doggo

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#7

i'm kinda short, but other than that not much

Final score:

4points

The Strange Man🦆

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#8

I'm a guy, my hieght is 168cm (5'6") I have always been insecure about my height since a lot of women are taller than that, at least where I live.

I have a benign essential tremor, so I am always insecure about how I look when doing basic tasks like, drinking coffee or writing.

Final score:

4points

TheSilentEngineer

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#9

A lot of things, to be fair. First off, my hairy arms. I can't stand them at all, and it makes me feel happier with looser shirt sleeves. Next off, my legs. I don't like how it feels that they grow in size every dang time I sit down on something. Last but not least... my double chin. I genuinely hate it, I feel so ugly because of it.

Final score:

4points

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#10

I’m insecure that my online and irl friends are mad at me / they hate me.
I’m also insecure that I’m tall (I want to change body’s with a short person)

Final score:

4points

Ralsei Da GoatBirb

#11

My belly, my hands a little bit, boobs, chin, birthmarks/moles, and I used to be insecure of my nose but eh idc about it anymore.

Final score:

3points

#12

I overthink a lot about random stuff

Final score:

2points

#13

my shortness and my nails :")) i chew my nails a bunch soo

Final score:

2points

#14

I’m incredibly insecure about my intelligence, height (5’2f it could be worse), my body (I’m trying to feel better about my self but it’s a process), whether or not my friends really care about me, or what will happen if I’m completely honest with them about my opinions.
My bf (I love him very much) has assured me that I’m amazing and loved, but it’s hard to believe it sometimes.
The hardest one for me is definitely intelligence. My parents have made past comments implying that I and my siblings aren’t as bright as our relatives, and even my bf once made a random comment that unintentionally made me feel bad about it. I’m currently taking the hardest classes I can in school (IB) to try to prove to myself and those around me that I’m smart. I don’t care if it destroys me along the way.

If you read this, please don’t worry about me. I recently got a therapist I can talk these things over with.

Final score:

2points

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#15

My face.

I have a cleft lip, an underbite, my nose is flat, my mouth is always gaping open, I hate my side profile, I just don’t like my face.

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0points

#16

Occasionally my upper body depending on if I’m feeling more masculine or feminine (I get both gender dysphoria and no gender dysphoria! Yay…plus a bonus of not knowing what to wear to make me feel comfortable everyday), whether or not I’m dumb, insane trust issues from past experiences, and hating myself every afternoon!

Final score:

0points

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#17

My body. In middle school I was considered thick when I weighed in at 135 lbs. I hat our society

Final score:

0points

#18

Letting people down. Now that I'm retired, I wanted to start a part time business but I'm afraid of letting potential clients down by not being perfect and getting horrible ratings and REALLY failing. I retired from a job that was the same for 30 years and you follow a flowchart with no deviation. Glad to be away from there!

Final score:

0points

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#19

My novels, my friendships, my body (I'm a little cubby), my face (I have pimples and scabs, I hate puberty), my sexualities, etc.

Final score:

0points

Satanist Goth (She/Her)

#20

My acne, my pimply arms, my face,my stretch marks on my stomach, and my weight.

Final score:

0points

SpaceAlienCat (They/Them)

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Diana Lopetaitė

Hey there, Pandas! My name is Diana (though some prefer to refer to me as Diane, Deanna, and even Liana sometimes), and I am a Community Post Moderator Lead for Bored Panda. As my position title states, I am one of the people (employed Pandas for bamboo) over here who work with the community side of things on this website to ensure all is well, and while at that, I also help various creators and artists get recognition for the incredible work they do by connecting them to a large worldwide audience. Other than that, outside of work, you can find me brewing a nice cup of coffee, making a pizza from scratch, or baking brownies. I also love traveling, concerts, and cats (heavy on that, because I am a cat mom).

Hey there, Pandas! My name is Diana (though some prefer to refer to me as Diane, Deanna, and even Liana sometimes), and I am a Community Post Moderator Lead for Bored Panda. As my position title states, I am one of the people (employed Pandas for bamboo) over here who work with the community side of things on this website to ensure all is well, and while at that, I also help various creators and artists get recognition for the incredible work they do by connecting them to a large worldwide audience. Other than that, outside of work, you can find me brewing a nice cup of coffee, making a pizza from scratch, or baking brownies. I also love traveling, concerts, and cats (heavy on that, because I am a cat mom).

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