Almost everyone has an "embarrassing" or "stupid" question they are too hesitant or shy to ask because they feel as if they are going to be called unintelligent. This post allows you to ask these questions, such as about puberty. There are some rules though.

The rules are 1. No question is stupid, inappropriate, yes, but not stupid. 2. No negativity, bullying, or name-calling. 3. Don't forget to answer some of these questions.

#1

There's a guy that I *might* like at school, but I'm straight and I don't know if they're a boy, or actually a they/them. How can a ask for pronouns without sounding rude?

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Jennifer .S
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly just being like 'Wanna make sure I know people's pronouns. What do you use?' is gonna be more direct and respectful than trying to engineer a scenario for them to come up

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#2

Is friendship a real thing or only in movies?

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#3

Any "who would win" question between two or more fictional characters. I'm a huge fantasy and sci-fi fan.

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#4

How do you actually know you have a crush? Like, I've said I had crushes before but how do you actually know? Like how do you know it's not just a strong friendship?

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RandomBeing
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It can be hard and not everybody can tell easily or even gets crushes. Just dont worry about it. If you want to pursue a romantic relationship with somebody then thats a crush i suppose. If not then friendship. Just remember that feelings don't have to be clear cut or obvious.

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