Hey Pandas, Share Your Relationship Fears (Closed)

I'm curious about your concerns or fears regarding relationships.

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Losing them in any way, death, abandonment ect.

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Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis

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Danish Susanne 9 months ago

When you get to be 70 like me, and have already lost your father, your husband and a sister to the grim reaper, the biggest fear is losing more. Somehow it is also frightening to die yourself and leave your family and friends to grieve.

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that I will never be good enough to provide the life they want or desire. It eats at me every second of every day

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Nickie Chan

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Me not being good enough for them. I'm afraid they'll find a funnier or more lively partner.

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apolegjm158

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I fear that I'll encounter the same emotional abuse and toxicity I witnessed in my parents' relationship. Some time ago I have decided that I'd be better single and safe.

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Alexia

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my biggest fear is, him walking out on me and my kids. It's an irrational fear, but still a fear.

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Miss Pierce

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Standard woman fears. Murder, rape, abuse Followed by manipulation I don't catch. I do not care what your intentions were. Do not lie to me like I'm a child. Keep secrets, I don't really care, so long as it doesn't impact our/my financial life, or have any bearing on our relationship, I don't care. Sneak food on the way home? Don't care. But lie to me to keep me to intentionally keep me in the dark about something about me, or my reality, I will never ever trust you again. Nothing. Lie to me about when the baby starts walking, or other incredibly patronizing c**p, we're done. Don't lie to me to 'keep me happy'. Smacks of no respect.

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Helena

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I'm terrified that I might develop a medical condition or get hurt and leave my partner burdened with having to care for me instead of living their life.

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2points