Is this just an excuse for me to complain to internet strangers? Yes. Do I also want to hear whatever you guys have to complain about? Also yes.

#1

I hate the way education is being done. I don’t even need to understand what I’m learning, as long as my memory is good I can memorise the whole text book and score well in the exam without knowing what I’m writing. It’s so stupid! I also want to complain about how it feels like my brain isn’t on my side. Things are going well for me yet I still feel anxious all the time which has started affecting my ability to work and do assignments and I’m not able to concentrate on things easily. I also cry for stupid reasons and it’s caused so much irritation for me and everyone around me

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fair_weather_rose (she/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. I was at a private school that focused on actually learning and understanding stuff for most of my life, and when I switched to public school I was shocked. It's all just "memorize this" and "google the answers to that" and I feel like I just don't understand anythin. Do have a decent grade in biology? Yes. Do I understand literally anything about biology? Definitely not. And while I might not know your exact situation, I definitely understand feeling like your brain is working against you. Do you have a therapist, and if not, is therapy an option for you? I know it doesn't work for everyone, but sometimes it really helps to have someone to talk to who can give you tips on how to manage things better. I really hope you feel better mentally soon, and I'm sending you some virtual hugs <3

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    #3

    Fireworks at midnight. Need I say more?

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    Stardust she/her
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens a lot during Diwali. It’s a miracle I’m even able to sleep during those nights

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    #4

    I would like to complain about my wrist. Yes, I'm sure you've all heard me complain about it before (probably way to many times, so I'm sorry, and if you want to skip this entire thing and ignore me thats totally fine) but it really does hurt a lot and I feel like a lot of people irl just keep glossing over it like it's nothing. A bunch of people, mostly neighbors and friends of my mom, have been saying that they've experienced similar things and that it was totally fine and went away on its own (which is definitely not going to happen to me) and other people keep trying to diagnose me based on basically no information. Someone even suggested that I should try a fat-free diet to reduce inflammation and that would fix it?? I'm just very frustrated because this is the longest I've gone without drawing anything in my entire life. I'm also kind of scared that I might need surgery, or that it's something that's not fixable and I'll never be able to draw again. Anyway, sorry for the rant, and thank you for coming to my pity party :)

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    Red Lotus 🪷
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear, I hope your wrist gets better soon 🩵 I felt like you were kind of missing these days, since I usually see a lot of your comments but now there were practically none. Jefferina/ Tuesday and Susan Abbott are both offline, I thought you had gone too so I considered taking a break from BP since there was almost nothing happening 😅. Hope you can start drawing again, as an artist I also know how frustrating it is to not be able to draw.

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    #5

    Fed up of the trolls on this site. Those that think they are allowed to post hateful and bigoted nonsense because that is their opinion or it is just a joke.

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    K- THULU
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep.....after what I was called last week they can all fk off....

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    #7

    People coming to a complete stop before turning.

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    #8

    Overall I'm doing great, I'm working for my summer camp and teaching little kids new things. The counselor I'm working with told me today that I'm an amazing volunteer and she looks forwards to working with me as a counselor, and she'd be happy to write me a reference, and it isn't the first time counselors have said stuff like that to me. This is really the place where I become the best version of myself. The only issue is that my f*****g brain still has problems and has decided to have a mental breakdown nightly and my anxiety makes it so I can't do storytelling or lead camp songs with the kids, which I absolutely want to do. At this point, the maybe autism thing isn't even scaring me that much because I can absolutely be myself at camp and it only makes me a better counselor. The kids love learning about plants and plant identification, and my need for routine and planning is both helpful and completely provided for by the camp. Everything should be perfect and to be honest everything is, my brain just refuses to function correctly. I definitely don't need help here, I'm really doing great, it's just frustrating and I wish I had medication so I could be a better volunteer and a better version of myself.

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    mysterious(all pronouns)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad that your experience is going so well, also I don't know if this helps or not, but little kids won't care if you make a mistake when you tell a story or lead a song. They're very forgiving, especially if they like you and are having fun.

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    #9

    I hate my life :D jkjkjkjkjk

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    #10

    Can’t comment currently(I also put it in my bio) so just wanted to say sorry to Fairweather about what I posted, I’ll post my hatred elsewhere. Don’t worry it’ll probably only last for like a day more or two. I’m usually a chill guy, but that time just pushed all my buttons, I’ll try to be nicer tho. Sorry again. I’m prepared for this to be downvoted. I’ll complain to myself in my head because that’s the only place I can complain without being yelled at and downvoted! K Gunzo out!

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    #11

    School is about to start back, so goodbye freedom and hello boost of crippling anxiety

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    #12

    The downvotes. I’ve gotten so many. I’m not particularly rude. I mostly question things, I mean..just read my bio. Also I have to put that what I’m about to say is a “dirty joke” and tell people who don’t like that humor to ignore it, because I’m afraid of being downvoted. The downvotes are insane! Crowspectre went on a rant about his/her/their/it’s sexual identity and I summed it up to “so..you’re gay” because that’s EASIER TO UNDERSTAND. I’m not being rude, but I don’t understand all the other words..like transmasculine? Idk what the heck that means?! Things are so complicated now, you can’t blame me. Before it was Bisexual, Gay, Trans, and Lesbian. Those are easy enough..to understand. Now it’s all these big words and confusing things..I’m not gonna google what these all mean! No wonder the trolls downvote. And like I said in my bio. I WONT DOWNVOTE BACK. Which sucks for me and it’s great for you! Because you flood me with downvotes CONSTANTLY. Hell, this submission is gonna have at least 9! Val, what my parents think of me? First off, that’s none of your damn business. And second..they’d probably agree. Ok downvoters, have at me…

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    fair_weather_rose (she/they)
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of all, what I said on your other submission applies here as well. If you want to complain about other pandas, please do so elsewhere. Secondly, while I don't know enough about the situations you are referring to say anything specific, but I do know that, as someone who feels strongly about their own sexuality and gender identity, if someone tried to sum it up as "so you're basically gay" I would find that pretty offensive. If you don't understand something, you don't have to comment about it. You can always ask respectful questions if you're confused, or you could just avoid the topic altogether. A bit of advice that I gave to DP on multiple occasions is that before you make a comment, think of the ways that your words could be misunderstood. Maybe you don't mean to sound offensive, but words can get twisted easily. If you are unable to remain respectful and kind, I would like to request that you refrain from posting or commenting on my post.

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