We all make mistakes. If life had a ctrl-z button, what one thing would you like to undo?
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The Trump Presidency
he says a lot about how he's received so many votes, but really the fact that he lost just means more people voted against him than against any other president in history
The time I said “thank you, you too” to my waiter after he told me to have a good meal.
I’ve had a lot of shitty things happen, but I think they helped make me who I am today, so I don’t think I’d redo anything.
Nothing! Good and bad are mixed up, and I could undo something wonderful by undoing something bad!
2020
10 years ago today I was going to pick up my delayed Christmas present for my parents but a friend texted me on my way home and I ended up in the pub. I'd undo that and carry on with my original plan to go round to see my parents.
My dad had a heart attack 10 years ago today and died. My mum didn't have the strength to roll him over so couldn't perform CPR, she had to run and get a neighbour so he probably died alone. I should have been there but chose to go down the pub, it took me a while to stop blaming myself but I still regret it.
I would want to undo the destruction of all cultural artefacts, including languages lost, books burned, temples demolished, statues broken, painting destroyed etc. Imagine the wonders that we would still have with us!!
I would undo my mother’s horrible childhood. Not only did it affect her childhood it affected all 4 of her children’s childhood.
Sounds a bit like my mother - she had a difficult childhood. She had a lot of anger in her that came out easily and expected us to understand her (we were kids!). She was oversharing with one of my sisters when my sister was only 11 or 12 - turning a child into her confidante. My sister ended up feeling quite bad because she couldn't make my mother feel better. My mother should have seen a therapist instead of burdening a child.
All disease & sickness. Imagine a world without Cancer, Leukemia, Parkinson, Aids
Ect...
Being unpleasant or mean to people I care about because of how I’ve been treated when I was young. It’s hardly an excuse, it’s everyone’s responsibility to grow and learn. I’m still struggling but I know in my heart how to do right.
You’re clearly on your way to a better life and a better you. Can you take solace in that?
My dog and cat dying. I still cry over it to this day.
The loss of our furry friends can be very difficult. ... Hugs to you.
Anything that I may have said that could have been harmful or hurtful, especially to family.
Taking that first prescribed oxycontin.
Did you become addicted? I had some for recovery after knee surgery and it was nice, but mostly it was effective. I gave the left overs to my mother who has terrible neuralgia. That said, I had issues with cocaine for a decade or so. I never went so far as to sell things to buy it, but I also didn’t save any money either.
I would have undone the first time I self-harmed. Regretting it more and more.
Middle school/highschool
Just to undo some mistakes that were overly bad
Trump existing (-.-)/
I believe that each human life, no matter who they are, matters and should be valued. Just because Trump has not done a great job in the white house doesn't mean he is a terrible person who should not exist.
Me being irresponsible on the internet at a young age discovering things I shouldn't have.......*shakes*
I would stop the release of the COVID-19 virus from the Wuhan Institute of Virology.
One more wish, I would like to bring back the species that went extinct because of us...Dodos, Thylacines, Aurochs, Woolly Mammoths alongside thousands of species of insects, plants and birds.
My whole life...
I hear you, I turn 70 in March and have thought this same thought for most of those years. Had I known I would last this long I would have continued to drink and smoke, I quit back in 1978.
Nothing.
I'm mental ill, severe anxiety, panic attacks, PTSD and a tenuous grip on reality, where I even drilled a hole(dremel) in my head to get the other me to leave (didn't work). We mostly get on now.
But like it or not this is me. And if I change anything, then I would be someone else and as tempting as that may sound, what if I like him less.
My first marriage. Neither of us knew how to be married, and I spent most of it feeling betrayed.
While very sleepy which when I’m tired I can’t really like idk how to explain it said something very very mean to a kid who I recently rejected cuz I wasn’t ready to date yet and I just wanted to be friends like he’s super nice and funny but at like 1 I get a text from his brother saying why wouldn’t you go out with ___ and i said I’m not ready and like he’s just not my type so he asked wdym I explained and in the process accidentally said something really mean which I regret so so much
instead of my other answer (which idk how to delete) i would undo every hateful comment and action ever done to anyone (unless they trully deserved it)
I would have tried harder talking to may parents about it and would’ve gotten an earring as a higher school guy before a career could get in its way.
my birth
someone already said this lmao, sorry it's not letting me delete this. you didn't have to downvote it...
definitely all religions that fool people
I would undo being so afraid to spend the money to go to school. I love school and feel like I could have given my family a whole different life if I hadn't been so afraid to go into debt.
What do you like about school? Your local library may have connections to free online classes. There are also inexpensive online classes (such as through Udemy, edX, Lynda.com, etc.). If you enjoy learning with other people, there may be classes given via Zoom, MS Teams, Webex and other meeting platforms. One of my friends watches a lot of documentaries. If you're interested in a particular, are there opportunities at your workplace? One of my colleagues was hired to write, but was interested in graphic design. I encouraged him and showed him a few tricks in MS Word. He didn't become a graphic designer, but it made his work more enjoyable.
My second husband. This man destroyed my life. When we got divorced,I had to completely rebuild my life. I wish I had never met him.
My first two marriages. Absolute disasters. Can't believe I put off college for that bullsh*t.
Wasting all those hours and hours watching TV!
My grandfathers death. The last time i saw him was walking out of ChuckECheese after my baby brothers bday (I was ten). He ran a successful company and had a lot of money. I and my cousin asked him for money to buy a big prize. We didn’t use it all and my mom angrily said to give my grandfather the money that i had left back. I threw a little fit, but reluctantly gave it back. He died of a heart attack that night. I feel so guilty because i feel like the last time i saw him, all i was thinking about was myself. Also because in my younger years i saw my grandparents as nothing but a source of money. I cry about it often.
When I said bye I love you to my school secretary in grade 3
What’s the matter with that? I loved the hell out of my elementary school lunch lady. Even sang “l’ll make love to you” by boys 2 men to her. Didn’t know what it meant of course.
stupid things i did when i was little. also 2020.
All the things I regret doing
i don´t know what is worse.. to regret doing something or to forever wonder "what if i have done it"
i would love to undo my decision to get back to a guy in 2011 and to undo dec 2018 thru may 2019 - been thru hell...
I’d be pressing Alt-Ctrl-Del.
There are always times when I fell like I could go back and do things again, but all our mistakes help us grow, and happiness wouldn’t exist without embarrassment, pain, sadness, guilt etc.