Hey Pandas, I Need Advice About My Long-Distance Boyfriend (Closed)

#1

So... you have a long-distance-relationship and you don't even talk anymore. Looks like there isn't much of a relationship. A break-up probably isn't even necessary, but if it makes you feel better go ahead.

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Pam McDougall 3 months ago

He's already broken-up with you. He's young and doesn't know how to tell you that he's moved on.

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#2

You had a boyfriend (briefly). You are now single. You just haven’t realized it yet.

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Laurete Seiu 4 weeks ago

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I met my wife when I was 21. We did start with a long-distance relationship. And that went on for a while, almost 3 years (with some visits between). That needed constant care, a lot of trust...and also a lot of work at times to keep us going. We had to make time to contact. Yes, there are e-mails, text messages as well. But a phone call (or facetime etc.) is important. Because of the time difference that was sometimes at inconvenient times like 3am. But we did and made it work.

Of course we were 2-3 years older than you guys. But still: if I read/hear that he really can't/won't talk for so long....it's probably not a good sign. You can make it work, but it's not easy. But if both sides are willing to, it will work out. But the signs here do not look great. At least on his account. If not with a phone call, there are plenty of other options for him to contact and text/talk/write to you. It just doesn't feel like he's willing to make it work. I'm sorry to say...

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Laurete Seiu 2 months ago

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Unfortunately I think your bf has already moved on. I think for yourself the best thing to do right now is breakup and move on as well.
10 minutes a week is not a relationship. If he wanted to be in the relationship he would make time for you whether he was working or not.

Do what is best for yourself!

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Laurete Seiu 4 weeks ago

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#5

"I've been thinking about breaking up with him."
Go head and break it off. He's probably waiting for you to do it because he's too chicken to do it himself.
It sounds to me as if you have good communication skills. Now you need to learn the signs that you're wasting your time - and this is an opportunity to grow. Your willingness to make a relationship work should be saved for someone else.

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Miriam Ava 1 month ago

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#6

10 minutes of texting a week???
Sorry, but he's just not that into you, and is too immature and chicken s**t scared to tell you. He'd rather just give you hints. He's a donkey. You won't even have to tell him anything. Just block him. He's already said 10 minutes of your time is too much.
Then blast "Deathhouse" by Sopor Aeturnus. It's a song about this exact scenario.

I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 years, so I know the hardships and emotional roller coasters, and the difficulties with having to work around time zones and personal schedules. If he was really wanting you in his life, he would make the effort.

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#7

You can't be this naive. Move on and don't allow people to treat you this way in the future.

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ESSILOR LUXOTTICA 2 weeks ago

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#8

I'm sorry but I think this is already over and your boyfriend is too chicken to tell you. Move on and don't let this put you off as ban one said it can work out if you both want it to.

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ESSILOR LUXOTTICA 2 weeks ago

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#9

Either your boyfriend is depressed, or moved on.

Personally, I would just tell him that you want a more committed relationship. What you want in your relationship is not going to be the same for someone else, and that's perfectly ok! Find someone who has the same values as you, and appreciates you for you.

Stay strong, and know we pandas are always there for you ❤️

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ESSILOR LUXOTTICA 2 weeks ago

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#10

I'm sorry to say have you never seen the show Catfish??

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

But catfish keep the lines going. They just make excuses to not reveal themselves too much.

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#11

Move on.

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#12

Were the three 3-hour calls a week monologues?

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#13

Long distance is not for everyone, maybe he realised it before you and now does not know how to let you off easily... Maybe you should do that, let him off easily

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#14

If you have to beg anyone for their time, they aren't worth your time! You are worth more than this. Move forward, move ahead, no looking back at this guy.

It's lucky he didn't ask you to start paying his phone payment so you could talk more. That's a pretty common con that's lots of people fall for, they need $ to come to the states, or they are sick, in jail, whatever.

At least he only took your time.

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Laurete Seiu 2 months ago

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#15

Long distance relationships rarely work: You grow apart. Especially at the late teen/early 20's stage.Your life REALLY hasn't even begun.

One of you will end up cheating. Break it off now.

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#16

Don't torture yourself for a relationship that's going nowhere. Cut him off and call it a day. You're young, you're going to meet a lot of great people. Don't be quick to isolate yourself for someone you haven't even met face to face.

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#17

My advice would be to focus on you. He's distracted by his dreams. Maybe dreams that he had before he met you. Give him some space and go after yours for now. If it's meant to be, he'll be back. If not, you'll find someone even better along the way.

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