I think I’m bi, but I don’t know if I really am. I’m scared that coming out. I might not be bi so how did you figure it out?

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Don't stress over it. Only you can answer the question. You'll figure it out eventually.
I'm straight but my a few of my friends in my generation had used the 'Bi-curious' label. I like it because it didn't tie them into anything they were not sure of.
Once they figured out who they were they changed their label to match. 2 Bi, 1 Gay and 2 straight. But they found the answer themselves.

Oh, and you don't have to match a letter to be part of the community. That's the best thing about inclusivity!

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    #2

    Because I realised I liked nobody. Ever.

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    #3

    I am a man. I am physically attracted to other men but indifferent towards women. So... Yeah, totally gay.

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    #4

    You never really know. It's more of an "I'm feeling like this..." thing than a sudden epiphany. You don't really KNOW until you find yourself in love with someone anyway.

    Random note: I have never been in a relationship, and somehow give good love advice. Confusing? Yes. Useful? Definitely.

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    #5

    I'm a chick. I knew I was bi the second I saw Sara Lance doing the salmon ladder on The Arrow.

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    #6

    I was always a bit different from all the girls in my class I was more masculine sometimes or more feminine and I found a label that fit me. Genderfluid!!

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