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Hey, Pandas, How Do I Get Over Someone?

i’ve tried to get over a guy for over a year now and it’s just not working. i have no chance with him and its low key making me a bit sad. Any tips would be appreciated :)

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#1

It takes time. Getting over anything is a process with various stages along the way. One day you will no longer feel the yearning that you feel now. It will pass. Remember every cloud has a silver lining

Final score:

4points

#2

You can use a ladder, or stairs, a step-stool, milk crate. Be creative because whoever said it takes time is right.

Final score:

3points

Leading-The-Banned

#3

What I do is I make a playlist about my sadness, then I draw something about my sadness while listening to that playlist. I write poems or make journal entries about it. Talk to a friend about it. Anything to pour those emotions out of my body and into the world somewhere.
I also find that keeping focused on something (take up a hobby, delve into your schoolwork or work work) and/or taking the time to try and work on yourself (mental/physical health and self-care and stuff)
I wish you luck, I’m kind of in the same situation right now :/ it sucks

Final score:

3points

Red PANda (she/they/he/ze)

#4

A little bit ago i had a very similar situation, I liked this one girl a lot and just couldn’t get over her. I had no chance for multiple reasons and i knew she didn’t like me back. What helped me start to move on was just straight up telling her how i felt because that cleared up any what ifs that may have been keeping me liking her.

Final score:

2points

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#5

I really liked a boy in my class, but he liked someone else who already had a boyfriend. He was a nice person, always polite to me, but just didn’t feel that way. It eventually faded for me after I’d left school. I met him 30 years later, I didn’t recognise him, he spoke to me, and…. Nothing. Just a fond memory. Time does heal.

Final score:

2points

#6

Find someone else to be interested in

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0points

#7

Date their dad

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0points

#8

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#8

Just do it

Final score:

-7points

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DustTea (she/her)

please, someone smother me with affection •16 •she/her •5’7 (woo) • I like to draw and read •my favorite band is Lovejoy •I’m tired all the time because of a vitamin deficiency but that’s okayy •pretty and handsome are two different things and are like being called both :] •I’m very extroverted and get very sad and drained if i go too long without people If you need to talk of vent, don’t hesitate to reach out to me. My email is available 🩷🩷 *mwah* when typing my name, just call me Dusty. it agrees with your keyboard a lot better lol (pfp is Wilbur Soot rn. please forgive me for changing my pfp a lot)

please, someone smother me with affection •16 •she/her •5’7 (woo) • I like to draw and read •my favorite band is Lovejoy •I’m tired all the time because of a vitamin deficiency but that’s okayy •pretty and handsome are two different things and are like being called both :] •I’m very extroverted and get very sad and drained if i go too long without people If you need to talk of vent, don’t hesitate to reach out to me. My email is available 🩷🩷 *mwah* when typing my name, just call me Dusty. it agrees with your keyboard a lot better lol (pfp is Wilbur Soot rn. please forgive me for changing my pfp a lot)

Diana Lopetaitė

Hey there, Pandas! My name is Diana (though some prefer to refer to me as Diane, Deanna, and even Liana sometimes), and I am a Community Post Moderator Lead for Bored Panda. As my position title states, I am one of the people (employed Pandas for bamboo) over here who work with the community side of things on this website to ensure all is well, and while at that, I also help various creators and artists get recognition for the incredible work they do by connecting them to a large worldwide audience. Other than that, outside of work, you can find me brewing a nice cup of coffee, making a pizza from scratch, or baking brownies. I also love traveling, concerts, and cats (heavy on that, because I am a cat mom).

Hey there, Pandas! My name is Diana (though some prefer to refer to me as Diane, Deanna, and even Liana sometimes), and I am a Community Post Moderator Lead for Bored Panda. As my position title states, I am one of the people (employed Pandas for bamboo) over here who work with the community side of things on this website to ensure all is well, and while at that, I also help various creators and artists get recognition for the incredible work they do by connecting them to a large worldwide audience. Other than that, outside of work, you can find me brewing a nice cup of coffee, making a pizza from scratch, or baking brownies. I also love traveling, concerts, and cats (heavy on that, because I am a cat mom).

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ｍƗ𝐍Ɨ 𝐓𝓱𝑒 𝐀𝐍𝕘𝑒ᒪ (𝒮𝒽𝑒/𝒯𝒽𝑒𝓂) 1 year ago

I wish I can help, but I can’t get over people too, like one person from 2021 I still can’t get over him..

2points

Pineapple 1 year ago

same except for me its a girl so yea hey cool we similar

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ｍƗ𝐍Ɨ 𝐓𝓱𝑒 𝐀𝐍𝕘𝑒ᒪ (𝒮𝒽𝑒/𝒯𝒽𝑒𝓂) 1 year ago

I wish I can help, but I can’t get over people too, like one person from 2021 I still can’t get over him..

2points

Pineapple 1 year ago

same except for me its a girl so yea hey cool we similar

2points

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