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Hello Pandas, help me out please, it's typical high school nonsense. There's this guy I have been having a crush on for the past two months. It's not my first time having a crush, I've had several and lost interest after a week or two. This time it's different. Now my problem is how to lose interest because that guy obviously doesn't feel the same and it's getting weird for me.
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#1
This won't help you but to answer the question.
My crush tried to run me over in his car kind of killed it stone dead for me.
Final score:
4points
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
He must've been crazy to do that. My high-school is mostly residential, so chances for something like that happening is low. But I got your point, know your guy before crushing on him.
Julie S (Submission author) 1 year ago
Me and a friend were walking into town which is about 20 minutes for my house and he mounted the pavement/sidewalk with his car came towards us we jumped back and he swerved away I don't think he was actually going to hit us just scare us I could see him laughing as he swerved away.
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#2
School helped all i focused on was grades so it just faded away.
Final score:
2points
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
I'm not really into studying, but I'm not bad at it. So that might work, thanks for your suggestion! Maybe it'll fade away soon.
Wubedhheij (Submission author) 1 year ago (edited)
I don't study, like school just tires me out so it helped a lot. But studying may work, i also did play games a lot so that did help.
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What I did when I was in school. I wrote my crush a letter and he talked to me after the period was over and told me in the nicest way possible that he's not interested in me. I said om and we stay friends ate that but I lost touch
Final score:
2points
Grumpyness24 1 year ago
Honestly, I'm considering the letter at this point because I can't get over it. Maybe at the end of the school year tho so I won't have to deal with the embarrassment :(
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
That's something im afraid of doing, cause if other students or teachers get to know about it, I'll be in trouble. My school is pretty strict in things like these. The students love gossiping about even simple things like this, and if a teacher overhears it, im done for. Also thanks for responding.
Child of the King (Submission author) 1 year ago (edited)
There are times you need to step out if your comfort zone. Trust me, I was nervous when I handed him the letter. But I was Ted to be honest. Or you could write him a letter but don't give it to him. Save it for years to come so you can look back on it
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I still haven't gotten over him. But I don't think he has, either.
Final score:
2points
#5
Forgive and forget
Final score:
1point
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
Its hard, but I won't be ever seeing him again once HS is over. Maybe it'll work out that way. Thanks for your reply.
#6
Avoid him as much as possible, and do lots of studying/sports/hanging out with your friends.
I met my crush 20 years later, and wondered why id been so enamoured.
Final score:
1point
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
He's in the same class as me. As for my friends, they always talk about him. Not cause they find him attractive, but because he's annoying (for them). Most students (excluding me) go to this famous entrance academy in the neighborhood, so they know him better. Meanwhile I like him because he's super curious about everything that's not his business, lol. And that's why my friends find him annoying.
#7
I had a few in High School. One I still sporadically think about whenever the subject of crushes comes up.
I crushed on her HARD, for about 2 years! She had a boyfriend most of that time, but near the end they broke up. I asked her out, she said no, nothing changed. I still fancied her, but knew where I stood.
The thing is, unless you ask, you don't truly know how someone feels. A girl I dated in secondary school later told me that she'd had a crush on me for a while before she eventually asked me out. She thought I wouldn't be interested, so never bothered. Then one day, when I complimented her t-shirt and she decided to... just ask.
Final score:
1point
Onyx Delson 1 year ago
Dating is not allowed in my school, it's not an official rule but, everyone knows it. Even the few couples in our school are very careful because of this.
What do you think ?
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
Repeat the facts to yourself. This is what I used to do. I would remind myself that it wasn't realistic to want someone who didn't have what I wanted in life (the top one being someone who wants me back!).
Red PANda (she/they) 1 year ago
Get out your feelings through creative expression. Make a playlist, listen to it, draw or write poems while listening to that playlist, make a journal entry. Creative expression definitely helped my mind process some things and while it didn’t fix it immediately, it helped a lot. Hope this helps!
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
Repeat the facts to yourself. This is what I used to do. I would remind myself that it wasn't realistic to want someone who didn't have what I wanted in life (the top one being someone who wants me back!).
Red PANda (she/they) 1 year ago
Get out your feelings through creative expression. Make a playlist, listen to it, draw or write poems while listening to that playlist, make a journal entry. Creative expression definitely helped my mind process some things and while it didn’t fix it immediately, it helped a lot. Hope this helps!
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