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My foster mom locks me out of the house all the time. So I get left out side the house :(
I overslept my entire childhood.
My family thought it was kinder to just let me sleep.
But that means that I slept through most holidays and even vacations.
I'd miss out on sleepy kids eating chocolate out of the stockings while mom made xmas breakfast.
I'd be left snoozing the in car when we pulled over to have a picnic at the beach.
As I got older, I'd BEG them to just wake me up, I wasn't the kind of kid who'd be awful first thing in the morning, so I never understood why they'd rather just let me sleep.
By the time I was in collage, I'd given up on being included in family things like that, but by then we'd stopped doing things together anyways.
At summer camp last year I thought I was part of a friend group but they purposefully removed one of the chairs that I was gonna sit at with them. They then just excluded me from basically everything
When my brother hangs out with my cousins, he usually bullies me until I get fed up and leave. The older cousin, girl, always tries to sneak away from him, to hang with me, but he always follows and repeats. When I brought it up to him, he played the martyr until my mother chewed me out.
Not that big of a deal, but years ago me and my friends were in this group/club thing, and we all had to have notebooks for it. Everyone had the same notebook so it was hard to tell if it’s yours unless you look on the inside, so me and my friends thought of a smart idea to decorate them, since we like arts & crafts. We asked our group leader if it was ok, and they approved. We couldn’t attend the next meeting because we all had different things planned that day, but the night before that meeting, the leader texted the group chat with everyone saying that they were ALL going to decorate their notebooks next meeting. Without us, the people who thought of the idea in the first place. It’s very irrelevant now but I still hold a teensy grudge to this day, it wouldn’t piss me off now but it sure pissed of little 11 year old me haha.
I had a group chat with my group of friends (who im not friends with anymore) and they talked about stuff like going to sleepovers together, going to the mall together, doing a bunch of stuff together and i'd be like "what time?" and they'd be like "oh i was thinking maybe it could just be a me and [name] and [name] thing, sorry. next time?" but there was never a next time.