Hi, I'm new to this and I'm pretty sure no one reads this but, I ask this question because I want to know how you found out and how you reacted.

#1

i found my ex lover kissing a girl i didn't know. And when I confronted him about it, we got into a huge fight and he ended the relationship.

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#2

I'm 1000 years old and it only happened twice. Having a sixth sense about those things I "just knew" STRONGLY something was off. The first dingdong decided to tell me. I told him I knew. He asked who told me and I said nobody, I just knew. The second dingdong drank too much imo and would occasionally have some...let's say...arousal issues...which I found odd. I was at one of his family gatherings (we got along well) but again, something was off that day with their behavior. I mentioned it later to a friend of his and he spilled the beans. So that was that. Cheating is ALWAYS a deal breaker for me...period. Over time I just got better at sensing who showed those tendencies before getting very involved with them and I've been good ever since! It's not really a trust issue with that person but rather a trust issue with yourself. I can't always say I knew who things would work out with but I damn skippy knew who they wouldn't work out with. Trust your gut and never look back.

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#3

Yes! My first serious boyfriend “cheated” on me constantly when he went on church trips with our youth group. I was 3 years older so I had aged out of the group but a*****e still went out of town with them. I found out later he was holding down girls and trying to sexually assault them. The girls were afraid to tell me because they thought I would be mad at them and not believe it. To the survivors of this ordeal, I am so sorry you all went through this.I broke up with him to date my guy best friend for a while and to eventually live happily ever after with my now husband and my dog.

(The worst part was finding out he was a virgin also after we slept together. He didn’t tell me until the day I broke up with him. I wasted my v card on him.)

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