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#1
Does it bother you when you realize that a woman you're dating or might want to date looks totally different without her makeup?
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#2
If you had a choice, what would you want to be different in the world? Anything besides politics please :)
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9points
#3
I got one! How is your day going also what is your favorite flower!
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#4
What do guys gossip about? Or do they not gossip?
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9points
#5
Do guys give any obvious hints as to whether they like someone else that I've been missing? I think one guy may like me, but I don't know how to tell for sure.
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8points
just another teen 3 years ago
please guys this is a struggle to know cause one minute yall act like you love us the next you hate us please help us understand you
#6
What do you assume about shy girls? Do you like girls more if they are social and talk a lot?
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8points
#8
what do you do when you have a crush on a girl?
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7points
Bacony Cakes 3 years ago
Apologise as i back up the excavator and call emergency services while trying to perform first aid (that i don't know very well) and then weep.
#9
Why is everything so gosh darn funny? I mean, all my male friends just laugh their butts off when I point something out. Is this normal?
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6points
#10
WHAT DO YOU GUYS DO AT SLEEPOVERS!?!?!!?!?
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6points
California Jones 3 years ago
Probably the same things we do at girl sleepovers, get high and make out.
#11
Aight so this guy said he liked me and then the next day he said he did but didn't. I asked again a week later and he said he likes me more than a friend but not a crush. I asked what that meant and he said I'm a good FRIEND. I've been confused for a couple days now. What is goin on with him?
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6points
#12
Are guys attracted to masculine women? I, as a bisexual female am, but I'm also a little masc, and don't want to be limited.
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5points
Skyler Sage Tang 3 years ago
Pan here, I don't care as long as they 1. Aren't racist 2. Support basic human rights 3. Believe in science 4. Is kind, that's all I need :)
#13
Alright, I have been waiting for something like this. Alright is it like a normal thing to just get up grab your crotch pull a little then keep walking like why?
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5points
#14
What's the best way to get your phone number if we're shy?
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4points
albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago
Approach in quiet area with them alone (not too private, in library or cafe with them sitting alone) that way they are not "putting on a front" for the bro's.
#15
can yall feel our boobs when we hug and if you can what does it feel like
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4points
#16
Haha hey guys! This might seem weird to ask but are some guys intimidated/ scared away by loud girls? By loud I mean like verbally loud of course but also just very energetic and rambunctious sometimes...I'm a little like this and it seems to scare guys away?? would it be more attractive if I was quieter?? idk... Not really sure how to word this one lol
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4points
Skara Brae 3 years ago
Depends on the guy. A quiet guy could be intimidated, or just as easily repelled because it's so different than him. Energetic and rambunctious can be really attractive, but it depends on what you say. Do you like loud guys? It's probably more important what they actually say, right?
#17
What’s your farvourite animal? Also have a nice day!
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4points
#18
Hey guys of the internet, I used to have way more guy friends than girl friends at school and I wore makeup once and they asked me deadpan / part shocked if I was hungover do you assume this with all girls thinking their makeup is real or were my friends pulling my leg cause honestly couldn't tell
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3points
#19
Does it matter how pretty a girl is? What is the first thing you notice about a girl?
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Skara Brae 3 years ago
In general, yes, it matters, but the details vary. Different people are pretty in different ways. For example, I know I have a weakness for dark, wavy hair, but have no clue why. Maybe because I have light, curly hair. That said, I've seen some amazingly attractive blondes, so it's not very important. Clothes and hair matter to some extent, but a girl's attitude is a major, major factor. The first thing I notice, other than approximate age is her facial expression. Does she look fun to be around? Does she looked stressed or angry? Then I listen. Is she selfish, cruel, or demeaning? Is she intelligent?
#20
Do you ever get your man bits caught between your legs while walking or running?
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2points
#21
why does wearing socks make it not gay? im confused
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#22
How much of a "omg no" reaction does the average man have when learning the lady he is crushing on is a mother, even if she is single?
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Skara Brae 3 years ago
There is no average man. I imagine most guys think a women without kids is far more available for fun, and I'm not talking only about sex. If a guy wants to take you to parties or some sports game or whatever, then non-moms are preferable. If a guy wants a meaningful relationship, then a woman with kids is probably more grown up, has clear priorities, and therefore easier to understand and appreciate. But if the kids are too wild or actnasty, that's not a good sign.
#23
How old were you when you learned about periods?
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Skara Brae 3 years ago (edited)
I learned details in 4th grade, so I was 9 or 10. The teachers sent all the girls to the gym for a presentation, then later it was the boys turn. There were separate videos for the girls and boys, but my school showed both videos to everyone, to show there were no secrets. They didn't go into a lot of detail, but said enough for us to know there's blood for several days, and crucially, _why_ there is blood, so that it made sense.
#24
Weird question (sorry) do you ever sit on your -magic stick-? I’m assuming that would hurt.
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2points
#25
So I have a hypothesis I wanna check. I have low self-esteem but one thing I don't struggle with is my appearance, I like my face and believe I'm pretty. But I've never been asked out before or anything. (I'm nearing the end of high school.) My guess is that it's cuz I'm SUPER shy, I don't do extracurricular stuff, and sleep is more important to me than makeup or doing my hair nicely. Does that make sense, like am I close with that guess or?
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1point
Dave van Es 3 years ago
Can be any number of reasons. Including but not limited to seen as out of their league
#26
I know a lot of nice men who date or are married to a lot of not very nice women. Is bitchiness / mean a turn-on, and if so - why?
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Steve Martel 3 years ago
Generally that's low self esteem, you'll see that sometimes in relationships regardless of gender
#27
I have a legit question... Why do guys cheat? Like if you're in a relationship and you're not happy why not just leave? Why cheat and lie? And bonus question, when you're caught why lie more? Wouldn't you want the respect of being able to walk way knowing you at least told the truth? I just can't wrap my head around that. If you're not happy for whatever reason...leave. Simple. *disclaimer* I know that not EVERY man cheats. I know not EVERY man lies. I'm just asking. also, not a man hater. I love my fiance very much and no he hasn't cheated, my two exes did and since they'll never give me a straight answer, I decided to answer here.
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#28
would the guys rather the girl make the first move or do they want to?
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memyselfandI 3 years ago
Girl here, but I read somewhere else that there was a poll someone did about this and it said that guys would much rather the girl made the first move so that they would know for a fact she was interested.
#29
What is the best compliment you've ever revived, or a compliment you'd like to receive.
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#30
I know boys aren't very good at taking hints **no offense im rly not either**, so what is a hint we can give you that you'd understand?
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#31
Why do guys brawl and fight so much? And why do you think it's acceptable to call us wh*res? I'm genuinely asking here.
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Paul Bakowski 3 years ago
Only assholes act like that. If a guy refers to women as whores or bitches, run fast run far. He is not worth your time.
#32
So I'm actually a demiboy but let's ignore that fact for now because I'm female at school
Why are they so horrible to me?
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Skara Brae 3 years ago
You didn't provide enough information, so I have no idea what age group you are in, what your personality is like, or what horrible things they do. I'll assume you are somewhere in the range of 13-16, probably the hardest years. As a first guess, I imagine they perceive you as 'different' and have no idea what to make of it. Kids that age are trying to convince themselves they are more grown-up than they really are, and one way to do that is to try to fit in to a group. If they fit in, they feel safer from ridicule. It's not until later that most people realize they don't have to fit into groups. The best advice I can give is to find something you are good at, so that others can be impressed. For example, can you play a guitar? Can you make really good paintings? That short-circuits the 'group' mentality.
#33
How can I act more masculine? I'm trans dude who can't get T and top surgery because of DeSatan.
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#34
why are guys so mean to each other? the boys I know are constantly insulting and hitting their friends....don't look much like friendship
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Margaret Weaver 3 years ago
I know this one, although I'm not sure I should share because it breaks my heart every time I think about it. Men are by and large not raised to be emotionally supported and often even actively encouraged to tamp down their emotions under penalty of being found weak and rejected by their peers. The punching is as close as some can get to friends willing to hug them. Some men I know have literally never had a friend they can talk to they way they speak with me. Two of them call their fathers 'sir' and have immense difficulty coming to grips with or even understanding the emotional range of their partner. Their partners see their men as stoic and terse, but that is only the wall around them. On the one hand I long to show them the light inside their partner, on the other it's not my place and I feel awful that I'm even considering meddling.
#36
ARE there guys who don't care about a woman's personality? And I don't mean this as an insult, but I swear I've seen relationships like that in real life a million times and would like it explained: If a woman is good-looking and sexy, I've seen perfectly sane and reasonable men ignore the fact that she's a greedy and a user, or a psychobitch, or delusional or paranoid, destroyer of worlds, etc. Can anyone explain what is going on in the mind of a man who's in a relationship with someone who is completely incapable of making him happy... except in one way?
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#37
Biggest turn offs that girls do/say?
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Marette 3 years ago
Why do the majority of men on dating sites want a younger woman? I'm 46, but the profiles of so many men my age are looking for a woman at least 10 years younger.
𝙸'𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚘𝚘𝚋! 3 years ago
They're more attractive and lively. And it's an influence of society that makes it okay. That's just the way it is sometimes. (And I say sometimes, cause that's not always the case)
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Eden 3 years ago
These questions made me uncomfortable because I'm not the stereotypical male. I've always made people afraid because i look a certain way, but i could never be myself, not until early 30's and definitely not with the crowd I grew up with. I really identified with Ferdinand the Bull as a kid.
albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago
Don't have better answer than "'caus biology", sorry. Humans have been this way since time immemorial.
Burs 3 years ago
Not true. It is know nowadays that Palaeolithic humans (Stone Age) were very egalitarian, as they are most groups that still exist and live in a hunting gathering society. Our reduced sexual dimorphism (difference between sexes) shows that we were either monogamous or polygamous (when women and men mated with everybody without harems) and that females preferred males that were less big and aggressive (that’s why we reduced our sexual differences). It is proven that both Neanderthals and sapiens had very egalitarian lives, with both sexes eating the same and both being able to hunt, forage, be shamans, artisans etc.
Load More Replies... Marette 3 years ago
Why do the majority of men on dating sites want a younger woman? I'm 46, but the profiles of so many men my age are looking for a woman at least 10 years younger.
𝙸'𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚘𝚘𝚋! 3 years ago
They're more attractive and lively. And it's an influence of society that makes it okay. That's just the way it is sometimes. (And I say sometimes, cause that's not always the case)
Load More Replies... Eden 3 years ago
These questions made me uncomfortable because I'm not the stereotypical male. I've always made people afraid because i look a certain way, but i could never be myself, not until early 30's and definitely not with the crowd I grew up with. I really identified with Ferdinand the Bull as a kid.
albernistuff 4sale 3 years ago
Don't have better answer than "'caus biology", sorry. Humans have been this way since time immemorial.
Burs 3 years ago
Not true. It is know nowadays that Palaeolithic humans (Stone Age) were very egalitarian, as they are most groups that still exist and live in a hunting gathering society. Our reduced sexual dimorphism (difference between sexes) shows that we were either monogamous or polygamous (when women and men mated with everybody without harems) and that females preferred males that were less big and aggressive (that’s why we reduced our sexual differences). It is proven that both Neanderthals and sapiens had very egalitarian lives, with both sexes eating the same and both being able to hunt, forage, be shamans, artisans etc.
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