I think it might be best to use their current names and pronouns because many trans people aren't comfortable when being reminded of their dead

Yep! I used they/them primarily for nearly a year before I fully transitioned, just do whatever you're comfortable with

I figured out I was queer when I was 12, but it took me until early this school year (I'm 14) to realize my actual identity. It's a hell of a journey, I only figured it out when I stopped denying that I'm trans, then I realized I'm gay as f**k a few weeks later. It did take me multiple years to accept that I use he/they tho

Cute character in a tv show 🫠

It’s really hard to explain. Long story short, I just kind of slowly realized “wait. I never really notice guys for being cute, but I do for girls?”

I figured out I was queer when I was 8 actually! I had an older friend who was gay and so obviously I knew about it at an early age. When I was 9 I started 'dating' a girl (I was female at the time) and nothing came to my mind but when I was 10 I was able to scream "IM GAY" from the rooftops.

When I was about 11, starting middle school, I realized that I really liked this girl, and it all started there. Now I am questioning my gender and sexuality, and I know I won’t be able to figure it out for a while

Uh...I'd already found guys attractive and stuff, and then there was this insanely cute girl at a Halloween party I went to. That sort of caused a bit of a panic spiral that led to me falling into a ton of internet rabbit holes about sexuality, and then I figured out that I'm pan. There was some other stuff too, but thats basically it

oh it was a PROCESS to say the least. honestly i js figured out what queer meant and i was like. oh. thats me. idk what part of it it is but thats me

Anything that the general public sees as 'other' in terms of sexuality and gender. Once complete acceptance happens, queerness won't exist cause hetero and cisnormativity won't exist

Thank you, it really means a lot that you wrote this, and that you can so easily adapt to and accept changes as they happen in the world

If someone isn't comfortable with he, they, she or it, and they feel like an established neopronoun (or a new one, but that's rarer) fits better, they often use it. Most people using neopronouns also use another 'regular' pronoun in addition. When I was still pretransition and denying that I'm a guy, I used xe/xym for a little while. It really didn't fit me but there are some people who feel right with them, even though they can be confusing sometimes.

It's totally not necessary to have a label. You can just be you!

Labels are just the words you feel comfortable with, you don't have to matche everything perfectly. Pansexual is defined as attraction to any person without gender being associated with attraction at all, whereas bisexual, polysexual and omnisexual can all mean attraction to all genders with varying or different types of attraction to each gender. Good luck figuring out ur identity!

Even if he hasn't had "the surgery" he still identifies as male and the people that call him otherwise are incorrect. Gender is a construct all that matters is how he chooses to identify :) how he presents. Its who he is.