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Do you prefer being alone? Has the universe spat upon you? Are you cursed? Let us know your situation if you so see fit.
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#1
Crushing on a fictional characterâŠ.
Final score:
9points
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#2
Original poster panda here. I am cursed to spend the remainder of my life alone.
Final score:
8points
#3
Single but thinking about asking at prom? đčđ€
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7points
Average Chicago sports fan 1 year ago (edited)
Yeah thatâs a good idea. Idk if I can get a prom date tho. But good luck anyways.
#4
Nope! First year in a (good) relationship on the 14th, so I'm excited!
Final score:
6points
#5
Yep! Single and not sorry about it.đ€Ł I will be going to see my cousins play basketball, and honestly, it sounds a bazillion times more fun than doing something romantic.
Final score:
6points
#7
um does my dog count
Final score:
6points
Average Chicago sports fan 1 year ago
Yes. Better than having a child. Hell a pet is better than a child.
#8
I got my puppy,does that count? Hes cute
Final score:
6points
#9
53, Widower. The dating pool is unreal small as all the best singles my age have someone already
Final score:
6points
#10
I'm not single. I'm married but my husband has plans with his friends... because wow honestly he didn't notice the date when he made them... so in a sense I'm single. I may go to a bar and be cute, have a fun night out :)
Final score:
5points
#11
I am but I'm crushing really hard on this guy and one of my other friends says that he seems interested in me...
I just hope he doesn't have a girlfriend.
Final score:
5points
#12
100%. All my friends date, but I honestly donât think anyone has ever liked me romantically in my brief existence
Final score:
5points
#13
Nope not cursed but blessed. Blessed to have a guy friend that I enjoy spending time with. We spend time at each other's homes and take vacations together then go home to our own place. He is very good to me. (I guess the term is f**k buddies?) I am almost 70 and he is 65yrs old, so we are kinda past the age where we are looking to date.
Final score:
5points
#14
Yes, recently divorced. I decided to get divorced last Valentines day, she was spending it with her boyfriend, and i was taking care of the children. Now, one year later i life with my children in a house with incredible seaview. And i dont have nights anymore were i worry were she is. I am in a good place. Someday i will go out and see what is possible for me. I wish to find a new person by my side. But i will not Marry. This Valentines day is a happy day since it means freedom.
Final score:
5points
#15
Thankfully Single this year. Not in happy state of mind right now so don't feel like it. Hopefully by next year's valentine's day I'll be better/happier state of mind & be able share my happiness with someone
Final score:
4points
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
Love this outlook.đ No need for extra pressure if you are struggling.
#16
Yep, mostly cause I'm trans and gay. Even if I knew any other gay guys, I'd doubt they'd date a trans person. Unfortunately this does not stop me from having crushes on the straight guys
Final score:
4points
#17
Yes, very. But me and my other friends are throwing a single pringle party.
Final score:
4points
Average Chicago sports fan 1 year ago
Finally where singles can congregate without the cringe of Valentineâs Day.
#18
I am single. And Iâm good with that. I have been married and divorced. At this point, I would rather be alone than have to deal with someone elseâs issues. I am often alone, but never really feel lonely. I have a great family and wonderful friends, and a magnificent support system. I donât need a partner to make me happy. Itâs not the partner who makes you happy, itâs your satisfaction with your own life! And frankly, my divorce was due to some very bad things that I did not know for 9 years with my husband. Nine years! You can never REALLY know someone, and frankly, I canât go through that again. I have my kids and my happiness. :)
Final score:
4points
#19
I am single, no date for Valentine's Day. It's been 11 years since my last relationship ended, 11 years since I was last kissed. I came out as a lesbian in 2021 and despite using tons of dating apps I've had very few dates, and half of those cancel as I'm on the way đ„ș I just turned 35, I want to settle down already! Where are the women who value a deep, authentic connection!?
Final score:
4points
#20
Yup. Iâm aroace, so Valentines Day means nothing to me. I do like the pink heart decorations everywhere though! So cute!
Final score:
4points
#21
Obviously.
Final score:
3points
DP(Alt. Rorschach) (Submission author) 1 year ago
*curls up into ball and twitches and cries/laughs quietly*đ„Čđ€Ł
#22
This Valentineâs Day Iâm not single, Iâm in a happy relationship with my awesome fiancĂ©, I couldnât be happier.
Final score:
3points
#23
My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, exactly 11 days before valentines day. So i think the universe spat upon me
Final score:
3points
#25
Solo AF.
Final score:
2points
#26
Nö. But me and my wife don't celebrate it. It is a scam and there are more importend days in our lifes.
Final score:
2points
#27
I'm currently single but I actually think there's a sliver of hope that I won't be on Valentine's day. I'm probably getting my hopes up for no reason, but my crush might just reciprocate feelings for me.
Final score:
2points
#28
Nope, and I'm fine with it. I'm not actively seeking a relationship, and the thought of maintaining one kind of exhausts me. When the time comes, I'll know.
Final score:
2points
#29
suffering single here. not by choice. holidays suck. just a tiny bit bitter here.
Final score:
2points
#30
My almost 30-year-old son who has never dated before has a girlfriend for Valentine's Day this year! She sent my husband and me a box of Crumbl Cookies to thank us for raising our son to be a fine young man! To those singles out there, wait for someone who appreciates you. In the meantime, enjoy the freedom and take the opportunity to better yourself.
Final score:
2points
#32
Yup, im a single girl. I want to ask out this guy Cory, but I get nervous just thinking about it :/ My school dance is today, but im going with my furry friend Kyler. But that just makes problems, cuz some people think he is my date. I need advice because my closest way of flirting with Cory is smacking his hat off his head. Can i get some dating advice??
Final score:
1point
#33
im single, me and my ex broke up a week before Halloween and we actually got together last valentines day so.....but my friends are forcing me to ask my crush out the the dance on Monday, pray for me.
Final score:
1point
#35
Nope, but I've been planning to break up with my current boyfriend (he's my first "official" boyfriend) because I've lost my feelings for him. I feel really bad about still being with him because he deserves so much better
Final score:
1point
#36
Very much single. Been trying to date for the last 3 years. Not easy when you are short, almost 40, trans-male (pre-surgical), and bald. It's sad that people still care about what is between the legs more than what is between the ears and in the heart.
Final score:
1point
#37
Single but crushing đ
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1point
Average Chicago sports fan 1 year ago
Single and Crushing here too. Specifically on two girls.
#38
Yes, because I have decided that I'm no longer going to settle for someone that's not right for me just because I'm lonely.
Final score:
1point
#39
do you mean am i not dependent on someone else to make me happy.?
Final score:
0points
#40
Yeah Iâm single asf. Havenât found anyone because that isnât my priority. Work and fitness are my top priorities.
Also I have a hatred of Valentineâs Day.
Final score:
0points
Average Chicago sports fan (Submission author) 1 year ago
I have a good reason to hate Valentineâs Day. Why all the hard candies? Pain in the a** to chew on. You can celebrate love everyday. Valentines are literally the worst. Itâs basically a half baked thank you note. My hatred might come from being single but also I find it as a cheesy and idiotic plus unnecessary holiday. Plus the decorations are so gaudy.
#42
Been together for almost 19 years. I truly hate Valentines Day. It is so commercial. And it makes sensitive people that happen to be single miserable. Like, there isnât anything wrong with you just because you are single on one day in the year.
My husband likes it though. So, I got that unlucky drawâŠ
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#43
single and also a third wheel but i'm loving it. personally i want to date someone but it's complicated. but yesterday my two best friends started dating and it's so cute cause they're separately texting me telling me how much they like each other.
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#44
Yep, very single. Knowing how I am, I've probably just been too dense when people were hitting on me, lol
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#45
Yep, very single. Knowing how I am, I've probably just been too dense when people were hitting on me, lol
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#46
Yep, I am, and it was just my luck that the guy I asked out yesterday had somehow managed to get a girlfriend not even 10 minutes before I asked him. So yeah, I'm definitely single.
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0points
#47
Yep, I am, and it was just my luck that the guy I asked out yesterday had somehow managed to get a girlfriend not even 10 minutes before I asked him. So yeah, I'm definitely single.
Final score:
0points
#49
First Valentine's day after I got married. Hubby is working out of the country but arrives the 14th at 23:00 or so... Celebrating on the 15th is always cheaper so I guess it's still a win?
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0points
#50
Yes. I got broken up with on the 6th. Sucks to be him though lol.
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#52
Broke up with my ex a week ago. Just wasn't working out, and we didn't want to be our way into valentines day.
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#54
I am and I have a crush who knows but sheâs very indirect about that lol
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#55
Single....not by choice.
I believe that finding that special person just doesn't exist for everyone.
#Eternallysingle
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#56
Yes I am despite having like four crushes at once. Three on my friends and one on a girl from summer camp. Late post tho im sorry
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#57
Was chatting with someone on Quotev, and we decided to date anatomically so we could say we were taken for Valentine's day.
Final score:
0points
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