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Hey Pandas, Aita For Calling Out My Friend On Unnecessarily Calling Out Our Teacher For Being Racist?
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Hey Pandas, Aita For Calling Out My Friend On Unnecessarily Calling Out Our Teacher For Being Racist?

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So yesterday during my (F 15) English class, we were talking about a poem that a black woman had said at a public event. It’s considered eloquent, even though she used the word “ain’t” in it. So, my teacher, let’s call her Mrs. K, explained that it was a time period thing. One of my “friends” (I’ll call her M) who is RLA (remote learning academy, the rest of us are in person) corrected her by saying “actually it shows lack of education.” Me being a bored high schooler was on my phone. We have this huge gc of all of my friends that are in the same English class, which is like 15 people, and includes M. M was saying in the gc stuff about how Mrs. K is really racist, and that white people need to stop taking away the black’s language, and that the only reason why they say “ain’t” is because they weren’t able to get an education. I sent a text saying “but there are some whites who aren’t educated” she replied “this is not a what-if situation, sneeze” and so I backed down, not wanting to fight at the moment. They continued talking about how “sis” and “tea” were also a part of AAVE. When I got home, I asked my family about it, and they agreed with me, including my brother who is minoring in linguistics. So I decided to send the gc a text, which I wrote in my notes, as pictured below. M came back saying, “well that’s funny coming from you, sneeze, when you’re best friend is black. Also what I said was from the experience of many blacks, and this is funny cuz of the sh@t you pulled yesterday.” I replied “well thanks for showing me your true colors, and yesterday was an accident,” and left the gc. As for what happened yesterday, I was talking with M’s best friend, with who I was also friends. The conversation ended up on the gc, and she asked me who all was cishet. When I didn’t say M’s name, she asked if M was cishet, and I didn’t say anything. M had been out to the gc for 6 months or so as bi, but still hasn’t told her best friend since kindergarten. I had apologized multiple times to M but she decided to do a low blow at me after I corrected her. Also, most of the group chat is gay in some way or another, including me, so I wasn’t doing it to be homophobic or anything. AITA?

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    My name is Aelita and I have been an Editor for Bored Panda since 2019. I spend my days working with my amazing team and making articles the best they can be. Fantasy and magic have always ruled over my world, from movies to TV shows, to Video Games to tabletop games like Dungeos and Dragons, I try to find magic in every part of my life. Writing is a big part of me too, I hope to publish a fantasy novel one day. I also enjoy playing guitar and singing, as music always help me to get in a great mood. I have an adorable German Shepherd named Hela and we get into all kinds of adventures together.

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    Random Dolphin
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok I'm trying to grasp the story tell me if I miss something? So M says a term is pinned to one race (which sits not) when corrected blows up and OP forces them to come out to there friend? Did k get it all or is there more!

    Hammer
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    3 years ago

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    Yes YTA. First of all, it's poetry, people can express themselves as they wish. Second of all, look back on historical fiction, you're too young and uneducated to have an opinion on this. Wait until you've studied American literature for another 10 years, maybe then move on to English, then try your hand at reading translated texts from other languages. The vernacular is usually used. Don't be such a child, especially such a racist one. Grow up before you think you have an intelligent opinion worth spouting.

    Emmie Jensen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's been the better part of a year since you wrote this comment, but I can't help but be confused by your perspective. I can't speak to the issue of historical/literary accuracy simply because I don't know enough about the topic. But calling someone young and uneducated isn't grounds for a good argument. Someone's age has little to do with the validity of their opinion. Your comment is very offensive, and you definitely could have worded it differently without necessary changing your original standpoint. Good day.

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    Random Dolphin
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok I'm trying to grasp the story tell me if I miss something? So M says a term is pinned to one race (which sits not) when corrected blows up and OP forces them to come out to there friend? Did k get it all or is there more!

    Hammer
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    3 years ago

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    Yes YTA. First of all, it's poetry, people can express themselves as they wish. Second of all, look back on historical fiction, you're too young and uneducated to have an opinion on this. Wait until you've studied American literature for another 10 years, maybe then move on to English, then try your hand at reading translated texts from other languages. The vernacular is usually used. Don't be such a child, especially such a racist one. Grow up before you think you have an intelligent opinion worth spouting.

    Emmie Jensen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's been the better part of a year since you wrote this comment, but I can't help but be confused by your perspective. I can't speak to the issue of historical/literary accuracy simply because I don't know enough about the topic. But calling someone young and uneducated isn't grounds for a good argument. Someone's age has little to do with the validity of their opinion. Your comment is very offensive, and you definitely could have worded it differently without necessary changing your original standpoint. Good day.

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