This is something that has happened to me a couple times. Once by a guy, I was sitting at party with a friend and someone tapped me on the shoulder and I tilted my head back to see who it was and the guy grabbed my head and started kissing me then ran off giggling. Another time at a party a girl decided she wanted to get with me and sat on me and gripped onto me so I couldn't get up and kept trying to force her tongue down my mouth despite me telling her repeatedly that I had a girlfriend who I loved and would not mess things up. Yeah it happens to us too

amen bro!

Yep this one gets to me too. My sister and her husband, who are in their 40s, have the old-school ideology and he's constantly making "jokes" about her, her job, her cooking... essentially all the BS from 1950's stand-up/sitcom humor. He's the definition of toxic masculinity/fragile masculinity.

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There's a sense that men can't control themselves when it comes to sex and are easily influenced by their male friends into cheating. There is some truth to that but...women aren't immune to this, either, and we look at this type of policing by men as abusive. It's a shitty double standard. I see a lot of women who force their partners to have a cellphone, answer within 2 rings, take pictures of where they are, etc. It's insane. I wouldn't want to live like that. Don't get me wrong, if you are someone who has cheated in the past or has given your partner reason to believe you can't be trusted, then I get the overprecaution- although even then there has to be a limit. Instead of policing them maybe make a deal to only go out together, or not to drink unless you're together, etc. But either you forgive and trust them or break up and move on. I'm not saying you should be blind- but if you can't trust the person you're with then you shouldn't be with them.