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Hi I'm aromantic asexual and agender! So I feel 0 romantic attraction 0 sexual attraction and I don't feel like I have a gender! So I'm just no

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yo, I'm just a questioning human who tries to be as nice as possible. We can share ocs, rp or just hang out. I love puns and cheesy jokes.

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DO I need to come out? My mom is pan. But I dont think theyd understand me being ace and agender

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a fellow ace agender I think your mum would understand if they are pan but if you don't want to come out you don't have to.

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Alex here. I wanted to respond to @chillace, but for some reason bp wont let me comment on posts. I just made my account yesterday, and if a try to comment it just says "account must be approved by bp staff to comment", so if anyone knows how this works or how to fix it please let me know! I tried contacting them via email but haven't gotten a response and/or it didn't send.
But back to what you said chillace, I was going to say that you sould never feel obligated to come out if you're not ready yet or just don't want to in general. If its stressing you out though and want to tell someone, maybe try telling a friend or distant family member you trust before coming out to your parents. But if you're ok with staying closeted, that's totally OK!! I was really nervous about telling anyone, and then I finally decided to tell a friend of mine, and turns out, she's bi! And even though im still not out to my parents, I feel a lot better now that someone knows and can relate and we can talk about it.
Being that you're mom is pan, she will probably be able to somewhat understand not being heterosexual, and hopefully she could at least sympathize with you being agender even if she is cis and cant exactly relate. But it is you're parents and only you know how they would truly react, so how and if you come out in the end is up to you. Anyway, hope that helps ❤💛💚💙💜

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Hey pandas, if you have a nintendo ds and pictochat, do you want to hangout tonight? If so Ill be in chat room A.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

just thought this would be fun thing to do. ill be on from 7-12pm. noones probably going to join though

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Also, what do we do if there isnt a flag of our sexuality? Like Im agender ace and theres no flag for it. Should I make one or look around for one?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard of custom flags that combine your personal combination of gender and sexuality, and there are lots of flags out there, but maybe if there isn't one you could make you're own!!

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