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Brutally Honest Post Explains How Girls Are Abusing Their Boyfriends, Check If You’re Not Doing It Too

Brutally Honest Post Explains How Girls Are Abusing Their Boyfriends, Check If You’re Not Doing It Too

We usually think of abusive relationships as black eyes and broken noses, but bad relationships aren’t limited to physical traumas. Psychological scars can be just as – if not more – painful and, sadly, any relationship can inflict them, even if your jealous girlfriend is just a teen.

Signs of an abusive relationship, however, is sometimes hard to spot even for the victims. Especially if they’re madly in love and held firmly under control by the subject. That’s why someone posted a brutally honest message on Tumblr, which should help identify if a teen girl is abusing her partner. The post quickly gained attention, and so far, it has amassed almost 290k notes. People are even reblogging it in spite of losing followers. Scroll down to read the brilliant text covering abusively strict rules and behavior some girls inflict on their boyfriends and let’s hope more people will openly discuss this uncomfortable yet very important topic.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called domestic violence and it's wrong, wrong, WRONG! I don't care who it is, NO ONE has the right to make you feel unworthy, unwanted, humiliate you (especially not in front of others), invade your privacy (this includes your devices, social media and bathroom trips), tell you whom you can talk to, hang out/be friends with, call you derogatory names or lay hands on you. Absolutely No One has the right to harm you. If you're being treated in any of the aforementioned ways, GET OUT! Get Out Now! Your self worth is so much greater than what your abuser says and you deserve so much better, so much more in life.

    Blyss Blyssylb
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called domestic violence and it's wrong, wrong, WRONG! I don't care who it is, NO ONE has the right to make you feel unworthy, unwanted, humiliate you (especially not in front of others), invade your privacy (this includes your devices, social media and bathroom trips), tell you whom you can talk to, hang out/be friends with, call you derogatory names or lay hands on you. Absolutely No One has the right to harm you. If you're being treated in any of the aforementioned ways, GET OUT! Get Out Now! Your self worth is so much greater than what your abuser says and you deserve so much better, so much more in life.

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