The first one wasn't that bad. I thought it was petty. Yep there was a dead mouse on the side but that was because the mouse took the mask off. A warning to all those that don't wear a mask as you see. The second house yeah was in a state.

I feel a little sorry for both parties; the guys need to find better girlfriends - this public/social media shaming crap NEEDS to STOP ... and the girls, if you aren't willing to talk to your guys privately about this sort of thing, and get some sort of results, then maybe you should be vetting your dating partners a little more meticulously

I would leave. Why don’t they leave?

If he can't clean up when he KNOWS you're coming over then he obviously doesn't care about you. Bad enough if he was like this anyway but to not even TRY is vile. Ditch him!

Wow so basically, you turned yourself into his free housemaid and brag about it on TikTok.

First time I spent the night at his place the bathroom was FILTHY and the bedroom not much better. I was young, stupid, and we both has "other things" on our minds . 28 years later I'm still waiting to see him scrub a toilet! Pay attention ladies (and gents too, for that matter -it goes both ways). If a habit bugs you a little bit now, it isn't likely to improve!

Isn’t anyone gonna talk about those girls’ 💯 bedrooms? I would be terrified to even go in there in case I accidentally misplace a pillow and get thrown out of a window.

He trusted her to enter his home and she betrayed it by making it all public. Did she get his permission first? If she didn't like the mess, she could have just offered him help in cleaning up instead of shaming him publicly. Ugh... I hope she's his ex now.

Sigh. 2020 and many boys/men still think, cleaning is not something they need to do. For Godssake, can the parents of this world PLEASE start raising self-reliant men who are able to look after them, tehir health and their home?

It is ok for men when women suffer in silence after rape and society do nothing. It is ok for men women to have no way out of abusive relationships. It is ok for men women to care of everything and everyone while they slack. It is ok men to make sexist jokes and comment in public. It is ok for men to post revenge porn and no one to do nothing. But suddenly, nowadays when women show men's true face in public - oooh, public shaming not ok. How other way this insanity will stop if we don't do this? So many butthurt incels in the comments.

Never, ever would I clean a mans place. His mess is his own problem, not mine.

...Therefore all men are the same? What's the message?

The article title is all wrong. This is not a gender war. Females/women are messy as fu€|{ too. My sister looks very attractive and clean to the world, but she still leaves sanitary napkins and old, uneaten food in her drawers. Regardless of your age, if you’re old enough to date, you’re old enough to clean up after yourself (not just for a date). Better yet, don’t make a mess in the first place.

argh!!!! the bathroom did me in!!!! I would need a lot of bleach STAT!!!

My son shared an apartment for a few years. The room of his roommate and the (shared) living room looked just like that, most of the times. The only (halfway) clean areas were the bathroom and my son's room. My son too had clothes lying around .. and he should have vacuumed more often ... but at least the floor wasn't sticky (from whatever🤢) and there weren't any leftovers or empty packaging, cans and bottles lying around.

I can't help but wonder how many of the girlfriend pictures were staged. And here I was almost believing that women were absolutely above "shaming" posts.

I can't stand looking at a mess that's why my room is always clean, I have slight OCD and messes can sometimes irritate me.

There's no reason for all the wasted money on all them stupid pillows that people will not use or see. Unless you give all your guests a tour of your house. You watching too many home decorating BS on TV.

There are men that are terrible when it comes to having a clean home environment to live in. However, there are also women that are just as bad. So stop shaming.

WOMEN.......Raise your sons to be good husbands! Teach them to clean, cook, and how to do laundry. Its amazing these men survive past College. introduce them to a dry-cleaner, and show them how to compare grocery prices as well as as read labels. There is a reason men don't live as long as Women.....this is one example. Teach them to survive longer in the wild, and maybe they will pick a better mate!

The boyfriend is a pig

Don't do it, ladies. If a grown man chooses to live like a pig, he can sleep in his dusty sheets alone. A grown man should not be living like a feral pig on the lam. It won't get better after marriage. You'll be constantly picking up after him, while he feigns ignorance on how to do basic chores. Only date grown men who know how to respect themselves, and their partners, with a clean and tidy living environment they are capable of maintaining themselves.

I mean, okay, they're not the cleanest people but this is humiliating your partner in public and that is not okay, ever.

I would open that toilet, promptly throw up in it and leave.

I do; by far, the most cleaning in our 3 bedroom apartment in NYC. She makes up for that in other ways. It all balances out in the end.

oh that is just disgusting. I'd be breaking up with him, can you imagine sharing a home with someone so filthy?

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So, where are the videos of the women being Outraged after their boyfriend's dumped them? Seriously, why this need to make a video about everything, including personal business? What do they think they will accomplish? Future boyfriends will see these videos and decide to opt out.

Disgusting. Why would you even stay? That's a hard NOPE.

wow... i'm amazed any of these people complaining/being horrified have time for a job, considering how much time they must spend cleaning their homes. i'd love to gross everyone out, but effort. my house generates dust like no other, and all three of us are disabled. vacuuming happens twice a year, if that. dusting happens approximately never. yes, we own pets. yes, i'm aware we'd probably feel better if we cleaned more, but guess what. we can't. and it hasn't killed us yet. these weenies crying about a little hair in the shower, a tiny toothpaste smear in the sink, an empty cup on a table, y'all need to chill the hell out. none of those things are dangerous, or even unsanitary. how much waste do you all generate cleaning everything so obsessively, with lysol and disposable crap? how much water, doing laundry every other day? christ. life is too short for that.