Another day, another Twitter controversy. This time, it’s a photo of two toddlers, that has infuriated the internet. More specifically, their outfits. The girl can be seen walking in pink scrubs, saying “Nurse in Training” on its back while the boy’s rocking a similar green outfit that reads “Doctor in Training.” Medical Shots, a twitter account with 216k followers that posts health-related content, shared it on the 10th of March and as of this article it has already accumulated over 2.6k comments, 4.5k retweets, and 18k likes. Judging from the responses, however, it hit a nerve, instead of a funny bone.
Recently, this tweet sparked a huge online debate about sexism
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A lot of male nurses and female doctors, as well as other health professionals, are pointing out that these professions don’t have a gender requirement. And one person has uploaded an edited version of the image that suggests we call them what they both really are, health professionals.
But others are opposing this backlash, saying that it’s making a mountain out of a molehill. “Just because men can be nurses and women can be doctors doesn’t mean that every single picture needs to depict that,” one commenter said. “Maybe her dream is being a nurse and his is being a doctor?” another asked.
Most people were criticizing it for enforcing stereotypical gender roles
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Even though women have been entering male-dominated fields for decades, it’s less common for a predominantly female occupation to have a substantial increase in its share of men. Only 13 percent of nurses in the United States are men, but that share has grown steadily since 1960, when the number was 2 percent, according to a working paper published by the Washington Center for Equitable Growth. As The New York Times pointed out, the experiences of male nurses could help address a problem that’s very relevant to our society: how to prepare workers for the fastest-growing jobs, at a time when more than a quarter of adult men are not in the labor force.
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Yet, male nurses still make more money than their female counterparts. According to a UC San Francisco-led study, male registered nurses (RNs) make about $5,000 per year more than their female colleagues across most settings, specialty areas, and positions, and this earnings gap has not improved over the last three decades. “The roles of RNs are expanding with the implementation of the Affordable Care Act and emphasis on team-based care delivery,” said lead author Ulrike Muench, Ph.D., assistant professor of social and behavioral sciences in the UCSF School of Nursing. “These results may motivate nurse employers, including physicians, to examine their pay structures and act to eliminate inequities.”
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While others claimed that people are making a mountain out of a molehill
Honestly? Maybe the girl just wanted to be a nurse. People are too upset, far too fast.
Why do you assume that the kid in pink is a girl......? Hm? 😉😁
Load More Replies...I think this discussion warns us we should change the way we look at the nurses. Due to relatives' health issues I've lately visited too many hospitals, and I would like to thank each nurse, male and female, for what they are doing. A girl or boy who chooses to be a nurse shouldn't be regarded as somebody who's not good enough to be a doctor, as the article implies. It's a different profession, very tough, demanding, requiring skills and human empathy, and sadly underpaid. It's an essential job, and a hospital just cannot function without nurses. There's nothing sexist if a girl wants to be a nurse, she actually should be praised. What is needed tho is the adequate reward for their efforts...
Ya I hate job snobbery. Sadly it's extremely common. People don't understand that these jobs are needed. They all contribute to society.
Load More Replies...I dont get how people can defend this kind of sexist gender conforming pictures and then be so 'surprised' when most people chose profesions 'apropiate for their gender'. We all need role models when we are growing up. Its very damaging for kids to keep seeing constantly the same outdated roles. Yes, women can be nurses and men can be doctors, thats not the problem. Is how kids are expected and told to be better at certain areas since they are born just because of their genitals.
Reminds me of the Simpsons ep where the store wouldn't sell Lisa a girl stuffed animal with a doctor's uniform and said it had to be a nurse so she lied and said she had a boy dolphin and they happily handed over the doctor's coat for it. I'm tired of everyone getting outraged by every little thing lately, but this is a valid one. It's not a very good message to send to young girls that they can never be as good as their male counterpart.
glad I stopped watching the Simpsons
Load More Replies...The anger is unfortunately not about this very picture. It`s about the minds of the people who force girls to wear pink and boys to be doctors bla-bla. Even in the movies or tv shows nurses are the girls, whom doctors wanna have sex with (not a decent relationship, just sex). There are lots of example of this situation and then you post this picture with the words "so cuuute". It is cute yeah; in a world, where men and women are equals but not here sir. YES, we are offended bc it is basically a reaction to the actions that we see all day long, everywhere. When people start equal pictures of the boys and girls, this pic will be cute then.
The scrubs should be a single colour and say "Medic in Training." Then no-one could get offended.
But... we should let the kids do kid. If they want to be a "Nurse in Training" so be it!
Load More Replies...Wow. People are so sensitive these days. I mean, maybe the little girls WANTS to be a nurse? A lot of little girls do. And maybe the boy WANTS to be a urologist? Who knows! I truly think NO ONE meant any harm at all in posting this photo. Come on guys, you KNOW that if that little boy was wearing the pink nurse outfit, and the girl was wearing the GREEN, (not even boy-blue!) outfit, there would have been a much bigger sh*tstorm about it, riiiiiight? Because then people would be hollering c**p about the LGBT+ community, and to me, that is a LOT worse than claiming sexism. They look like 2 kids, probably 2 sicks kids, patients, holding hands, while they are in the hospital, trying to have a good time. All they care about is all of the ATTENTION those harmless little outfits are getting them, all of the smiles, and "Awwwww's" and that's IT. PERIOD. Go fight about something else now, something worth of fighting for!
I find it interesting that all those annoyed by this picture have the same stereotype: being doctor is more important than being a nurse. As if being a doctor means a is higher position on the social scale, or something. Every job is very important. Being a nurse is great! Being a doctor is great! Being an orderly is great! Being an idiot... not so great!
There are actually plenty of male nurses among the annoyed comments. I'm sure they want their job to be taken more seriously by everyone who thinks being a nurse is a woman's job (and therefore somehow inferior).
Load More Replies...Seems to me like a crime to be a woman, to dream of being a women, or do girly things Shame on me, my 5yo baby girl takes dance lessons!
I don't think that's the point. It's great to like girly things - congratulations on having your girls in dance lessons! The problem is never with liking things stereotypical to your gender; the problem is when kids are forced into those roles because it's "for girls" or "for boys." Feminism doesn't mean girls can't like dance anymore, it just means girls can also like football, judo, mathematics, and all the other pursuits we as a society used to say were "not for girls." And boys get to choose their own interests, too!
Load More Replies...Can everybody just grow the f**k up? Please! I'm tired of this s**t!
Maybe we should not project our judgment on these children, particularly not without context. Discussion about hidden sexism are needed and so are scrutizing the role models we impose om our children. But we should not make the children subject of that discussion.
The children aren't subject of this discussion. It's their parents choice of clothing that's sexist.
Load More Replies...Well I also find it sexist and misleading, I myself am a young female doctor and must sadly say that most patients automatically assume I am a nurse when I am not fast enough to introduce myself, which is not an offend to me, female and male nurses are amazing colleagues of me, BUT no one ever assume that my young male doctor colleagues are nurses, they are automatically doctors in people's minds and this needs to change. It is not about war against men or b******t like that it is just about simple equality and changing sexist norms against both MEN and WOMEN. When we will move from sexism it will not sound lame and strange f.e for a man to say that something is hard for him, that he needs help in some situations, that he is insecure and so on, which is mostly acceptable for women and sadly almost never for men, which is also a sexism.
I have female relatives and friends who are doctors and programmers. Here, in Romania, nobody told them it's a man's occupation when they went to college and nobody is saying that now. My highschool class was Math and Programming based. It was about 25 people, half boys, half girls.
The “boss doctor in charge” and “proud nurse and feminist” is sexist as well. I don’t understand why people just change roles and assume that makes it better! Guess what? It’s just as sexist, if not more, because they added unnecessary adjectives. “Boss,” “in charge,” “Proud,” and “feminist” are completely unnecessary. Maybe the boy wont grow up to be feminist. That’s ok! Maybe the girl wont grow up to be a boss, or in charge of anything. That’s ok too!
I'm in the 'not cute' section. Americans are ludicrously rigid in their gender stereotypes and it is doing a lot of harm.
I'm just watching the world burn over here... come on, guys. You need context before you alert the press.
No, you don't need context. There could be all sorts of context that excuses this specific case, but the person who decided to post it and say "isn't this cute" was sexist. The kids? maybe not, the parents? Maybe not... but the moment it was made public to share with the world with a "look at this!!" mentality, it became a problem.
Load More Replies...I went to go contribute to society down here then got sidetracked reading all the long comments. ;)
What makes anyone crying over this think that either of the kids have any idea what the scrubs say they're like 2, of course they can be/ do whatever the wish when they're adults but again they're like 2 and it's pretty doubtful they have any idea what is written on their clothes
Here's my opinion. It's sexist if adults chose the nurse\doctor, it's cute if the kids wanted to be nurse\doctor.
The intention of this picture may or may not be sexist, but my gosh people, just because her uniform says nurse and his says dr in no way means it's sexist! Feminism use to mean something, but it has 100% changed in the last several years. It's now mostly (but not all) just a group of whinny brats that want to cry about stupid c**p and pull things out of context and blow them up into much bigger things that they were just not. It's getting old real quick. There are more serious issues and other real and true sexist people to call out instead of crying about made up sexism... my gosh, most of the "sexism" I see nowadays is stuff that has just been majorly pulled out of context. In this case, it could go either way and there is no way of truly knowing without the publisher saying him or her-self. But why jump to conclusions and call someone guilty of something when they have a real possibility of actually being innocent of what they are being accused of???
These people need to get a life. Everyone gets butt hurt for the simplest things in life. IT'S JUST A FUCKN CUTE PIC OF CHILDREN. People you cry about every thing these days.
It is the simplest things in life that make a difference. All the little things that happen every day add up and make a huge difference by the time those kids become adults. One little thing isn't an issue, but 7,000 little things... that's an issue. And THIS is definitely one of those 7,000
Load More Replies...I spent a month in the hospital one time and another 10 days another time, in that forty days, I had two male nurses and 2 female doctors, all the rest were “gender norms”. The male nurses were a little rough-er around the edges, but just as caring as the females. The two female doctors were just as reclusive and annoying as any male doctor that came to see me in there. The underlying urge to do which ever job, whichever gender the person may be, is what matters.
I want to see a second picture with the girl wearing 'Doctor in Training' and the boy wanting to be a nurse. Remember, people: There are different skill sets for a nurse vs a doctor ! And it has nothing to do with gender.
Interesting debate here. Personally, yeah it’s cute but yeah it is problematic. We don’t know what the deal is with these kids and their role models and aspirations, but putting the picture in the public eye serves to reinforce gender stereotypes. The problems go further though. By getting all upset about the gender issues we are inadvertently saying that nurses are inferior to doctors, which sucks, and it’s defaults like that that perpetuate issues over pay. Indoctrination starts very very early - it’s very common for us to have to challenge something our son says in that respect, eg ‘l like girl’s colours like pink’. So all the various levels going on in this picture concern me. But to really unpick it some context is needed, which we don’t have. Whichever side of this you fall down on, challenge your defaults. Don’t neglect one issue because it’s not the one that leaps out at you.
First question. Is being a nurse lower status than a doctor? If yes, then why so? If not, then wtf is the problem
Really stop this b******t now, for all we know they both chose that uniform themselves, we all know there are plenty of m&f doctors and nurses, go to any surgery or hospital and you will see plenty of both.
Does it occur to any of the people commenting that "maybe she wants to be nurse", because she's been taught that being a nurse is for women and being a doctor is for boys? That's the issue people have with this picture, it's these kinds of sexist attitudes that discourage girls AND boys from pursuing certain careers that society has taught them to associate with the gender opposite to theirs.
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wow we got some people on this earth who are on a whole other vibration and they are going to vibrate themselves right out of existence. It isnt traditional. It just is what it is. Many women are nurses. Many men are nurses. Many women are doctors. Many men are doctors. But these are children and not a damn one is a doctor or a nurse. Go suck an egg and give the rest of the world a holiday from your hysterics.
People can be 'offended' as much as they want, but the reality is that most nurses are women and most doctors (particularly specialists) are men. We have had decades of pushing women into occupations and little as changed. Maybe the question is - why is that?
It's just a picture of two children in cute little outfits? No one knows them, or their parents. So they should have no say in the goddamn matter. This isn't sexist. If you WANT TO make a huge deal about nothing. Be my guest. Doesn't mean you're right though.
I agree that this is sexist. Being a nurse is a very tough, demanding, and important job. In my country the term is "medical sister" and just because the name is feminine, mostly women are becoming nurses. This leads to nurses being overworked, denied proper payment, harassed etc. and the whole health system suffers. I am not saying that women are not good nurses, but what happens is that just because all nurses are women, their rights are not properly defended. We need to normalize male nurses - the job is very physically demanding.
I like the one that changed the words to: "Health Professionals in Training". That is clearly stated, not sexist or teaching gender roles or putting caps on either adorable [from the back] child. These two youngin's might be the children of parents in these real life roles and everyone is happy. We all need to stay out of other people's business an mind our own.
what if the girl wanted a pink outfit and she wanted to be a nurse when she grew up, and what if the boy wanted a green outfit and he wanted to be a doctor when he grew up?
so people are guessing what sex they are by the color of their outfits or length of their hair?
What sex they are doesn't really matter. The fact that this exists is a problem, even if the sexes were reversed.
Load More Replies...I am so god d**n tired of this bullcrap! Women should be treated just like men! We're able to do hard work!AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!
ok so this isn't inherently sexist. what if she wants to be a nurse? why does it matter? He could be a nurse too if he wants. who cares? thats what equality is. gender roles aren't relevant anymore. im not taking her side or anything. But let them be children and find their own passion for a job or profession themselves. thank you.
Well, I do think this is a bit sexist if the mom or dad forced or told them to wear this instead of the uniform of their dream job.
Sierra, no, I was asking if thats what some if these people thought, because thats what they are implying. it was a question to them, not a statement. If they think there is something wrong with that picture they are basically saying that girls seeing a girl as a nurse has a negative impact, which is completely bonkers. I think people are mucb too picky in trying to police these things. I am all for women being nurses or doctors and there is nothing wrong with either.
Who give a s**t whether the boy is in doctor and the girls is in nurse, it doesnt f*****g matter
This is a great picture. The only people harming children are those allowing them to decide what gender they want to be when they cant even decide what color to dye their hair. Gender is not a choice, its science.
This is a wonderful picture. There is a very high probability that these children will be something other than doctors and nurses. It's amazing that we live in society that makes a big deal out of nothing. There is absolutely something that will offend someone about everything.
"Honey, you've got a big storm coming" That meme made me laugh so hard
I think have way too much time on their hands. I see the pic, and I think, "cute kids", not "wow, we are forcing our socio-econimic status on young people early and force them into gender bias roles. My God, what Hell is this?" Sometimes, it's ok to be cute and not worry or think of other things.
It's sexiest to assume the girl is the one with long hair and the boy is the one with short hair.
We have to stop this type of thinking or we will never have gender equality. Healthcare professional in training is best said. It is not about them being kids, its about the message it sends. Kids need to know they can be what ever they want to be, if she wants to be a nurse, great. However, my son is a nurse and no he is not Gay! There are a ton of male nurses who are heterosexual.
if you are so paranoid about gays why are you called Queen?
Load More Replies...I'm more amazed at that people directly assumed that the child with long hair is a girl and the shorthaired one is a boy. Perhaps people should look a bit at their own sexism? How do they know that the child didn't say it wanted to be a nurse/doctor and the scrubs was bought after that? And what is wrong with being a nurse by the way?
"shorthaired"? that kid is damn near bald!
Load More Replies...I'm not offended and I think people need to grow a pair and stop getting offended over nothing.
We as older people see this as sexist, but we don't know what the thoughts behind one photo are. Maybe the girl wants to be a nurse, maybe not. Maybe the boy likes green and the girl likes pink. We don't know. Just let them chill out in their dope scrubs, I was doing the same thing (and became a musician...)
I'm not annoyed at it. Yes, nurses aren't just girls and doctors aren't just boys but the thing is the children honestly don't care when there 20 they may change what they want to be. These children don't know what sexism is so what does it matter. If the parent is telling them they can only be a nurse or a doctor than yeah I might have an issue but as far as I and the kids and the picture are, it's a damn costume that they'll wear 5-6 times then forget about when they're 10. So stop losing your damn minds over a picture.
Welp... this post alone needs to satrt a #QuestTo200 This photo is just innocent, doctor and nurse are like mom and dad... They mean the same thing nowadays but based on gender... We only have 2 rules NO FUN ALLOWED! *and no Micheal bay*
This is such c**p. I'm over everything being sexist, or racist, or phobic of some sort.
I think we should be more impressed that both are on their way to becoming medical professionals at such a young age. When I was 3, I could just about read. I'm now 32, and nowhere near becoming trained in medicine and healthcare. Either these kids are super smart, or they're taking that drug from Limitless. Although, if it's the latter, their teachers need to start training them on addictive substances, and their potentially dangerous side-effects.
Why is it so hard to just admit the picture is cute? I mean aren't you supposed to understand when to fight for equality and when to just chill.. pink is not always for girls, long hair is not always for girls, nurse is not always for girls, green is not always for boys, short hair is not always for boys, doctoral degree is not always for boys. Ok, I understand But let's just put it this way, what if it's not a picture but it was a children's drawing. The child draw people in scrubs, with the same descriptions as the picture above. And the children ask "isn't cute?" What will you answer be? I hope you still admire and compliment the drawing :)
Ohhh come on people AND BORED PANDA! First of all, how do you know that maybe they didn’t want to spend money on personalized costumes, and that’s just how it came in the store? How do you know they whether or not they WANTED to be in the clothes like that (little girl nurse, little boy doctor)? This is just plain ridiculous, stop starting an argument about every little thing. Also, SHAME ON YOU BORED PANDA! Listen to us, no one likes a continuous stream of internet arguments. If that was the case we would read buzzfeed. Give us what we came for, the cute posts, funny lists, etc. Stop just posting things to start arguments.
I love this arguments from the comments: "How do you know the one with long blond hair and dressed in pink is a girl, and the other one is a boy? Doesn't that mean you are biased by your preconceptions?"
I would like to comment on this, but that would mean that I'm taking this complete and utter nonsense serious. I'll just shake my head and move on.
Oh my gosh, everyone is so triggered. If you act this way, you sound like you want to make a rule that the girl cant be shown as a nurse because it fuels sexism, or the boy cant be shown as a doctor. Thats just sexism reversed. Take a chill pill. Just say that this is okay too and make sure to teach your children they can do whatever they want. End of story.
I am so tired of people complaining that things are sexist. The picture was supposed to be a cute picture for kids who maybe WANTED to do those things. So shut your mouths if you don't know for a fact that "the labels were forced on them".
Is this where we are now as a society. Where a harmless pic of two children causes over-sensitive easily offended idiots to go into an outrage. They're friggin children Leave them alone.
For all of those crying sexist.... F..k Off. Go out and do something useful in this world.
Feminists need to be pushed into a volcano. "This is sexist. Why isn't SHE the doctor." Hey dumbfuck, did it ever occur to you that, oh I don't know, people have free will and she chose to become a nurse rather than a doctor out of her own personal wants and decisions? No of course not, because that's what fundamentally breaks down every feminist talking point - free will. Bunch of imbeciles.
Unless maybe...just maybe...she said she wants to be nurse and he said he wants to be a doctor.
So, being a nurse is...bad??? I think we need to toughen the inbreeding laws, cause this is getting out of hand!
Are you kidding me, internet? You done some nice things, but when you hurt someone else who didn't do anything wrong, you hurt everybody else and your own image. This photo is cute and harmless, but natural disasters, famine, real gender equality (as you are doing by responding negative like the people like on that dumb tweeting bird website), war, murder, and many many more aren't cute. You should be doing something about that instead of attacking these poor people.
My first thought was that maybe the girl want to be a nurse and the guy a doctor. I'm all for equal rights with EVERYONE, but that also means not being pressured into doing something you don't want to because it may make you "weak" or something like that.
How old are they? Three years tops? They will change their minds a thousand times before they get a real job. And neither one might end up in the medical field or they may end up just as their outfits suggest. Geez, they don't care! They just want to play make belief! I think the picture is adorable without getting butthurt about it!
God, it's the 21st century, we all know women can be doctors and men can be nurses. No need to be so insecure. However, being a nurse is also absolutely normal for women. Maybe these particular children chose it because they wanted it this way. But no, random people on Twitter obviously know more and feel entitled to b***h about it.
You know what...all you f*****g feminist idiots, back off and allow kids to be kids! I’m so bloody sick of hearing this s**t day after day! And as far as adults ‘labelling’ ! Wtf is that supposed to mean! Kids get ONE chance to be kids..that’s it,so stop with the gender and sexist c**p and allow them to enjoy this short space of time in their lives..it passes very quickly! Adults....step back and act like responsible grown ups ...you had your time to play, now don’t ruin it for the younger generations!
omg Feminists aren’t that bad. I don’t get offended over everything, I just want equal rights. Feminist let you vote, read books, wear pants, etc.
Load More Replies...For f**k sake!!!........let the children be children...........This PC/MeToo s**t has gone too far
Right, let them pick their own clothing, colors and dreams instead of forcing them on them.
Load More Replies...Gee! I wonder why more women choose to be nurses rather than doctors and more men choose to be doctors rather than nurses? It must be that bad old stereotypical thought process in their squirrely little brains. Time for some remedial PC training.
Maybe the girl's mother is a nurse and she wants to be a nurse. One of my close friends is a doctor and she has had to sacrifice a huge chunk of her daughter's early years in order to finish her residency. It would be a similar sacrifice for a man, but I'm just saying, not everyone wants or needs to be a doctor.
This is a cruel picture. You know why? Read "This is going to hurt" by Adam Kay. And it has nothing to do with gender
This picture is cruel. You know why? Read "This is going to hurt" by Adam Kay. And it has nothing to do with gender.
The most absurd thing about the negative comments are that one way is ok but the other way around is not. if it should it be equal, both would have the same "profession". But everyone cant have the same professions and do the same things. But that is not important! The most important thing is that they have free will, they do not need to explain their choices, they just need to have a choice of their own. People on internet are stupid
Yes, it's a cultural problem - we all need to be bosses, otherwise all of our efforts are depreciated. Damn, if instead of nurses in the ICU I will have bosses around me, I'll just die
Load More Replies...how can you possibly tell if three year old kids are privileged, heterosexual or disabled?
Load More Replies...Shut up. Us women don’t need to go back to the kitchen, those sexists need to go back to school
Load More Replies...Who was assuming that being a doctor is more important? It's not about which is more important, but it's about the stereotype that if women want to go on the medical field, they should just aim to be nurses instead of getting a PhD. It limits the options women have
Load More Replies...Honestly? Maybe the girl just wanted to be a nurse. People are too upset, far too fast.
Why do you assume that the kid in pink is a girl......? Hm? 😉😁
Load More Replies...I think this discussion warns us we should change the way we look at the nurses. Due to relatives' health issues I've lately visited too many hospitals, and I would like to thank each nurse, male and female, for what they are doing. A girl or boy who chooses to be a nurse shouldn't be regarded as somebody who's not good enough to be a doctor, as the article implies. It's a different profession, very tough, demanding, requiring skills and human empathy, and sadly underpaid. It's an essential job, and a hospital just cannot function without nurses. There's nothing sexist if a girl wants to be a nurse, she actually should be praised. What is needed tho is the adequate reward for their efforts...
Ya I hate job snobbery. Sadly it's extremely common. People don't understand that these jobs are needed. They all contribute to society.
Load More Replies...I dont get how people can defend this kind of sexist gender conforming pictures and then be so 'surprised' when most people chose profesions 'apropiate for their gender'. We all need role models when we are growing up. Its very damaging for kids to keep seeing constantly the same outdated roles. Yes, women can be nurses and men can be doctors, thats not the problem. Is how kids are expected and told to be better at certain areas since they are born just because of their genitals.
Reminds me of the Simpsons ep where the store wouldn't sell Lisa a girl stuffed animal with a doctor's uniform and said it had to be a nurse so she lied and said she had a boy dolphin and they happily handed over the doctor's coat for it. I'm tired of everyone getting outraged by every little thing lately, but this is a valid one. It's not a very good message to send to young girls that they can never be as good as their male counterpart.
glad I stopped watching the Simpsons
Load More Replies...The anger is unfortunately not about this very picture. It`s about the minds of the people who force girls to wear pink and boys to be doctors bla-bla. Even in the movies or tv shows nurses are the girls, whom doctors wanna have sex with (not a decent relationship, just sex). There are lots of example of this situation and then you post this picture with the words "so cuuute". It is cute yeah; in a world, where men and women are equals but not here sir. YES, we are offended bc it is basically a reaction to the actions that we see all day long, everywhere. When people start equal pictures of the boys and girls, this pic will be cute then.
The scrubs should be a single colour and say "Medic in Training." Then no-one could get offended.
But... we should let the kids do kid. If they want to be a "Nurse in Training" so be it!
Load More Replies...Wow. People are so sensitive these days. I mean, maybe the little girls WANTS to be a nurse? A lot of little girls do. And maybe the boy WANTS to be a urologist? Who knows! I truly think NO ONE meant any harm at all in posting this photo. Come on guys, you KNOW that if that little boy was wearing the pink nurse outfit, and the girl was wearing the GREEN, (not even boy-blue!) outfit, there would have been a much bigger sh*tstorm about it, riiiiiight? Because then people would be hollering c**p about the LGBT+ community, and to me, that is a LOT worse than claiming sexism. They look like 2 kids, probably 2 sicks kids, patients, holding hands, while they are in the hospital, trying to have a good time. All they care about is all of the ATTENTION those harmless little outfits are getting them, all of the smiles, and "Awwwww's" and that's IT. PERIOD. Go fight about something else now, something worth of fighting for!
I find it interesting that all those annoyed by this picture have the same stereotype: being doctor is more important than being a nurse. As if being a doctor means a is higher position on the social scale, or something. Every job is very important. Being a nurse is great! Being a doctor is great! Being an orderly is great! Being an idiot... not so great!
There are actually plenty of male nurses among the annoyed comments. I'm sure they want their job to be taken more seriously by everyone who thinks being a nurse is a woman's job (and therefore somehow inferior).
Load More Replies...Seems to me like a crime to be a woman, to dream of being a women, or do girly things Shame on me, my 5yo baby girl takes dance lessons!
I don't think that's the point. It's great to like girly things - congratulations on having your girls in dance lessons! The problem is never with liking things stereotypical to your gender; the problem is when kids are forced into those roles because it's "for girls" or "for boys." Feminism doesn't mean girls can't like dance anymore, it just means girls can also like football, judo, mathematics, and all the other pursuits we as a society used to say were "not for girls." And boys get to choose their own interests, too!
Load More Replies...Can everybody just grow the f**k up? Please! I'm tired of this s**t!
Maybe we should not project our judgment on these children, particularly not without context. Discussion about hidden sexism are needed and so are scrutizing the role models we impose om our children. But we should not make the children subject of that discussion.
The children aren't subject of this discussion. It's their parents choice of clothing that's sexist.
Load More Replies...Well I also find it sexist and misleading, I myself am a young female doctor and must sadly say that most patients automatically assume I am a nurse when I am not fast enough to introduce myself, which is not an offend to me, female and male nurses are amazing colleagues of me, BUT no one ever assume that my young male doctor colleagues are nurses, they are automatically doctors in people's minds and this needs to change. It is not about war against men or b******t like that it is just about simple equality and changing sexist norms against both MEN and WOMEN. When we will move from sexism it will not sound lame and strange f.e for a man to say that something is hard for him, that he needs help in some situations, that he is insecure and so on, which is mostly acceptable for women and sadly almost never for men, which is also a sexism.
I have female relatives and friends who are doctors and programmers. Here, in Romania, nobody told them it's a man's occupation when they went to college and nobody is saying that now. My highschool class was Math and Programming based. It was about 25 people, half boys, half girls.
The “boss doctor in charge” and “proud nurse and feminist” is sexist as well. I don’t understand why people just change roles and assume that makes it better! Guess what? It’s just as sexist, if not more, because they added unnecessary adjectives. “Boss,” “in charge,” “Proud,” and “feminist” are completely unnecessary. Maybe the boy wont grow up to be feminist. That’s ok! Maybe the girl wont grow up to be a boss, or in charge of anything. That’s ok too!
I'm in the 'not cute' section. Americans are ludicrously rigid in their gender stereotypes and it is doing a lot of harm.
I'm just watching the world burn over here... come on, guys. You need context before you alert the press.
No, you don't need context. There could be all sorts of context that excuses this specific case, but the person who decided to post it and say "isn't this cute" was sexist. The kids? maybe not, the parents? Maybe not... but the moment it was made public to share with the world with a "look at this!!" mentality, it became a problem.
Load More Replies...I went to go contribute to society down here then got sidetracked reading all the long comments. ;)
What makes anyone crying over this think that either of the kids have any idea what the scrubs say they're like 2, of course they can be/ do whatever the wish when they're adults but again they're like 2 and it's pretty doubtful they have any idea what is written on their clothes
Here's my opinion. It's sexist if adults chose the nurse\doctor, it's cute if the kids wanted to be nurse\doctor.
The intention of this picture may or may not be sexist, but my gosh people, just because her uniform says nurse and his says dr in no way means it's sexist! Feminism use to mean something, but it has 100% changed in the last several years. It's now mostly (but not all) just a group of whinny brats that want to cry about stupid c**p and pull things out of context and blow them up into much bigger things that they were just not. It's getting old real quick. There are more serious issues and other real and true sexist people to call out instead of crying about made up sexism... my gosh, most of the "sexism" I see nowadays is stuff that has just been majorly pulled out of context. In this case, it could go either way and there is no way of truly knowing without the publisher saying him or her-self. But why jump to conclusions and call someone guilty of something when they have a real possibility of actually being innocent of what they are being accused of???
These people need to get a life. Everyone gets butt hurt for the simplest things in life. IT'S JUST A FUCKN CUTE PIC OF CHILDREN. People you cry about every thing these days.
It is the simplest things in life that make a difference. All the little things that happen every day add up and make a huge difference by the time those kids become adults. One little thing isn't an issue, but 7,000 little things... that's an issue. And THIS is definitely one of those 7,000
Load More Replies...I spent a month in the hospital one time and another 10 days another time, in that forty days, I had two male nurses and 2 female doctors, all the rest were “gender norms”. The male nurses were a little rough-er around the edges, but just as caring as the females. The two female doctors were just as reclusive and annoying as any male doctor that came to see me in there. The underlying urge to do which ever job, whichever gender the person may be, is what matters.
I want to see a second picture with the girl wearing 'Doctor in Training' and the boy wanting to be a nurse. Remember, people: There are different skill sets for a nurse vs a doctor ! And it has nothing to do with gender.
Interesting debate here. Personally, yeah it’s cute but yeah it is problematic. We don’t know what the deal is with these kids and their role models and aspirations, but putting the picture in the public eye serves to reinforce gender stereotypes. The problems go further though. By getting all upset about the gender issues we are inadvertently saying that nurses are inferior to doctors, which sucks, and it’s defaults like that that perpetuate issues over pay. Indoctrination starts very very early - it’s very common for us to have to challenge something our son says in that respect, eg ‘l like girl’s colours like pink’. So all the various levels going on in this picture concern me. But to really unpick it some context is needed, which we don’t have. Whichever side of this you fall down on, challenge your defaults. Don’t neglect one issue because it’s not the one that leaps out at you.
First question. Is being a nurse lower status than a doctor? If yes, then why so? If not, then wtf is the problem
Really stop this b******t now, for all we know they both chose that uniform themselves, we all know there are plenty of m&f doctors and nurses, go to any surgery or hospital and you will see plenty of both.
Does it occur to any of the people commenting that "maybe she wants to be nurse", because she's been taught that being a nurse is for women and being a doctor is for boys? That's the issue people have with this picture, it's these kinds of sexist attitudes that discourage girls AND boys from pursuing certain careers that society has taught them to associate with the gender opposite to theirs.
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wow we got some people on this earth who are on a whole other vibration and they are going to vibrate themselves right out of existence. It isnt traditional. It just is what it is. Many women are nurses. Many men are nurses. Many women are doctors. Many men are doctors. But these are children and not a damn one is a doctor or a nurse. Go suck an egg and give the rest of the world a holiday from your hysterics.
People can be 'offended' as much as they want, but the reality is that most nurses are women and most doctors (particularly specialists) are men. We have had decades of pushing women into occupations and little as changed. Maybe the question is - why is that?
It's just a picture of two children in cute little outfits? No one knows them, or their parents. So they should have no say in the goddamn matter. This isn't sexist. If you WANT TO make a huge deal about nothing. Be my guest. Doesn't mean you're right though.
I agree that this is sexist. Being a nurse is a very tough, demanding, and important job. In my country the term is "medical sister" and just because the name is feminine, mostly women are becoming nurses. This leads to nurses being overworked, denied proper payment, harassed etc. and the whole health system suffers. I am not saying that women are not good nurses, but what happens is that just because all nurses are women, their rights are not properly defended. We need to normalize male nurses - the job is very physically demanding.
I like the one that changed the words to: "Health Professionals in Training". That is clearly stated, not sexist or teaching gender roles or putting caps on either adorable [from the back] child. These two youngin's might be the children of parents in these real life roles and everyone is happy. We all need to stay out of other people's business an mind our own.
what if the girl wanted a pink outfit and she wanted to be a nurse when she grew up, and what if the boy wanted a green outfit and he wanted to be a doctor when he grew up?
so people are guessing what sex they are by the color of their outfits or length of their hair?
What sex they are doesn't really matter. The fact that this exists is a problem, even if the sexes were reversed.
Load More Replies...I am so god d**n tired of this bullcrap! Women should be treated just like men! We're able to do hard work!AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!
ok so this isn't inherently sexist. what if she wants to be a nurse? why does it matter? He could be a nurse too if he wants. who cares? thats what equality is. gender roles aren't relevant anymore. im not taking her side or anything. But let them be children and find their own passion for a job or profession themselves. thank you.
Well, I do think this is a bit sexist if the mom or dad forced or told them to wear this instead of the uniform of their dream job.
Sierra, no, I was asking if thats what some if these people thought, because thats what they are implying. it was a question to them, not a statement. If they think there is something wrong with that picture they are basically saying that girls seeing a girl as a nurse has a negative impact, which is completely bonkers. I think people are mucb too picky in trying to police these things. I am all for women being nurses or doctors and there is nothing wrong with either.
Who give a s**t whether the boy is in doctor and the girls is in nurse, it doesnt f*****g matter
This is a great picture. The only people harming children are those allowing them to decide what gender they want to be when they cant even decide what color to dye their hair. Gender is not a choice, its science.
This is a wonderful picture. There is a very high probability that these children will be something other than doctors and nurses. It's amazing that we live in society that makes a big deal out of nothing. There is absolutely something that will offend someone about everything.
"Honey, you've got a big storm coming" That meme made me laugh so hard
I think have way too much time on their hands. I see the pic, and I think, "cute kids", not "wow, we are forcing our socio-econimic status on young people early and force them into gender bias roles. My God, what Hell is this?" Sometimes, it's ok to be cute and not worry or think of other things.
It's sexiest to assume the girl is the one with long hair and the boy is the one with short hair.
We have to stop this type of thinking or we will never have gender equality. Healthcare professional in training is best said. It is not about them being kids, its about the message it sends. Kids need to know they can be what ever they want to be, if she wants to be a nurse, great. However, my son is a nurse and no he is not Gay! There are a ton of male nurses who are heterosexual.
if you are so paranoid about gays why are you called Queen?
Load More Replies...I'm more amazed at that people directly assumed that the child with long hair is a girl and the shorthaired one is a boy. Perhaps people should look a bit at their own sexism? How do they know that the child didn't say it wanted to be a nurse/doctor and the scrubs was bought after that? And what is wrong with being a nurse by the way?
"shorthaired"? that kid is damn near bald!
Load More Replies...I'm not offended and I think people need to grow a pair and stop getting offended over nothing.
We as older people see this as sexist, but we don't know what the thoughts behind one photo are. Maybe the girl wants to be a nurse, maybe not. Maybe the boy likes green and the girl likes pink. We don't know. Just let them chill out in their dope scrubs, I was doing the same thing (and became a musician...)
I'm not annoyed at it. Yes, nurses aren't just girls and doctors aren't just boys but the thing is the children honestly don't care when there 20 they may change what they want to be. These children don't know what sexism is so what does it matter. If the parent is telling them they can only be a nurse or a doctor than yeah I might have an issue but as far as I and the kids and the picture are, it's a damn costume that they'll wear 5-6 times then forget about when they're 10. So stop losing your damn minds over a picture.
Welp... this post alone needs to satrt a #QuestTo200 This photo is just innocent, doctor and nurse are like mom and dad... They mean the same thing nowadays but based on gender... We only have 2 rules NO FUN ALLOWED! *and no Micheal bay*
This is such c**p. I'm over everything being sexist, or racist, or phobic of some sort.
I think we should be more impressed that both are on their way to becoming medical professionals at such a young age. When I was 3, I could just about read. I'm now 32, and nowhere near becoming trained in medicine and healthcare. Either these kids are super smart, or they're taking that drug from Limitless. Although, if it's the latter, their teachers need to start training them on addictive substances, and their potentially dangerous side-effects.
Why is it so hard to just admit the picture is cute? I mean aren't you supposed to understand when to fight for equality and when to just chill.. pink is not always for girls, long hair is not always for girls, nurse is not always for girls, green is not always for boys, short hair is not always for boys, doctoral degree is not always for boys. Ok, I understand But let's just put it this way, what if it's not a picture but it was a children's drawing. The child draw people in scrubs, with the same descriptions as the picture above. And the children ask "isn't cute?" What will you answer be? I hope you still admire and compliment the drawing :)
Ohhh come on people AND BORED PANDA! First of all, how do you know that maybe they didn’t want to spend money on personalized costumes, and that’s just how it came in the store? How do you know they whether or not they WANTED to be in the clothes like that (little girl nurse, little boy doctor)? This is just plain ridiculous, stop starting an argument about every little thing. Also, SHAME ON YOU BORED PANDA! Listen to us, no one likes a continuous stream of internet arguments. If that was the case we would read buzzfeed. Give us what we came for, the cute posts, funny lists, etc. Stop just posting things to start arguments.
I love this arguments from the comments: "How do you know the one with long blond hair and dressed in pink is a girl, and the other one is a boy? Doesn't that mean you are biased by your preconceptions?"
I would like to comment on this, but that would mean that I'm taking this complete and utter nonsense serious. I'll just shake my head and move on.
Oh my gosh, everyone is so triggered. If you act this way, you sound like you want to make a rule that the girl cant be shown as a nurse because it fuels sexism, or the boy cant be shown as a doctor. Thats just sexism reversed. Take a chill pill. Just say that this is okay too and make sure to teach your children they can do whatever they want. End of story.
I am so tired of people complaining that things are sexist. The picture was supposed to be a cute picture for kids who maybe WANTED to do those things. So shut your mouths if you don't know for a fact that "the labels were forced on them".
Is this where we are now as a society. Where a harmless pic of two children causes over-sensitive easily offended idiots to go into an outrage. They're friggin children Leave them alone.
For all of those crying sexist.... F..k Off. Go out and do something useful in this world.
Feminists need to be pushed into a volcano. "This is sexist. Why isn't SHE the doctor." Hey dumbfuck, did it ever occur to you that, oh I don't know, people have free will and she chose to become a nurse rather than a doctor out of her own personal wants and decisions? No of course not, because that's what fundamentally breaks down every feminist talking point - free will. Bunch of imbeciles.
Unless maybe...just maybe...she said she wants to be nurse and he said he wants to be a doctor.
So, being a nurse is...bad??? I think we need to toughen the inbreeding laws, cause this is getting out of hand!
Are you kidding me, internet? You done some nice things, but when you hurt someone else who didn't do anything wrong, you hurt everybody else and your own image. This photo is cute and harmless, but natural disasters, famine, real gender equality (as you are doing by responding negative like the people like on that dumb tweeting bird website), war, murder, and many many more aren't cute. You should be doing something about that instead of attacking these poor people.
My first thought was that maybe the girl want to be a nurse and the guy a doctor. I'm all for equal rights with EVERYONE, but that also means not being pressured into doing something you don't want to because it may make you "weak" or something like that.
How old are they? Three years tops? They will change their minds a thousand times before they get a real job. And neither one might end up in the medical field or they may end up just as their outfits suggest. Geez, they don't care! They just want to play make belief! I think the picture is adorable without getting butthurt about it!
God, it's the 21st century, we all know women can be doctors and men can be nurses. No need to be so insecure. However, being a nurse is also absolutely normal for women. Maybe these particular children chose it because they wanted it this way. But no, random people on Twitter obviously know more and feel entitled to b***h about it.
You know what...all you f*****g feminist idiots, back off and allow kids to be kids! I’m so bloody sick of hearing this s**t day after day! And as far as adults ‘labelling’ ! Wtf is that supposed to mean! Kids get ONE chance to be kids..that’s it,so stop with the gender and sexist c**p and allow them to enjoy this short space of time in their lives..it passes very quickly! Adults....step back and act like responsible grown ups ...you had your time to play, now don’t ruin it for the younger generations!
omg Feminists aren’t that bad. I don’t get offended over everything, I just want equal rights. Feminist let you vote, read books, wear pants, etc.
Load More Replies...For f**k sake!!!........let the children be children...........This PC/MeToo s**t has gone too far
Right, let them pick their own clothing, colors and dreams instead of forcing them on them.
Load More Replies...Gee! I wonder why more women choose to be nurses rather than doctors and more men choose to be doctors rather than nurses? It must be that bad old stereotypical thought process in their squirrely little brains. Time for some remedial PC training.
Maybe the girl's mother is a nurse and she wants to be a nurse. One of my close friends is a doctor and she has had to sacrifice a huge chunk of her daughter's early years in order to finish her residency. It would be a similar sacrifice for a man, but I'm just saying, not everyone wants or needs to be a doctor.
This is a cruel picture. You know why? Read "This is going to hurt" by Adam Kay. And it has nothing to do with gender
This picture is cruel. You know why? Read "This is going to hurt" by Adam Kay. And it has nothing to do with gender.
The most absurd thing about the negative comments are that one way is ok but the other way around is not. if it should it be equal, both would have the same "profession". But everyone cant have the same professions and do the same things. But that is not important! The most important thing is that they have free will, they do not need to explain their choices, they just need to have a choice of their own. People on internet are stupid
Yes, it's a cultural problem - we all need to be bosses, otherwise all of our efforts are depreciated. Damn, if instead of nurses in the ICU I will have bosses around me, I'll just die
Load More Replies...how can you possibly tell if three year old kids are privileged, heterosexual or disabled?
Load More Replies...Shut up. Us women don’t need to go back to the kitchen, those sexists need to go back to school
Load More Replies...Who was assuming that being a doctor is more important? It's not about which is more important, but it's about the stereotype that if women want to go on the medical field, they should just aim to be nurses instead of getting a PhD. It limits the options women have
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