45 Of The Most Savage ‘Gender Reveal Party’ Memes After People Learned It Was The Cause Of An Apocalyptic Wildfire In California
InterviewLaughing while crying tears of sadness seems to be the name of the game in 2020. Americans are battling the intense wildfires that are ravaging the West Coast, turning the sky red, and forcing hundreds of thousands of people to flee their homes. Meanwhile, internet users have been mercilessly poking fun at gender reveal parties after one such event led to the outbreak of a massive fire in Southern California. The El Dorado Fire started because of a pyrotechnic device on September 5 and has since then burned over 13.5k acres of land.
Scroll down, upvote your fave memes, and let us know what you think of them and gender reveal parties in the comments. And if you’re currently somewhere on the West Coast, stay safe, dear Pandas!
Bored Panda spoke about the El Dorado fire with Joe Wadlington who is in San Francisco right now and created one of the gender reveal memes. He said that nobody should be playing around with pyrotechnic devices, explosives, or fireworks during wildfire season in California because the consequences can be massive. "Gender reveal parties are already toxic and unnecessary. Now people are starting wildfires. I'm in San Francisco right now and it's slowly raining ash outside my window." Read on for the rest of his insights. Bored Panda also reached out to 'Know Your Meme's' Senior Editor Matt Schimkowitz to hear his take on gender reveal memes. Check out what he had to say below as well.
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According to 'Know Your Meme's' very own Matt, he personally finds the gender reveal memes funny. "It's an easy format that people are getting a lot of mileage from. Do I think that it's necessary to shame them? I'm not in the business of determining something like that. But it's hard to feel sympathy for the couple, especially for someone like me living in California who spent the weekend indoors because the air quality is so poor. And I’m lucky. Lives are being ruined by these fires. People are being displaced. Some are dying."
Matt doesn't think that the memes will help people become more aware of the potential damage they can cause, but they might sway public opinion about gender reveal parties. "I think that that public's perception about gender reveals might shift. With so many people publicly mocking them at the moment, some might be a little more apprehensive to throw one," he said.
"On some level, news and current events drive memes. They allow people to express their fears, hopes, and feelings on everyday life. The California fires are inspiring some memes this week, but with so much going on in the world, it's hard to tell if that will continue. Last year, the Australian bush fires, a major tragedy in their own right, drove news stories and memes. Flint, Michigan's water crisis is an ongoing tragedy that inspired its fair share of memes, but if the news doesn't keep that at the forefront of people's minds, people tend to move on to the next disaster."
Meanwhile, Joe told us what inspired him to create his own gender reveal meme about the Hindenburg disaster. "I thought through well-known historical disasters that had a recognizable image and had been completely preventable. I wanted to alight gender reveal parties with something else that’s embarrassing and was unnecessary. Because they are embarrassing and unnecessary and could mark our time as lack critical thought," he said.
"People shouldn’t have gender reveal parties. They encourage the toxic ways we’ve socialized gender. You should raise your baby to be a healthy baby, not like a 'little cheerleader' vs. a 'little football player,' Joe shared his opinion.
"Having a gender reveal party implies that the parents are going to raise their child very differently depending on what gender the kid is assigned at birth. I’m sure most of us can think of a time we wish our own parents hadn’t forced us into a specific thing just because boys or girls are 'supposed to do it.' If you want to tell people about your baby’s anatomy, that’s fine. But it shouldn’t be the most important thing about them. Why would we pass that close minded binary down to the next generation?"
This is inaccurate, as America is doing literally nothing to combat covid-19, and is definitely not wearing armor.
A vespiary. It's yellow, it's black, no yellow, wait...what the fudging sex is it!
The fire began during a family photoshoot at El Dorado Ranch Park in Yucaipa, around 70 miles east of Los Angeles, after a smoke device ignited the nearby brush. Since then, the fire has spread, and only around a third of it has been contained as of September 10.
“In my 30 years as a citizen in Yucaipa, I have never seen such a large fire. As a retired firefighter with 32 years of experience, I can assure you I witnessed one of the most dangerous fires that we can have in this area,” said Yucaipa Mayor David Avila.
The sad thing is, this isn’t the only gender reveal party to have started a fire. Back in 2017, a party in Arizona led to a wildfire that razed 47k acres after a man shot an explosive substance at a target. He was ordered to repay around 8 million dollars in damages.
Let alone feeling like it’s perfectly fine to set off those explosives in a dry wooded area during a drought.
At the time of writing, there were more than 100 wildfires rampaging through 12 western US states currently, as reported by the BBC. The National Interagency Fire Center states that 4.4 million acres of land have been burned.
California, Oregon, and Washington have been affected the hardest. At least 15 people have died from wildfires in these three states and 500k Oregonians are leaving their homes behind and evacuating to safety.
The BLM protesters didn't destroy properties, but looters and crooks did.
mmm...I'm no physicist, but a hole rather would represent a girl.../:)
As an European, I find really singular how a lot of Americans, whatever they live, love or do feel "obligated" to make a show of it. I got the feeling that it must be hard to live in a culture where an individual is pushed to be in the constant representation of it own self. Tears of compassion.
i wonder how thats gonna turn out. they show up to school and was like "hey im the kid that basically killed your cousins and friends. nice to meet you!"
O.k., I'm only part way through yet I've laughed so hard my head is killing me. Thank God this useless trend is finally going up in smoke.
Maybe dye the inside of a cake instead of burning down half the state?
I'm sure that as the fires are raging, there are American moms planning another gender reveal party with loads of fireworks and explosions and hundreds of plastic balloons so more animals will die.
The most essential piece of the pack being the Karen haircut, obviously.
@Andrew: This is how you can comment/reply to a comment with many downvotes. Just don't use pejorative adjectives about the posters, please. This site, as all sites, is only as civilized as we users make it.
@Scott Brynildsen... bro you good? Need a chill pill? Monika didn't even offend anyone. Just chill out, please. Also if you're gonna try andd bash her for supporting trump, which she may or may not do (I don't support her supporting him, but still), can you PLEASE not put a transphobic comment in with your "roast"? Not a good look.
Load More Replies...Cousin sent a photo from 20 mi away. The sky was orange and everything was covered with soot. Terrifying!
The people who started this fire should be made to work with firefighters and support people dealing with the fallout. They should have to rescue people and animals who are trapped, injured, and homeless. They should also be made to remove dead bodies, human and animal. Then maybe, just maybe, the full weight of the misery and destruction they caused will fall on them. I want that to happen, as an object lesson, to them and future couples considering hosting a similar event, about both thinking before doing and suffering the consequences of their actions. I don’t want them to just get a slap on the wrist and a small fine, and it all gets forgotten. TEN people have died because of their narcissism and negligence. They should be tried for ten counts of involuntary manslaughter (and have the baby in jail maybe?). I wish California would be the first state to make it a felony to use pyrotechnic devices by anyone but certified professionals who have obtained a permit for the event.
Totally agree with you. Because of their hubris and downright stupidity, they have caused untold damage. Countless animals have obviously die and just the overall destruction of flora in general. I despair at the intelligence of some people. But they walk amongst us. Oh, and hoping that the 'apple has fallen far from the tree' and the child grows up to be a caring and intelligent individual, imagine the guilt he/she will probably be burdened with?
Load More Replies...I'd hate to be that baby... growing up and finding out about this terrible tragedy.
Don't worry. The parents will have totally acceptable excuses for how they managed to burn down an entire forest, killing thousands of animals, destroying houses and killing people. They won't lose one second of sleep over it.
Load More Replies...Had to Google wtf a gender reveal party was... I thought it was people transitioning or something... It is not! How f*****g attention seeking do people have to be these days!
Me, too. At first I thought it was an outcoming party, to celebrate and tell all the family that one was gay, bisexual or whatever.
Load More Replies...Why have gender reveal parties become such spectacles? Humans reproduce all the time. What is the big deal? The people who started this disaster, intentional or not, should feel guilty for the duration of their lives. And, they should provide restitution in any way possible.
All of my kids revealed their gender to us at birth. We didn't know beforehand. 🙂
As an American I need people to stop saying "Americans be like...*gender reveal dunking*" The VAST majority of us (I think) aren't so self-centered as to even entertain the idea of a gender reveal party much less something foolish enough to set a car (Seen here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z91szT2mP3Y) or forest on fire to do so.
It's not just Americans. its just a lot of dumb things are documented by Americans that are then shared around the world. People are idiots everywhere. Absolutely everywhere. But your education system does not help you out at all
Load More Replies...First it was Baby Showers, then Gender Reveal Parties when will someone suggest Conception Parties?
I know we constantly mock America for all the c**p things that go on there but yes, we know that some of you are decent people and are ashamed of it, too. Here's the deal: We'll provide boats for the good people to flee the country and when we've got you all safe, we'll just torch the whole godforsaken place. Does that sound cool?
When the orange buffoon was saying Mexico would pay for a wall, someone suggested Canada do too, and the rest of us chip in for a lid.
Load More Replies...Even the mom who started the gender reveal party idea years ago is pleading with people to stop doing them! Especially since they keep getting bigger and bigger. Everyone has to outdo the last person. I don’t understand how someone can sleep at night after being the cause of something so devastating.
Since when is gender reveal written as grenade reveal? And why do they have to be so idiotic violent? Explosions, gunfire, exploding rockets, pipebombs.... Seriously?
Someone asks a pregnant woman: "What do you want, a boy or a girl?" "It doesn't matter! What matters that s/he should be healthy!" nine month latter: "So, is it a boy or a girl?" "The doctors still not sure, but it's healthy!"
These parties have gotten ridiculous and way out of hand and sometimes this is the result. It is amazing that in these times people feel the need to throw parties like this. Just call all the people you want to know and let that be the end of it.
Me as european: Gender reveal party? What is this wizardry? (So... Just tell the people who ask, what it is. Most people have no interest in gender of your child....)
Me pregnant and doing a gender reveal.... ...going around telling everyone I had a penis now, too.
They might as well go ahead and put the kid up for adoption. They’re likely going to have to file bankruptcy due to all the damages they’re going to be charged and if one person dies they’re going to be charged with negligent homicide. I don’t know if they’ll do jail time but they’re going to have to owe so much money that they’ll be no way they can afford a baby
Frankly I don't think bankruptcy should discharge any monetary fines/restitution they owe. They should still be on the hook to pay that off just like they do with student loan debt. For that matter, student loan debt *should* be discharged in bankruptcy but s**t like this should stay and their wages (whenever they get out of prison) garnished until it is all paid off or they die.
Load More Replies...Never seen a gender reveal party before, and don't know anything about it. But if it's a party, shouldn't food and balloons be enough? A little music would be nice too. If you want it to be memorable why not just record it? You know, like for normal family parties.
The last thing people need to be doing is having a PARTY to celebrate the fact that their bringing another useless human into this pathetic world. Boooooo!
Probably I am mentally lazy or from different planet but what is gender reveal party? Here, many parents do not wish to know the sex and want the surprise then.. And why the boy is "congrats"? I do not see any difference...
Either boy or girl is "congrats". You say it because you're in a party and parents are happy.
Load More Replies...Every day we read about stupidity of American including their President and the damage they caused.
Someone tweeted a suggestion for gender reveals (so this is very much NOT mine): "Hand everyone envelopes. When they open them, if there's a dollar inside, it's boy. If it's a girl, there's 72 cents." Love this one! That's how you burn without destroying entire ecosystems. :)
But....but....you defeat the whole purpose of the party! (which is grabbing instead of giving)
Load More Replies...The guy who started the fire in 2017 was sentenced to eight years in jail, but he had actual explosives. This couple had a smoke machine. I wonder how the charges will differ, and if they'll add manslaughter charges for the people who have died. Where's the line between responsibility and scapegoating?
Dear snowflake parents: No one, but NO ONE gives a s**t about the gender of your fetus but you.
The day I saw that goddamn influencer "farting" blue smoke I knew we were doomed
That complete family should be in prison forever including the kid who made a mess before even born.
American dreams is to have a gender party that will become news all over world and cause great damage in the ecosystem, in the middle of pandemic while having political crisis
I don't suspect pregnant moms of wanting to blow things up to announce their baby's gender.
If the powder mixed with the explosive was coloured, and the flames are orange, does that mean the kid is ginger?
"Gender reveal party"? A bunch of drunken flashers in grubby raincoats? Do they bring their own bags of boiled lollies?
I've yet to understand why people feel the need to advertise the presence/absence of their unborn child's penis or vagina.
Okay well that’s one way to turn your kid non-binary. I imagine they might rebel against their gender due to the fall out and memes this has caused
The baby isn't enough old to understand memes... wait, it's not born yet. Never will know it.
Load More Replies...I hate where the send button is on this phone. I hit send just as I was trying express gender reveal parties, etc are basically invitations for you to send a gift, for the right gender saving future mom the pain and trouble of having to schlepp down and exchange or return the raggedy a*s gift you sent along with all the others. I don't really care if it's a boy or a girl. And this poor kid will be paying off that fire because his inheritance went up in smoke before he even got here.
Fire is not the best way to start any party but fire is the best way to end gatherings of r******d people
Pretty despicable enterprise, I'd say. When you're literally nothing yet try anything to stand out.
We urgently need trigger the yellowstone volcano, this continent needs to stop.
FFS gender reveal isn't even what it is. It's "We are revealing what it's presumed sex organs are." Which is kind of effed anyway when you learn 1 in 60 live births is intersexed. WTF the world gotta know what your kid's genitals are? It's creepy.
You've got a point, but a gender reveal party this... 'dramatic' is definitely not necessary.
Load More Replies...Where did you get that from? Do you mind sharing your source?
Load More Replies...The people who started this fire should be made to work with firefighters and support people dealing with the fallout. They should have to rescue people and animals who are trapped, injured, and homeless. They should also be made to remove dead bodies, human and animal. Then maybe, just maybe, the full weight of the misery and destruction they caused will fall on them. I want that to happen, as an object lesson, to them and future couples considering hosting a similar event, about both thinking before doing and suffering the consequences of their actions. I don’t want them to just get a slap on the wrist and a small fine, and it all gets forgotten. TEN people have died because of their narcissism and negligence. They should be tried for ten counts of involuntary manslaughter (and have the baby in jail maybe?). I wish California would be the first state to make it a felony to use pyrotechnic devices by anyone but certified professionals who have obtained a permit for the event.
Totally agree with you. Because of their hubris and downright stupidity, they have caused untold damage. Countless animals have obviously die and just the overall destruction of flora in general. I despair at the intelligence of some people. But they walk amongst us. Oh, and hoping that the 'apple has fallen far from the tree' and the child grows up to be a caring and intelligent individual, imagine the guilt he/she will probably be burdened with?
Load More Replies...I'd hate to be that baby... growing up and finding out about this terrible tragedy.
Don't worry. The parents will have totally acceptable excuses for how they managed to burn down an entire forest, killing thousands of animals, destroying houses and killing people. They won't lose one second of sleep over it.
Load More Replies...Had to Google wtf a gender reveal party was... I thought it was people transitioning or something... It is not! How f*****g attention seeking do people have to be these days!
Me, too. At first I thought it was an outcoming party, to celebrate and tell all the family that one was gay, bisexual or whatever.
Load More Replies...Why have gender reveal parties become such spectacles? Humans reproduce all the time. What is the big deal? The people who started this disaster, intentional or not, should feel guilty for the duration of their lives. And, they should provide restitution in any way possible.
All of my kids revealed their gender to us at birth. We didn't know beforehand. 🙂
As an American I need people to stop saying "Americans be like...*gender reveal dunking*" The VAST majority of us (I think) aren't so self-centered as to even entertain the idea of a gender reveal party much less something foolish enough to set a car (Seen here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z91szT2mP3Y) or forest on fire to do so.
It's not just Americans. its just a lot of dumb things are documented by Americans that are then shared around the world. People are idiots everywhere. Absolutely everywhere. But your education system does not help you out at all
Load More Replies...First it was Baby Showers, then Gender Reveal Parties when will someone suggest Conception Parties?
I know we constantly mock America for all the c**p things that go on there but yes, we know that some of you are decent people and are ashamed of it, too. Here's the deal: We'll provide boats for the good people to flee the country and when we've got you all safe, we'll just torch the whole godforsaken place. Does that sound cool?
When the orange buffoon was saying Mexico would pay for a wall, someone suggested Canada do too, and the rest of us chip in for a lid.
Load More Replies...Even the mom who started the gender reveal party idea years ago is pleading with people to stop doing them! Especially since they keep getting bigger and bigger. Everyone has to outdo the last person. I don’t understand how someone can sleep at night after being the cause of something so devastating.
Since when is gender reveal written as grenade reveal? And why do they have to be so idiotic violent? Explosions, gunfire, exploding rockets, pipebombs.... Seriously?
Someone asks a pregnant woman: "What do you want, a boy or a girl?" "It doesn't matter! What matters that s/he should be healthy!" nine month latter: "So, is it a boy or a girl?" "The doctors still not sure, but it's healthy!"
These parties have gotten ridiculous and way out of hand and sometimes this is the result. It is amazing that in these times people feel the need to throw parties like this. Just call all the people you want to know and let that be the end of it.
Me as european: Gender reveal party? What is this wizardry? (So... Just tell the people who ask, what it is. Most people have no interest in gender of your child....)
Me pregnant and doing a gender reveal.... ...going around telling everyone I had a penis now, too.
They might as well go ahead and put the kid up for adoption. They’re likely going to have to file bankruptcy due to all the damages they’re going to be charged and if one person dies they’re going to be charged with negligent homicide. I don’t know if they’ll do jail time but they’re going to have to owe so much money that they’ll be no way they can afford a baby
Frankly I don't think bankruptcy should discharge any monetary fines/restitution they owe. They should still be on the hook to pay that off just like they do with student loan debt. For that matter, student loan debt *should* be discharged in bankruptcy but s**t like this should stay and their wages (whenever they get out of prison) garnished until it is all paid off or they die.
Load More Replies...Never seen a gender reveal party before, and don't know anything about it. But if it's a party, shouldn't food and balloons be enough? A little music would be nice too. If you want it to be memorable why not just record it? You know, like for normal family parties.
The last thing people need to be doing is having a PARTY to celebrate the fact that their bringing another useless human into this pathetic world. Boooooo!
Probably I am mentally lazy or from different planet but what is gender reveal party? Here, many parents do not wish to know the sex and want the surprise then.. And why the boy is "congrats"? I do not see any difference...
Either boy or girl is "congrats". You say it because you're in a party and parents are happy.
Load More Replies...Every day we read about stupidity of American including their President and the damage they caused.
Someone tweeted a suggestion for gender reveals (so this is very much NOT mine): "Hand everyone envelopes. When they open them, if there's a dollar inside, it's boy. If it's a girl, there's 72 cents." Love this one! That's how you burn without destroying entire ecosystems. :)
But....but....you defeat the whole purpose of the party! (which is grabbing instead of giving)
Load More Replies...The guy who started the fire in 2017 was sentenced to eight years in jail, but he had actual explosives. This couple had a smoke machine. I wonder how the charges will differ, and if they'll add manslaughter charges for the people who have died. Where's the line between responsibility and scapegoating?
Dear snowflake parents: No one, but NO ONE gives a s**t about the gender of your fetus but you.
The day I saw that goddamn influencer "farting" blue smoke I knew we were doomed
That complete family should be in prison forever including the kid who made a mess before even born.
American dreams is to have a gender party that will become news all over world and cause great damage in the ecosystem, in the middle of pandemic while having political crisis
I don't suspect pregnant moms of wanting to blow things up to announce their baby's gender.
If the powder mixed with the explosive was coloured, and the flames are orange, does that mean the kid is ginger?
"Gender reveal party"? A bunch of drunken flashers in grubby raincoats? Do they bring their own bags of boiled lollies?
I've yet to understand why people feel the need to advertise the presence/absence of their unborn child's penis or vagina.
Okay well that’s one way to turn your kid non-binary. I imagine they might rebel against their gender due to the fall out and memes this has caused
The baby isn't enough old to understand memes... wait, it's not born yet. Never will know it.
Load More Replies...I hate where the send button is on this phone. I hit send just as I was trying express gender reveal parties, etc are basically invitations for you to send a gift, for the right gender saving future mom the pain and trouble of having to schlepp down and exchange or return the raggedy a*s gift you sent along with all the others. I don't really care if it's a boy or a girl. And this poor kid will be paying off that fire because his inheritance went up in smoke before he even got here.
Fire is not the best way to start any party but fire is the best way to end gatherings of r******d people
Pretty despicable enterprise, I'd say. When you're literally nothing yet try anything to stand out.
We urgently need trigger the yellowstone volcano, this continent needs to stop.
FFS gender reveal isn't even what it is. It's "We are revealing what it's presumed sex organs are." Which is kind of effed anyway when you learn 1 in 60 live births is intersexed. WTF the world gotta know what your kid's genitals are? It's creepy.
You've got a point, but a gender reveal party this... 'dramatic' is definitely not necessary.
Load More Replies...Where did you get that from? Do you mind sharing your source?
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