As a kid, I used to fantasize about being an adult. Staying up as late as I want, going out on dates and being able to drive myself anywhere I need to go? Sounds like a dream! But as I aged out of my teenage years, I realized that being a grown-up is much less glamorous than I expected. Suddenly, I had bills and rent to pay, food stopped magically appearing in the fridge, and all of my free time was swallowed up by this annoying thing called “work.”
If you know the struggles of “adulting” all too well, you’re not alone, pandas. Below, we’ve gathered some of the most relatable posts people have shared on X that encapsulate the bizarre experience of being an adult. Keep reading to also find conversations with Rachel Ritlop, founder of the 31 Day Adulting Challenge, and Lauren Keen Aumond of Adulting is Easy, and be sure to upvote the pics that make you feel seen!
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Bosses don't like you doing that when you're on the night shift, though.
While “adulting” might sound like a made-up word that millennials throw around on the internet when tasked with annoying, mundane or challenging responsibilities, it is actually a word in the dictionary. According to Cambridge Dictionary, adulting can simply be defined as “actions and behaviors that are considered typical of adults, not children or young people.”
This might be the perpetual need to clean the kitchen, washing your car every week because it’s frustrating to see it covered in dirt, doing taxes, grocery shopping and actually eating food at home, and doing that endless pile of laundry. Adulting can be painful, strange, frustrating and exciting all at once. Accomplishing something like purchasing your first home? Amazing! Having to repair issues in the home that you weren’t at all prepared for? Not so much fun.
Just watch old shows like Andy Griffith or Dennis the Menace. The "parents" seem more like grandparents.
To learn more about how to live, laugh and adult in these current conditions, we reached out to Rachel Ritlop, creator of The Confused Millennial and founder of the 31 Day Adulting Challenge. Rachel was kind enough to share her thoughts with Bored Panda, as well as how she likes to define adulting.
"Adulting is basically handling all the mundane responsibilities we took for granted as kids," she explained. "The things that were just magically done and we never thought about; but now make us go 'ugh' at the thought of."
I sometimes wake up and my shoulder randomly won't shoulder anymore like wtf
Why are they so expensive?! They were once considered inexpensive gifts! Now I get a pack of socks for Christmas and I'm like "damn, they went all out"
We were also curious about what Rachel considers to be the best and worst aspects of adulting. "I think the best part [is] that it forces us into the present moment and simpler times; which is no easy feat with the constant attention grab technology, particularly social media, present today," she explained. "Funny enough, the thing that makes us go 'ugh' is the thing that's probably protecting our nervous system!"
"The worst parts of adulting, in my opinion, are the less common, but necessary, tasks like taxes or doctors appointments that we have to remember to stay on top of because they aren't part of our regular routine," Rachel added.
Now we know why our parents forced us to eat all those yucky things they served us.
As far as whether adulting has become easier or harder, Rachel says there are tradeoffs for adulting today compared to previous generations. "We have automated so much more, which is a time saver, but also we've lost some basic skills, which means some things take longer," she shared.
"I think the hardest thing about adulting today compared to previous generations is the information overload about how many ways there are to do a task that getting started with the actual tasks feels more overwhelming/hard," Rachel explained. "Whereas in the past, you just did your task or used a tip from a neighbor to improve what you were already doing."
Rachel also shared some wise words for anyone on their own adulting journey. "We have a saying in our house: do everything with presence and excellence. And we apply it to a lot of the mundane tasks we want to rush through to get to the next thing," she told Bored Panda. "This forces us to slow down, be present with what we're doing, and take pride in it. It may sound simple, but that ultimately becomes the building blocks to a calmer nervous system, less anxiety, and more self confidence in your ability to tackle bigger things."
If you'd like to hear more from Rachel about adulting, be sure to visit The Confused Millennial or check out her 31 Day Adulting Challenge!
You know I actually feel like this for real... I already felt that homework was a serious invasion of my private time when I was young. Not even kidding.
We also were lucky enough to get in touch with Lauren Keen Aumond, founder of House Money Media and host of the podcast Adulting is Easy. Lauren was also happy to shine some light on adulting and share her definition of the word with Bored Panda: “completing mundane tasks unexpected of children.”
As far as the best part of adulting go, Lauren says she appreciates being in control of her finances, how she spends her days and what she chooses to eat!
According to Lauren, being a grown-up doesn’t have to be incredibly hard. “At Adulting Is Easy, we believe you make adulting easier when you make money easier,” the expert shared. “If you don't have to worry about how to pay your rent or mortgage or where your next meal is coming from, adulting can be easy.”
Yes, it is.👍 But it doing great. Keep going! There is someone out there who loves I and cares about u.
As difficult as adulting may be, Lauren believes we actually live in a pretty great time. “This generation has cell phones, the internet, and so many more modern conveniences than generations past that adulting is easier now, in our opinion,” she explained. “We don't have to churn our own butter, make our own bread, and start a fire to toast it. We buy the bread and butter from the store, then pop it in the toaster, for example.”
It would be nice to be able to say this in as many languages as possible. How do you say this in your mother tongue? I'll start: in Dutch we say: "Het is altijd wat".
If you’re having a difficult time getting a handle on adulting, Lauren recommends tackling only one new hard thing at a time. “Don't try to learn how to pay your bills, change a tire, sew on a button, cook, clean, and save for retirement all at once,” she noted. “Give yourself some grace. It takes time to learn how to be an adult.”
“You can make adulting so much easier if you set your financial foundation as soon as possible, ideally in your 20s. But it's not too late to start from wherever you are,” Lauren told Bored Panda.
If you’d like to hear more tips about how to manage adulting and get a hold of your finances as soon as possible, be sure to check out House Money Media and the Adulting is Easy podcast!
I envy people who can do this. If I don't physically get out of bed, I'm going back to sleep.
Are these posts making you feel like more of a grown-up, knowing that we’re all experiencing the same struggles, pandas? Keep upvoting the pics that hit home for you, and feel free to share your thoughts on the wild world of adulting in the comments below. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing what it’s like to be an adult, we recommend reading this one next!
I want a refund, adulthood isn't what it's cracked up to be. Cash, credit, or chocolate.
Why only family events? I would just rather stay home in general.
I call the cobwebs all over the outside of the house free Halloween decor.
It's more, three meals that rotate, for me: Soup, omlette, sandwich. The line up is occasionally broken by noodles. Cheese omlette with microwaved steamed veg is the best trade off of effort to food quality, where food quality is measured as (healthiness + adulting means you cook + tastes good).
I was recently given batjamas (bat pajamas. With wings!) And they have become my weekend attire while cleaning
Then you find the delicious takeout leftovers, but realize they have expired...
LOL. And the comment, "Kids these days..." becomes an acceptable thing to say.
The solution is simple! Just up the caffeine intake by 200%! Easy-peasy!
Genuine question, does anyone actually refer to the website as "X"? Literally everyone I know still calls it "Twitter" where you tweet and read tweets. Is this just me?
It hits really bad-When people around adress you no longer with 'miss' but 'ma'am'
Genuine question, does anyone actually refer to the website as "X"? Literally everyone I know still calls it "Twitter" where you tweet and read tweets. Is this just me?
It hits really bad-When people around adress you no longer with 'miss' but 'ma'am'