This is so cool. Both.

Finally, someone who gets it!

There are many good reasons to not want kids (most of them problems for one self, the kids, the world...) so in my book not selfish. It's more selfish to want kids just to procreate. What could be more selfish than that? That being said: it's ok to sometimes be selfish.

I got so tired to being the one to put in then mental effort and planning for ordinary every things. My husband and I talked about it, and now whilst I am planning the menu, composing the shopping list etc, he is washing dishes, doing the laundry, vacuuming the stairs... What I am doing has not changed, but it is being recognised as being part of the housework. It's being valued and appreciated. We each have our own tasks, and it feels like a balance has been reached.

Sounds like the type to start a juicy rumour if there wasn't one going round, true or not.

I'd far rather a very simple wedding, and use the money as a downpayment on a house.

This.

Yes, and I also have books I've read more than twenty times.

I think tax avoidance is trashier when the rich do it because they're just being greedy monsters

Yzma from Emperor’s New Groove

Going to college.

The never ending mess

Unfortunately the sleazy dates will lie and say "no", when, in fact, there is someone

I wish we had a cry room at work. I'd use it every day. Maybe multiple times.

I’ll take on that schedule, can remix it to like 7-5, Mon-Th

Pain in the back of throat.

🎤 drop…

In Europe we have the museum night since 2005. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long_Night_of_Museums

Clever!

No wonder, that character is played by someone new at the job.

I just tried the same thing and I am writing this from the Emergency Room.

We are mammals! Surrounded by food we are designed to eat as much of as we can(high fat/sugar), as it should have been as rare as hens teeth to come across. We are meant to lounge about and whatnot. No wonder so many of us suffer mental health issues, especially anxiety and depression. Our societal advancements don't mesh well with our still existing basic instincts (inside artificial structures, artifical light affecting circadian rhythm etc)

You might have said "You see me?"

I got you.

True friends should be like this always

Even tho I know it's her dress, it's funny to think the fairy godmother threw in a butt lift too

I got ok at this. But only mastered it once or twice (all rings on hooks). How did you guys do?

My boyfriend was once kinda complaining about how complicated my family situation is. And he's right, I don't blame him but he was framing it as if that's so strange and I then had to point out to him that looking around our closest friends and their families - he's actually the weird one for having mostly good relationship with his parents who actually listen to feedback etc.

And turning my pillow over every second body turn

Sex has been replaced by comfort food

My doctor has never asked me that. I kinda wish he would.

Noise at night. The bloody crickets won’t shut up and there’s construction going on in the neighbouring plot at 11 fricking pm!

Yeah this "you need to WORK on this relationship" is b******t. I mean, yes, make an effort, make sure to not exclude the other person but come on ... it's not WORK.

Same both ways. I can tell if my partner is miff by her breating pattern.

Move somewhere with a proper healthcare system.

That's why they sometimes find extinct animals. "Hey, hasn't this [random animal] been extinct since 1756 when we ate the last specimen?"

Yep, I remember those days

If they can't understand this, then it's probably best to just get rid of them as friends. No need for extra, unnecessary stress in your life

Go to the dentist

Friends that won’t give you honest feedback

Friends (?) who never assert, compliment or reassure you. Whose default setting is a steady trickle of negativity. Who hold everyone to a differend standard than themselves.

Those aren’t friends. Those are people you hang out with until you dump them for actual friends.

Or those who refuse to consider their part in contributing to conflict

My friendship group never compliments, but we all congratulate

People who think value is who you are and not what you have done.

Those who complain too much about the same stuff and makes you sick of them even speaking...

"Friends" who say they will call you but never do.

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Friend gets you some garage sale leftover for Christmas.

Once, a lifetime ago I married one. Had to divorce and start again to find hones happiness.

Friends who say they respect you, but demonstrate repeatedly a decided lack of respect for your integrity, time and decisions.

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