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To work as a waiter, besides all the rewarding experiences, might be draining and challenging at times. Dealing with difficult customers, carrying heavy trays of food and drinks, standing for long periods of time, small tips, etc. Those are just a few disadvantages that come with the job, not to mention all the little quirks every restaurant or diner faces from time to time. And this Instagram account “server_life” covers it all. Together with Twitter “@TipOrGoHome”, the page shares all the funny (or not so funny) incidents at an eating or drinking place that servers have to deal with.

"You work in the industry and feel as if nobody understands you? Well, we do,” write the moderators of “Server_Life”. Scroll down for some tearfully funny backstage moments of a waiter's life. Do any of the memes or posts feel painfully relatable to you? Let us know in the comments! For more similar content, check out our article covering servers talking and venting about their work here!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Worked in convenience store across from a church. I totally agree... Church for an hour or two to justify being an a*****e for the rest of the week.

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    XenoMurph
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that that phrase has been trashed, what phrase do we use for guys who ARE actually nice? Surely there has to be some positive way to describe the decent members of 50% of humanity.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, it's Babish! I've been watching Bingeing With Babish for years. :D

    Alicia M
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had so many people leave their phone numbers in a note. I'm just here to work. Not a hook up. I cannot express strongly enough how often this happened to me. It absolutely ruined most jobs I had. I would dread going in every day. It's a job. Not a meat market. Please don't do this, no matter how much you like your server.

    f r o g
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    doesn't mean he wants to f*ck you either. no one wants these douchebags.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing that means that a bartender or server is into you is if they actually hand you a piece of paper with their name and phone number on it, with the words "call me!!" handwritten on it. Anything else is them being friendly and nice.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was in high school I did some table waiting, and I learned that trays come in handy when a "sewer clown" doesn't understand this rule.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, then stop touching my thigh every time you bring me a refill...

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg. Yes! I dated a guy who insisted ANYONE that was nice to him was hitting on him. Every other day I'd have to hear how someone was hitting on him. He also thought that anyone nice to me, was trying to seduce me. He was a complete moron. I broke up with him after 3 months.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similarly, that doesn't mean she wants to f**k your boyfriend/fiance/husband.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BUT... if you get a shot, take it - bartenders and waitresses get plenty of practice and are worth the shot

    Nykky
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sewer clown lol they're Pennywise, the waitresses' worst nightmares

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s an insult to sewer clowns, but otherwise completely accurate

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    Wonder what prompted this. As long as it's not over done, nothing wrong with asking out a server.

    K-Hey
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While they're working? Yes, there is. The power displacement of "customer always right" (something I vehemently disagree with, but that's for a different day) combined with a broken system that leaves the server's wages not guaranteed but at the whims of the customer, puts the server in a horribly uncomfortable situation of either "playing along" or risk losing the tip. If there's alcohol involved, it gets even messier. Please, just let your server do their job.

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    "Server_Life" entered the vast waters of Twitter in 2013 and has 661k followers with its Instagram account combined. Since then, the page has grown to the point where it now has its own The Server Life Podcast on Spotify, talking about stereotypes about servers, celebrities at restaurants, kitchen horror stories, and more! It is truly worth checking out!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could be me. My wife prefers to go 'shopping' (which is imo more endless looking rather than real shopping) with some girlfriend(s) but with me (how come?) and I often meet her afterwards in a Café. When I arrive at her table I sometimes say: "Excuse me, but you caught my eye the moment I walked in here." which causes a sudden silence and lots of turning heads. ;)

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    Servers are considered to be the face of a restaurant, being the first ones to greet a customer and making sure they have a pleasant experience. They’re also the connecting link between the kitchen and clients, taking orders and relating them to the cooks while ensuring that food and drinks reach every table in an adequate time. It's a challenging and demanding job that requires not only patience and concentration but also interpersonal savvy. Especially when it comes to dealing with difficult customers and challenging situations that can arise due to a broken coffee machine, for example. 

    Having a place to vent and read about similar experiences might be a good way to let all the steam out. That’s the goal of “Server Life”, a place where all the servers can get all the consolation they rightfully deserve!

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    Memes are a common type of internet comedy that frequently depict relatable or exaggerated scenarios. Given that so many people have either worked in or eaten at restaurants, waiters and the restaurant industry often appear in these humorous images, videos, or pieces of text widely shared and replicated online.

    To learn more about memes in digital culture, we reached out to Bradley E. Wiggins, Ph.D., an Associate Professor and Department Head of Media Communications at Webster Vienna Private University who has published a book, The Discursive Power of Memes in Digital Culture. Scroll down to read the whole interview!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, you can complain nicely. Like, sometimes things do go wrong and the restaurant should fix. But just don't be a jerk about it.

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    Memes have become an essential component of online culture. They often go viral and spread quickly across social media platforms. But what makes them so impactful and shareable? According to Bradley E. Wiggins, memes are often bite-sized content, simple to distribute and their inclusion of humor typically guarantees some degree of resonance with the topic presented in the meme. “Now, when memes use a critical topic, such as something about politics, for example, humor may still be present, but one can also begin to see aspects of an ideology at work. Memes that reflect or reject certain ideological aspects become part of the larger online experience and can serve to reinforce one’s preconceived notions about a particular issue.”

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    Memes have become a ubiquitous part of online culture, and they are constantly evolving in response to trends and current events. Memes have also become more widely used as a form of communication as a result of the popularity of social media platforms. Bradley E. Wiggins shared that memes are a genre of communication. That means that “the types of communication made possible by memes is limited only by its own form and modality. In other words, as certain meme-like content becomes more dynamic, such as content on TikTok, the user experience is inundated with additional information, the meta-data often accompanying a given post. Another point is that memes truncate, or shorten, complex perspectives into easily consumable chunks of information. This is quite similar to the journalistic practice of using a ‘soundbite’ to capture the essence of a sophisticated or otherwise abstract amount of information, such as policy announcements or new legislation.”

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the restaurant should pay a decent wage instead of making witty signs.

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    Some people argue that memes are trivial and frequently spread false information that can be harmful. Bradley E. Wiggins claims that memes are both trivial and sublime, silly and profound. “As to the perpetuation of negative stereotypes, the form a meme takes is going to impose limits on what can be included in the message alongside some reasonable expectation for a laugh. It may be better to view this criticism as positioned about the topic and not the form; the topic can change, the form of the memes can also change, but is largely limited to image, video and GIFs.”

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    Lastly, we asked Bradley E. Wiggins if he has noticed any trends in the types of memes that are most popular or widely shared on social media platforms. He shared that spy balloons (because of recent reports about them), for example, attracted meme versions of the alleged surveillance balloons across social media. “One reason for this is producing this kind of repetitive content gives a sense of control over the topic to online users who are not getting what they may perceive to be the full story, all the details, etc. about the balloons. It may also lead to conspiracy theorizing too, which also lends itself well to the meme format.”

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😂 In Aus, the drinking age is the same as the driving age (18.) Once had bar security watch me drive up and park, then card me when I wanted a drink.🤦‍♂️

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time, we were in the weeds and this customer was complaining that her chicken was taking "foreveeeer!" Then, after it was served, she complained that it was undercooked. Well, do you want it "right now!" or do you want it cooked, Becky?

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually witnessed something similar at our local McDonald's. Place was slammed and there was a newbie on the only working register. Customer ahead of me was patiently (but loudly) telling the cashier how things worked. Manager snaps "Fine, stand on this side of the counter and say that!" Turns out the customer worked at the McD's in a nearby town. LoL

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    edit the dates on the photos. Step 1. Take your computer offline. Step 2. Set the date to a year later (ie this year, but +1 day). Step 3. Open an image editor eg. GIMP. Step 4. Open offending image. Step 5. Select all, copy. Step 6. Back to GIMP. Step 7. New file. Step 8. Paste. Repeat with all his images from tinder. Step 9. Go back online and let your computer reset its clock. Step 10. Send to owner of restaurant with modifcation and creation date of files circled. Result: owner of restaurant sees new manager harassing staff one day after being hired.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In addition to being at work, you also have to emotionally validate all your customers or they will instantly focus their entite being on making their lousy personalities your problem

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a server, I sincerely LOVE when large parties ask for separate checks. It's not a hassle at all, because I'm awesome and I keep track of everything and everyone. Most importantly, it means that I don't have to "roll the dice" on whether the one person picking up the check also knows how to tip.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time, while working at a cafe, I helped a boy break into his own car in the parking lot after he had locked himself out. The next day, he ran into the shop, threw something at me over the counter, and ran back out. It was a teddy bear. He had placed a cigarette in its paws and written his phone number on the side. We dated for several months. That was the ONLY TIME I ever enjoyed getting hit on at work.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ya. Once worked with a line cook that would leave crumbs and stuff on his line when he closed it and then accuse people of using his line and leaving it messy after he left. Manager took a picture of his line directly after he walked out the door and then showed it to him his next shift. He still denied leaving his line messy.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if I was this server I'd send two batches of marinara. Gotta keep the testy girl at bay

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "...for just like 2 seconds whilst Mary tells me about what her 5 year old did last ni- I WILL GET YOUR WATER IN A MINUTE SUSAN CALM THE F**K DOWN" yeah turns out Mary's 5 year old stuck a cheeto up his nose and lost it so they had to go to the emergency room.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to avoid training at all costs but I know if I don’t train someone they won’t get trained properly so it’s a catch 22

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm sorry, but when your dish came out, I saw that it wasn't up to our standards. I've asked the cooks to make you a better one, and they're working on it as their top priority. It should just be another moment. Thank you again for your patience. Can I get you some more sweet tea?" Then you ring it up, go in back and BEG the line to expedite your ticket.

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    Sans Serif
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Territory, kinda why you offer this service! Kitchen be damned - everyone loses without customers!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry! We don’t mean to I promise! But just because you keep coming up to the host stand doesn’t mean that a table is going to magically appear

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It probably only takes 2 minutes to make. The rest of the time is trying to work out WTF this is supposed to be and look like.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once when I worked at Subway, a man with his young daughter tipped me $20 for their $12 order. I still cherish them

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about a little notice like maybe can you work in 2 days or next week....today is c**p notice.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But... is that not good because of tipping? As much as I learn about the tipping system, the lest I understand.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha *breathe* ahahahahahahahahahaha. Yeh you're right, it's not funny

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I've been mugged 3 times leaving a shift until I learned to bring a change of street clothes. You don't want to look like a server walking home. People will assume you have cash.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have a policy that doesn't allow it. It's basically there as a backup if they complain.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry! It gets complicated ok! Do you wanna do it?! 😭😭😭

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being a human, with a human brain that saw some shite in the 80s, I do not trust a fellow human who does NOT write it down. Mad respect for fellow humans who wrote stuff down. Like WHAT are they trying to prove? That my anxiety is spot on? 🤣

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time, during an insane rush, I was making my circuit of the dining room and a man at a table that wasn't mine was waving his napkin in the air. I was deeply offended. I put ice into my voice as I rounded the corner and said, "Your server will be right with you." People have said, "[Fudge] off and [unalive]," with more warmth. Then I saw that this was an adult man with Downs Syndrome having dinner with his parents. "Oh, we're sorry! He's just playing with his napkin." I felt like the absolute worst piece of scum on the planet, but I learned a valuable lesson about professionalism that day.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My place closed for 2 weeks to remodel. I was mistakenly told the day we closed was my regular day off. Turned out to be the day before and I got stuck packing and cleaning half the night. I was beyond pissed cuz I would have definitely taken that night off

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I get the feeling that these people breezed past the host and sat themselves at a dirty table?

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