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There’s nothing quite like the thrill of parenthood—those first smiles, the giggles, and the proud moments of watching your children grow. But let’s be honest, it’s also a wild ride filled with sleepless nights and tantrums that make you question your life choices.

When things get tough, parents need a place to vent and share a laugh to release their emotions. Naturally, there’s no better outlet for this than X (formerly Twitter).

You can already guess where this is headed—we’re back with our latest monthly roundup of top parenting tweets. Scroll down to enjoy some of the funniest and most relatable posts from July, and don’t miss our chat with Dr Kirsty Pakes, a clinical psychologist and parenting consultant from the UK.

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According to Pew Research Center, 88% of parents find raising children more difficult than they expected. To learn more about the reasons behind this and address common misconceptions, Bored Panda spoke with Dr Kirsty Pakes, a registered clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and parenting consultant with over 20 years of experience.

“Parenting is so hard, under-supported, and undervalued,” Pakes says. As a mom of two school-aged children, she understands the struggle firsthand. Pakes believes that when parents are stressed and unsure of how to react to their children, we should take a compassionate approach rather than label them as bad parents.

Parents often struggle to know how to respond to their children’s difficult emotions and behavior in a way that is going to get to the root of the problem, be effective, and actually build closeness rather than distance between the parent and child. “I think our society misunderstands emotions and how we build emotional well-being, resilience, and regulation in children,” says Pakes. “We often think we need to stop a child’s emotions, but the latest psychological and neuroscience evidence shows that emotional regulation actually requires children to feel their emotions with the support of a kind, empathic listening adult.”

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In order for a child to develop true emotional regulation, they need to feel their emotions with the support of a kind, empathic listening adult until they reach the end of them and come out the other side with renewed resilience. “This process is known as ‘co-regulation’,” Pakes explains. “Parents need to be their child’s lighthouse in the emotional storm, beaming empathy and kind, attuned presence.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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While all emotions are welcome, not all behaviors are. Difficult behavior is a sign of some suffering within the child, either difficult emotions are coming out through their behavior or the child is lacking an inner sense of connection. “We need to support their emotions and bring connection and warmth to them so they can get back on track,” Pakes advises. “Limits are set with kindness and empathy for the underlying feelings. This approach gets to the bottom of the problem and means it is less likely to reoccur.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and snails and worms - do you know how many snails, worms and rocks you can fit into all the pockets of toddler dungarees - those poor little creatures

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Pakes uses the metaphor of ‘emotional backpacks’ to explain how children carry unprocessed feelings. “When feelings aren't acknowledged or worked through, they don’t just go away. They get stored in our emotional system or emotional backpack ready to be triggered at another time. This is why sometimes children can get upset about very little things.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pro tip. Use the box as a spoon rest until the cooking is done

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Parenting is incredibly demanding, and parents often try to raise their children differently from how they were raised. “We need a supportive community of like-minded parents around us and emotional support for ourselves,” Pakes emphasizes. “It’s difficult to parent with calm and kindness when we are stressed and have no one to listen to our emotions. Listening partnerships for parents can provide this emotional support.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My son has this odd fixation at the moment where he will point out every barber shop, hairdresser, salon etc whenever he sees one. But the mere mention of getting his hair cut sets him off.

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Pakes advises seeking professional help when a child shows persistent emotional and behavioral challenges that affect their quality of life. “I’'s also important for parents to seek help if they struggle to connect with their child or react in a way that is over-the-top,” she adds. “All parents would benefit from support and knowing the latest research on how to best support their child’s emotional well-being.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how to respond when people say that. Or worse, if they say "he must take after his mom". It's like you're deciding whether or not my wife cheated on me. What am I supposed to say?

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a sign of codependency, like "I'm cold, put on a sweater." (My mother's favorite. )

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cups are a f*****g stupid measure, it's different for different substances! A cup of sugar is a different weight to a cup of flour! Idiotic.. Fight me!

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Pakes also suggests looking into attachment theory and Hand in Hand parenting to improve the parent-child relationship. Attachment theory, which emphasizes the importance of a secure and trusting bond between parent and child, shows that connectedness is the greatest predictor of emotional well-being. Hand in Hand parenting focuses on strengthening this connection by using listening and empathy to help children process difficult emotions. “This approach uses listening and connection to help children move through and process underlying difficult emotions,” Pakes explains. “It also brings firm limits with warmth and understanding.”

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mine has 1 onesie and 2 PJ sets from the show Bluey. The onesie is Bingo and she always pack all the Bluey pj's for our trips.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once read: "Don't make fun of your parents because they struggle with electronic devices while you need to google how to boil rice." Seems pretty right, tbh.

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Hand in Hand parenting teaches five key practices: Special Time, Staylistening, Setting Limits, Playlistening, and Listening Partnerships for Parents. Special Time involves timed, announced, child-led one-on-one time where parents delight in whatever their child chooses to do. Staylistening focuses on listening to and supporting a child's emotions. Setting Limits involves stopping tricky behavior with empathy and kindness. Playlistening uses play to build connection and address difficulties. Listening Partnerships provide emotional support for parents.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've got 4 dachshunds all of whom refuse to sleep in their nice (expensive) beds. They insist on sleeping with me. TBF they're far less wriggly than kids but wake even earlier.

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These tips are just one of the many ways you can establish a better emotional connection with your child and become a more confident parent. However, struggling along the way is normal, and seeking guidance and professional support when needed is a sign of strength. Whatever you do, remember that there's no such thing as a perfect parent. Embrace the journey with its ups and downs, and focus on building a loving, supportive relationship with your children.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rje summer I was 11, we had a rescue crow. She loved playing with barbies, because thats what we did. But she specialized in dressing the dolls. I would have to put in the legs, ans she would spend 45 minuses pulling it all the way up. I knew when she was finished, because she would look at me until I gave her a new dress. The same one pulled down would not do 😁 i even learned she had favorites, one was the same as mine, so we had to share 🥰

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work at Amazon's CHM2 in Obetz, Ohio. Our building mascot is a Phoenix. I haven't seen one yet!

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom was always giving me 'good' books to read like The Glass Castle, and White Oleander... Ok mom, you are a good mom already!

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The zillion dollars are paying for freedom from your kids, they will always prefer you and the carwash. The carwash is supreme fun.

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Note: this post originally had 105 images. It’s been shortened to the top 40 images based on user votes.

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