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Relatable Girl Struggles Illustrated In 40 Comics By Sashotso Art (New Pics)
Interview With ArtistWe all have our own problems, frustrations, and anxieties we have to face in this modern world, but it feels a little better when we know that we are not alone in this. Sashotso Art comics are a personal visual diary of the everyday life of Sasha Tsoy where she puts funny and annoying situations, real experiences, struggles of being a female, relationship perks, and honest behind-the-scenes, as well as moments of vulnerability—all of which makes these comics hit so close to home simply because all of us can find a little bit of ourselves.
Tsoy introduced her artwork to Bored Panda almost three years ago, where she posted a few of her first comics along with her exciting life story leading to creating comics in three languages—English, Russian, and Spanish—to reach as many people as possible and prove that we all have common struggles that go beyond a certain spot in the world and the language you speak.
"Most of my comics are just inspired by everyday situations that happen to me and a lot of my friends, which later helped me realize just how many people all over the world experience similar situations," Tsoy shared her inspirations with Bored Panda.
She says her goal is to "help connect people, to help them laugh and recognize themselves," so scroll down to experience all three!
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Sasha Tsoy was born in Kazakhstan and is half-Ukrainian, quarter-Korean, and quarter-Kazakh. She told us how she started drawing comics:
"I've been drawing for as long as I can remember, but in some periods in my life I would draw more than others. I studied Media and Communications in university, so I wanted to find something to do that would encapsulate a lot of the things that I love in one. And thus, I started posting comics online in 2018."
Tsoy told us about her comics and drawing style: "They are just simple light-hearted comics about different funny things or thoughts that happen to me, my friends, and seemingly many other people day-to-day. My drawing style is still an ever-evolving thing! A lot of it is inspired by anime and cartoons, but I also try to keep it looking somewhat realistic. I’m trying to do more online drawing courses to improve my art as well."
The artist told us she is inspired by "womanhood, self-esteem and relationship issues, social media, and societal expectations."
"I try to put a funny spin on things that concern me and sometimes it makes me feel better," Tsoy says.
Here's what Tsoy wants to convey to her readers: "Probably to just not take yourself so seriously and that we all are more similar than we think! It makes me very happy when people from around the world comment that they relate to some of my comics, that makes me feel like I accomplished my goal."
We asked Tsoy what is the most challenging and the most rewarding part of drawing and sharing comics online.
"The most challenging is probably the nature of social media. Chasing likes, follows, and all that really messed up my mental health. Now, whenever I feel like I’m too overwhelmed and it’s negatively affecting my life, I try to take a step back from social media and have breaks. Another challenge is coming up with more ideas for comics. I very often doubt my ideas and in turn, try to go for something that is more likely to succeed, rather than following my heart. Some of the most rewarding moments for me are when people wanna commission me to do art for them, both big projects and small. I feel really happy that people trust me to do it, and I want to give it my best shot!"
Some S𝖺𝗌𝗁𝗈𝗍𝗌𝗈 A𝗋𝗍 comics might look familiar to you, because the artist often collaborates with other popular artists such as Bloomi_comics and Bella Sriwantana, Lulu, and Art by Juliet, whose work we have previously shared on Bored Panda. In fact, the artist admits that her Instagram artist friends inspire her.
"I really love building relationships with other comic artists! Not only do we get to work on a fun project together, we get close and become friends! I feel really happy that I have friends I can message that experience the same issues as me in terms of art and social media. I like the support and encouragement we give to each other."
At my age it’s for accidentally peeing when you walk, or laugh or run LOL
We asked Tsoy about the proudest moment of her career as a comic artist: "It’s very hard to pinpoint one moment! But I guess being able to sometimes help my parents financially from my art earnings. I hope I will have more moments like that in the future. My biggest goal is to improve my art and storytelling skills even more and hopefully one day release a successful fictional digital comic series or even a printed graphic novel."
Sashotso Art currently has 80.1k followers on Instagram and this popularity comes with its challenges as netizens often seem to forget that there is a real human with real feelings and emotions behind each artwork out there.
"Mostly, I get positive feedback, especially on my own page. But sometimes, when my comics reach other different corners of the internet, I get a lot of hate and negativity too, from people telling me to kill myself to writing paragraphs about how much they hate my art. No one really prepares you to deal with it. And maybe it’s because people don’t expect me to read some of their negative comments. Unfortunately, I still get very affected by people’s opinions, be it positive or negative. But I’m still trying to work on it and, hopefully, it will improve!"
Despite the darker side of the business, Tsoy continues to create and encourages others to do the same: "Just do it! Be consistent and be true to yourself! But if you ever feel overwhelmed, don’t let that consume and negatively affect you! If I could do it, you can too!"
What's with the dots under the eyes looking like double pupils? Creepy.
Yet another carbon copy "ReLatAbLe GiRl pRoBLeMs" list which fails to be amusing or original in the slightest. "Oh look at me, I'm a girl! I struggle with makeup stuff! Sometimes I overeat!" Yes, this may be "relatable" to some people, but how the hell is it amusing in the slightest? Is it really that rewarding to perpetuate stereotypes of girls being airheads who only care about makeup, skincare, hairstyles, & celebrities? Surely you have interests outside of that, you even had a comic that showed you're into GOT. Why not make comics about your hobbies instead of your complaints about petty bullshit? How about somebody makes comics about something that isn't qUiRkY ReLaTaBLe GiRL tRoUbLeS or the same three motherhood tropes?
Girls in 2021 are strong, independent and successfull creatures. Nails, hair, pimples are not our concerns. When you get out of Barbie's dollhouse you will realize it as well.
after seeing this, i think im a boy. bc i can relate to none of these other than the ones that aren't even ¨girl problems¨
Nah, it’s okay. Unless you genuinely feel like a boy just because you don’t relate with all of these doesn’t mean you are ^^ Respect if you are trans, tho!
Load More Replies...I realize these are just unfunny comics, but they perpetuate really negative stereotypes.
My enjoyment is seriously compromised by the "@sashotso" plastered Everywhere. Wtf, it's all down peoples arms? Stop it.
I think most of these problems could be solved by not trying to look like a celebrity, who will have professional stylists, and not focusing so much on your appearance. It was entertaining, though.
but rellly tho peeps be complaining abou heir ¨girl problems¨ meanwhle im dealing wih muliple mental disabilitys
I'm truly sorry you have to deal with disabilities, I understand they're no fun. Wishing you the best, friend.
Load More Replies...You are a.talented artist. But.. nothing original in any of these. We've seen thousands of these on BP, it's getting a little old. To comment on this one specifically, if you look anything like the "in reality" drawings.. You are gorgeous! But no help to us average ugly people with real problems (bigger than pimples and frizzy hair).
Why are all the other people besides the main character and her bf drawn stylistically different?
Being a girl, I can relate to these. But not all girl problems are makeup, boys, etc. We also have everyday problems that do not have any connection to some of these situations. But great work and you have a lot of talent! 😁
Guys, please. This is meant to be a relatable post. I understand that this was seen as offensive but really, chill out. I get that they are stereotypical, but they are relatable. Please don't hate...
They may be relatable to some people, but marketing petty whining about skincare, makeup, hairstyles, or boyfriends as something "all women can relate to" (earlier title if I recall correctly) or "girl struggles" is ridiculous. Not all women are shallow airheads whose lives revolve around maintaining their appearance & doting on someone. In fact, the vast majority aren't like that at all! If there were only a few comics about appearance or boyfriends that would be okay. Everyone has opinions about the way they look, & many people have significant others. But the fact that every single post is about the same two topics implies there isn't anything else to being a woman, that there's nothing else relatable about being a girl. Women are people with lives outside of their looks & significant others, but these comics certainly don't show it. These stereotypes are harmful.
Load More Replies...Hey people chill down a bit. Y'all take these comics so personally and take so much offence.... if it's not your taste, you don't relate or don't find it funny, move on it's so simple. Just looking at the comment section, so much hate 🤔
There will always be feedback, positive or negative, whenever you post things online. All these comics do is perpetuate the stereotype of girls only caring about their looks & their boyfriends. This kind of shallowness labeled as "relatable to all women" is really damaging. A woman's life does not revolve around her appearance or her partner. They have interests, goals, hobbies, & personalities, but these comics show absolutely none of that. It just pushes the agenda that all women should be thinking about is skincare & makeup. It's 2021. Women aren't airheads. Never have been. These comics need to stop.
Load More Replies...How pathetic, painting women as self-obsessed and incapable. Therapy works, OP.
I expected another awful "Relatable Girl Problems" copy of all the other ones, but this one was a pleasant surprise. There are some repetitive drawings that are there across all comics (the cringey girly stuff), but some panels are truly lovely. Your boyfriend/husband wasn't shown as a tool for comedy and something to complain about, but as a valuable and important part of your life. I loved that. Thank you.
Yet another carbon copy "ReLatAbLe GiRl pRoBLeMs" list which fails to be amusing or original in the slightest. "Oh look at me, I'm a girl! I struggle with makeup stuff! Sometimes I overeat!" Yes, this may be "relatable" to some people, but how the hell is it amusing in the slightest? Is it really that rewarding to perpetuate stereotypes of girls being airheads who only care about makeup, skincare, hairstyles, & celebrities? Surely you have interests outside of that, you even had a comic that showed you're into GOT. Why not make comics about your hobbies instead of your complaints about petty bullshit? How about somebody makes comics about something that isn't qUiRkY ReLaTaBLe GiRL tRoUbLeS or the same three motherhood tropes?
Girls in 2021 are strong, independent and successfull creatures. Nails, hair, pimples are not our concerns. When you get out of Barbie's dollhouse you will realize it as well.
after seeing this, i think im a boy. bc i can relate to none of these other than the ones that aren't even ¨girl problems¨
Nah, it’s okay. Unless you genuinely feel like a boy just because you don’t relate with all of these doesn’t mean you are ^^ Respect if you are trans, tho!
Load More Replies...I realize these are just unfunny comics, but they perpetuate really negative stereotypes.
My enjoyment is seriously compromised by the "@sashotso" plastered Everywhere. Wtf, it's all down peoples arms? Stop it.
I think most of these problems could be solved by not trying to look like a celebrity, who will have professional stylists, and not focusing so much on your appearance. It was entertaining, though.
but rellly tho peeps be complaining abou heir ¨girl problems¨ meanwhle im dealing wih muliple mental disabilitys
I'm truly sorry you have to deal with disabilities, I understand they're no fun. Wishing you the best, friend.
Load More Replies...You are a.talented artist. But.. nothing original in any of these. We've seen thousands of these on BP, it's getting a little old. To comment on this one specifically, if you look anything like the "in reality" drawings.. You are gorgeous! But no help to us average ugly people with real problems (bigger than pimples and frizzy hair).
Why are all the other people besides the main character and her bf drawn stylistically different?
Being a girl, I can relate to these. But not all girl problems are makeup, boys, etc. We also have everyday problems that do not have any connection to some of these situations. But great work and you have a lot of talent! 😁
Guys, please. This is meant to be a relatable post. I understand that this was seen as offensive but really, chill out. I get that they are stereotypical, but they are relatable. Please don't hate...
They may be relatable to some people, but marketing petty whining about skincare, makeup, hairstyles, or boyfriends as something "all women can relate to" (earlier title if I recall correctly) or "girl struggles" is ridiculous. Not all women are shallow airheads whose lives revolve around maintaining their appearance & doting on someone. In fact, the vast majority aren't like that at all! If there were only a few comics about appearance or boyfriends that would be okay. Everyone has opinions about the way they look, & many people have significant others. But the fact that every single post is about the same two topics implies there isn't anything else to being a woman, that there's nothing else relatable about being a girl. Women are people with lives outside of their looks & significant others, but these comics certainly don't show it. These stereotypes are harmful.
Load More Replies...Hey people chill down a bit. Y'all take these comics so personally and take so much offence.... if it's not your taste, you don't relate or don't find it funny, move on it's so simple. Just looking at the comment section, so much hate 🤔
There will always be feedback, positive or negative, whenever you post things online. All these comics do is perpetuate the stereotype of girls only caring about their looks & their boyfriends. This kind of shallowness labeled as "relatable to all women" is really damaging. A woman's life does not revolve around her appearance or her partner. They have interests, goals, hobbies, & personalities, but these comics show absolutely none of that. It just pushes the agenda that all women should be thinking about is skincare & makeup. It's 2021. Women aren't airheads. Never have been. These comics need to stop.
Load More Replies...How pathetic, painting women as self-obsessed and incapable. Therapy works, OP.
I expected another awful "Relatable Girl Problems" copy of all the other ones, but this one was a pleasant surprise. There are some repetitive drawings that are there across all comics (the cringey girly stuff), but some panels are truly lovely. Your boyfriend/husband wasn't shown as a tool for comedy and something to complain about, but as a valuable and important part of your life. I loved that. Thank you.