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31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Daily binge drinking until I realized a) I'm an alcoholic and b) hetero relationships don't work when one partner tries to drink the gay away

Only took me 9 years but I got there eventually

GaiaMoore , Paul Simpson Report

Final score:

210points

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harpling 2 years ago

I've heard of people trying to Pray the Gay Away (and Beat The Gay Away) but never Drinking the Gay Away. I would imagine all three methods are about equally succesful.

102points

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else This is morbid but I thought it was normal to argue every day. I thought 'all couples have their bickering' and it was just a regular thing.

I was astounded when I went into my next relationship and actually got on with the guy and went weeks and weeks without having any issues. It always felt like the bubble was going to burst. Goes to show - don't stay in a relationship just because you've already invested a tonne of time. You get one life, spend it with someone who makes you laugh every day.

saturnbands182 , Liza Summer Report

Final score:

187points

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harpling 2 years ago

I remember being shocked when I was small and over at a friend's house. His parents disagreed about something and then, amazingly, didn't start screaming! They discussd whatever it was (something about a trampoline, I think) calmly, and listened to each other, and compromised on a solution. I had never seen adults behave like that! I'd always thought screaming and shouting was how people disagreed, and it was perfectly normal to disagree about everything.

115points

Deadmeat553 , K-State Research and Extension Report

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Your partner should actually make an effort to spend time with you. You shouldn't have to surprise them to spend any time with them.

Final score:

147points

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Hey! 2 years ago

I hate surprises. That would not go well with me. But I didn't have to make an effort seeing him before we married because we were always together. Now we're empty-nesters and we are spending even more time together.

8points

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Psychological abuse. I have a physical reaction now when my current partners are nice to me when I do something he would have berated me for hours and locked me in my room for. Like, I get a panic attack *because* my partners are nice to me when I drop a glass, or got laid off, or forgot to unload the dishwasher. And then they don't bring it up every time they're irritated with me. My ex was still yelling at me 14 years later for s**t I did when we first started dating - s**t like I forgot to pick up his laundry from the floor or bought the wrong brand of bacon. At the end there, the lectures lasted hours as he recounted 14 years of offenses. My current partners? They don't throw s**t in my face that I did the day before. The dissonance is crazy. I knew the other abuse wasn't normal, but my step dad is the same way with my mom, so I had no idea, I just thought it's how men are.

Tsingani , Almas Baig Report

Final score:

137points

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Lisa H 2 years ago

My ex would constantly bring up the fact that I experimented with other guys prior to meeting him. "I'm so jealous that you did that thing with that one guy from years ago, but you won't do it with me." As I have tried to explain to him, that's when I realized I didn't like that thing, but he still acted hurt about it and took it as me rejecting him and not just accepting the fact that I have preferences in the bedroom. He never let it go.

85points

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else That you should be happy together *now*, and not constantly waiting for some vaguely defined future where everything's settled down.

Zenco3DS , Jeremy Segrott Report

Final score:

136points

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N Miller 2 years ago

If you grow together, youre always changing in tiny ways as you learn new things and have new experiences together. If we're talking a purely physics metaphor, in an ideal world things are never settled. (Plus I'm hiding spam)

23points

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else My first boyfriend was so ridiculously clingy. Like if we were in bed together we would HAVE to cuddle otherwise he would cry and think that I was mad at him, when in reality I was just hot and wanted some space.

I just thought that's what relationships were.

My relationship now is nothing like that. It is so nice to be in the same room but doing completely seperate things and not have to worry about each other.

physicslover69 , Inzmam Khan Report

Final score:

125points

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Helena 2 years ago

I too do not deal well with guys constantly clinging. We're good, I love you, I will snuggle you for a bit, but especially when I want to sleep, I need room.

45points

Both oh my exbfs (2 years each relationship) told me that I had to be under 100lbs. I’m very petite but changed when I ate so I only ate one a day. My now husband has to kindly remind me that it’s okay to eat more then one meal.

Hippolina Report

Final score:

124points

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Purplescales 2 years ago

That is just unacceptable to expect a grown adult to be under 100 pounds, that sounds like they wanted a child but wouldn’t admit it.

13points

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else This is a little strange I guess, sort of an individual thing, but... with my first two relationships (5 years total between the two) I never realized how cuddly I am. I used to HATE being touched or kissed, and I never realized that wasn't just... the way I was. I even thought I might be asexual, but deep down I knew that wasn't the case.

My fiancé used to be the same way, but when we met, somehow things just... clicked into place.

itsFlycatcher , Andrea S Report

Final score:

123points

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Amanita Muscaria 2 years ago

I love that picture!

63points

#10

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else You're apparantly not supposed to be afraid of your boyfriend, and a man doing his share of his own housework is not impossible to come by nor something you can't realistically expect! Also your partner isn't supposed to hate your friends and family nor shout at you about not having steak for dinner. And throwing glasses/plates at you or throwing punches is, like, frowned upon. (I'm living a much better life nowadays, truly! :) )

GinnyMaple , Nicu Buculei Report

Final score:

121points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

The more I read about men like this, I wonder just how "normal" this behaviour is? It makes me feel embarrassed to be a man.

94points

#11

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else being cowed into an "open arrangement" = normal.

Him introducing me to "friends" while hanging out or going to parties and then him telling me later in the evening after the ice had broken that they were actually the girl(s) he was f*****g. Capitulating to his insistance that we continue to hang out even though I was uncomfortable with knowing this new information. = Normal.

Him making unwelcome and uncomfortable comments to other women I was friends with in front of me to attempt to orchestrate threesomes that I was not ok with.= Normal

If you love me, you'll chase after me = Normal

If you love me you'll leave face time up at all times so I can see whats going on in your dorm = Normal

If you love me you will not show any sad or mad emotion because it ruins my mood = Normal.

Angsty_Potatos , Thirdman Report

Final score:

111points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What a twatbasket that man was.

128points

#12

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Crying. All. The. Time.

She would use tears to the point of manipulation. This was in high school btw. I thought that was just “a girl thing” but no way. My current gf and I have been dating for 3 and a half years and she only cries when she’s in pain or having a panic attack. Both of which are not my fault and I can help her through.

Damn I thought every girl cried like 3 times a day. If any of you are dating a Kendra from Southern California, get the hell away.

PackOfMeese , Karolina Grabowska Report

Final score:

106points

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Headless Roach 2 years ago

Some people are more emotional than others, it will not be manipulation in every case. Having said that, you are not your partner's therapist.

68points

#13

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else People's love languages are all different. It's especially jarring when you have a *lot* of experience doing things a certain way, and then finding out that isn't what somebody else needs. It can take some work to figure out what's inherent to yourself and what was learned from your partner.

HelpfulCherry , Bhavishya Goel Report

Final score:

89points

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ℚ𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕎𝕠𝔽𝕊𝕙𝕚𝕡 2 years ago

covering up an ad :)

17points

Natesradscreenname , Tambako The Jaguar Report

#14

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else I would lick the side of my first girlfriend's face like a dog and she loved it. My second girlfriend slapped me when I tried it.

Final score:

87points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Licking, apart from certain, very specific areas, is nasty. I am against saliva in general.

75points

#15

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else That sex should last more than 45 seconds

anon , j0hncooke Report

Final score:

87points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

I managed a full minute once.....

82points

#16

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else I see so much horrible things on here, mine is quite tame but here goes.

My first boyfriend would always leave me small presents or notes underneath my pillow if I had to get up earlier than he did. He was quite romantic and told me I love you quite a lot. When I got a new boyfriend I caught myself looking underneath my pillow for at least a month/2 months in, just out of habit.

Mila999 , Neeta Lind Report

Final score:

83points

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Screen_Addict 2 years ago

Aww that's sweet, so much better than the some of the abusive things on here

81points

#17

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else She made me believe the old TV tropes of women NEVER wanting sex. I had to work my a*s off to get her to give me some action.

The next girl I had was just f*****g amazed that I didn't just ask for it when I wanted it. The bewildered look on her face when she finally asked "You realize I'm horny too right?"

KhaosElement , Liz Lister Report

Final score:

81points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

If that woman was asexual that is one thing, if she was just holding it back for a power trip then that is wrong.

84points

#18

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else I grew up in a pretty strict Christian home and was taught that sex before marriage was a sin.

My first teenage boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and never came anywhere close to having sex. At the time, I thought it was because I was a good Christian. Since sex before marriage was wrong, I didn't want to have sex with him. All my friends were either having sex or struggling not to. I didn't understand this because I didn't have the desire to do "wrong," just as I didn't have the desire to hurt people or lie or steal.

He and I broke up as our lives went in different paths. My next relationship became sexual pretty quickly, and it was only then that I realized that I was never really attracted to my ex, which is why I didn't want to have sex with him.

Laceybram , Amelia Isa Report

Final score:

71points

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OnAFreakingRollercoaster 2 years ago

How many times do I have to downvote and report spam for this guy to get blocked? He is so f***Ing annoying

30points

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#19

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else My ex basically taught me that it wasn't okay for me to be upset about things. Every time I would get my feelings hurt (even when I was upset about something completely unrelated to him) it was somehow flipped around so I ended up reassuring and comforting him. That s**t really messed me up, and I basically had to relearn how to be vulnerable with my SO. He also had a very solid plan of how he expected me to live my life, basically his main goal for me was to have kids and be a good housewife. Yikes.

On the bright side, nowadays I'm happily engaged and my fiance treats me with so much love and respect. He's supportive of my dreams and we are able to lean on each other in times of hardship.

PartTimeKhajiit , MART PRODUCTION Report

Final score:

67points

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harpling 2 years ago

Sounds like the first guy's plan was for her to be a good housewife, mother, AND his personal therapist.

19points

#20

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else It wasn't super long term, only about a year but when you're in high school that's fairly long term. My ex was a very clingy dude, sweet but would follow me around every social gathering and get jealous of me spending time with my friends. When I started dating the guy who is now my husband I remember looking around at a party early on of mostly my friends that he hadn't met before and I couldn't find him. I asked someone where he was and he was out by the fire with a group of people chatting and hanging out. I was astonished that we could just go our separate ways in a social setting and that was totally fine, we didn't have to be attached at the hip the whole time.

Edit: When I say he would follow me around I literally mean he never left my side. And these were parties and things where he knew everyone as well. At one point my friend was upset so I went into a bedroom with her and another friend to talk to her and within five minutes he came into the room and even though this was obviously private he just stood in there. And I did tell him multiple times that we didn't constantly have to be beside each other. If you and your partner like to hang out at parties that's fine but it was suffocating to me. He was jealous of my friends and complained when I would make plans with them. Honestly we were young and he's probably a totally fine dude now. We were just not right together.

missluluh , joey zanotti Report

Final score:

57points

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Screen_Addict 2 years ago

Just covering up spam thanks :)

16points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#21

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else That mental/emotional abuse and not doing things together was normal...if that makes sense.

We met online and our first date was okay...but that was the last time we ever really went out in public. He was older than me so after work he would come to my college dorm. He forced me to have sex, and would get angry with me if I didn't....mock sadness and disappointment in me. I didn't want to but I thought I loved him and I thought he knew best.

He would avoid me for months at a time, just saying he was busy (usually during the summer. He was a teacher), and then try to convince me everything was okay come September.

He got engaged to another woman while still trying to convince me we were a happy couple. They got married two months ago.

Yes, I should have registered the signs, but he was my first relationship ever and I just wanted to believe it was all normal and okay. :(

On a much happier, lighter note, I am currently engaged to the actual man of my dreams, and he treats me like a princess :)

mountaincal48 , Pixabay Report

Final score:

56points

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Luna Crow 1 year ago

I really hope the OP reported this piece of s**t, maybe even warned the new wife. The description has rapist abuser written all over it. None of that is justifiable.

6points

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#22

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Not every guy wants to throw on Motown and slow dance with you. Some of them don't even care to touch you.

I miss the slow dances.

Horrorgoreandlove , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

51points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

I could do the Dougie with you?

23points

#23

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Putting his wants over my needs.

Putting his comfort above mine.

His comfort over my safety.

They shouldn't try to make you jealous. And definitely shouldn't get mad if it doesn't work.

They also shouldn't make you feel like one day their fist will find your face instead of a wall. Anger issues should not be normal. And one day I realized that if/when it happened, I could forgive him. I wish I had told someone that so they could have told me I should never even consider that possibility.

I also thought that violently swinging from rage to sappy romantic in less than a second was sweet, since it meant he was sorry for whatever he did or said.

PostItFrustrations , Stephanie Report

Final score:

47points

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Lisa H 2 years ago

Sounds like my sister's ex husband.

10points

stevenuniverse_89 , richardhe51067 Report

#24

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else My ex put her happines on me making it my responisbilty. Would demand I stay around and cut my work hours back and then be upset when we wouldnt have money to go out. Every time I would try and leave I was coerced with sex to stay, because I was young and stupid. After 8 years I had enough I moved 5 states away. Had a chain of bad relatsionships that ended, took some time to work on myself and im now engaged to an amazing woman I can communicate with share feelings about issues and who values a healthy relationship.

Final score:

45points

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aceupyoursleeve 2 years ago

Hiding spam :D (f**k Donald)

11points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#25

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Her father hating me. I just thought this was normal, but in the subsequent 3 relationships (last one turning into a marriage and family) the parents were kind and I couldn't believe that is possible.

motorbiker1985 , Eric Chan Report

Final score:

44points

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lauralett50 2 years ago

Some dad's do that if they believe you are not good enough for his "princess" . It's him not you.

25points

#26

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else just like a lot of toxic behaviour. It wasnt a healthy relationship and I found myself looking after the other person and organizing my life around their needs. 4 years later and im still learning what a healthy relationship looks like and what its like when someone is looking after my needs.

anon , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

39points

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Lisa H 2 years ago

...did I write this?

19points

#27

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Wait, not everyone wants commitment? I always looked to the future. It was nice that the guys I dated in between my long relationships were kind enough to break it off when they realized what I was really after though.

n0tr3allyh3r3 , Brandon O'Connor Report

Final score:

38points

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Alana Voeks 2 years ago

At this point, I'll be happy to find someone patient who just doesn't mind my company.

17points

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#28

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else Not me but the girl I'm currently dating said that her first long-term boyfriend would stare at himself in the bathroom for an hour or so before going to bed each night.

chiefk240 , Wonderlane Report

Final score:

33points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Erm....Why?

16points

herpes_free_since_73 , Sheila Sund Report

#29

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else That some girls, in a relationship, don't like to kiss as often as others. I'm just talking about pecks when I/gf gets home etc. I always enjoyed a hello kiss but I guess some girls don't?

Final score:

32points

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Screen_Addict 2 years ago

Everybody has their preferences

25points

#30

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else It was very minor all things considered. I got used to never being complimented, just criticized. I take that back, he did compliment me, once. He told me that in Saudi (his parents worked for an oil company and had moved there) I'd be worth many camels because I was "buxsom, had child bearing hips, and reddish hair". Yeah, he actually said buxsom. I've been married 22 years, and he was several years before that, and I still don't do well with compliments.

ArtEclectic , joiseyshowaa Report

Final score:

31points

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foofoofloofy 2 years ago

Tbh, if you're only going to give your partner one compliment in your entire relationship, telling them that they're worth many camels is the way to go.

47points

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#31

31 Things People Discovered Were Not OK In A Relationship Only After Dating Someone Else I never necessarily thought it was "normal" since I reject that loose characterization, but my girlfriend used to beg me to sniff my farts. It wasn't in a kinky way or anything, that would be disturbing. But from time to time, she'd ask me if I needed to let one rip, and I'd be like "no...(is this girl okay)?" and she'd kind of just not give me a response and pretend like nothing happened. Then 15 minutes later, she'd ask again, and I'd be like "actually yeah, kind of, why?" And then she'd ask me to take off my pants and spread my legs, after which she'd nestle the tip of her nose in that dark crevasse, clear her throat, slap my a*s and say "okay, go" with an elegance fit for ballerinas, not for fart-sniffers.

ElephantCarcass , Scott Wilcoxson Report

Final score:

28points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

" It wasn't in a kinky way...." Yeah, I think it was though.

156points

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Rens 2 years ago

I fled my abusive ex 4 years ago; I have been in my new relationship for almost 3 years. I still apologise if I make a noise doing something or dropping something; I still feel very grateful that he doesn't throw the plate at me if he finds an accidental hair in his food; I still marvel that he doesn't punch or hit me if I accidentally snag and pull a hair when I'm giving him a haircut; he never tells me I talk too much, or tells me he's not interested in my opinion.... He always thanks me for every single cup of tea, every single meal, every load of laundry, every bit of cleaning. I'm not used to being appreciated and valued and even now, just writing this post brings me to tears. I love this man so much.

20points

Electra Smith 2 years ago

So glad that you are with someone who treats you right and makes you happy. Good job being strong and doing the right thing after so much wrong was done to you.

10points

Hey! 2 years ago

Been there, done that too and I'm so happy you're out of there!

5points

lauralett50 2 years ago

We panda ladies are here for you

5points

Alana Voeks 2 years ago

I left my most recent ex 4 years ago and I do not miss it. I used to be clingy and wanting a relationship desperately...but that was until I really looked at myself. I don't like physical touch, I don't like compliments, I like to be alone...the idea of sex still makes my anxiety drive up the wall. Like...nothing about me says "relationship material," so I'm pretty sure it was all media and society telling me that I'm nothing without someone else, and it is definitely my family just making it clear nearly every day that I'm nothing. Sooooo...yeah I don't want anything besides a nice job that won't set off my PTSD, a little place to call my own, and to be left tf alone.

8points

memyselfandI 1 year ago

Try getting a cat. (If you can.) Good for non-clingy companionship, and any guy you meet who doesn’t like cats is already a red flag. Perfect jerk detector!

3points

BeepBeepBoopBoop 2 years ago

most of this is me with my current boyfriend. I don't really wanna talk to him, especially not about personal stuff. I know I should break up with him but he always talks about how sad and depressed he would be if we broke up, along with "I would never break up with you over that". It makes me feel trapped sometimes. He's clingy to the point of he freaks out and texts my mom if I don't answer him within the hour. He never leaves my side at anything social, and freaks out if I do. He doesn't have many friends, but is friends with all my friends. He always thinks I'm mad at him. It's tiring. I'm his first girlfriend, so it's even harder. Some advice would be helpful ngl, but you don't have to, sorry. Thanks for reading this lol

7points

Zedrapazia 2 years ago

You REALLY need to talk to him, even if it's uncomfortable and you don't like doing it very much. That's the only way to get out of this trap, and even if it ends with you leaving him, he'll have learned a lessions about how his own behavior affects his relationship to others. Does he have any past traumas himself that he reacts like that himself? Would be important to know and talk about.

13points

John Ambrose 2 years ago

This sounds like me in my early 20s. He has obvious insecurities, abandonment issues, anxieties. I grew up in an abusive household with a narcissistic parent. I can clearly trace my behaviors back to this. BUT it took me many years and bad relationships to process and deal with it in a healthy way. So, it's fair to take a look at some of his upbringing and talk to him about these issues. BUT it is not - NOT - your responsibility to fix him. I presume you are young as well, so you need to find a the right relationship for you. Ngl, it might take several years and much trial and error, but it is possible to be with someone who you trust to be yourself, grow and express your needs with. 🤗

7points

bee (they/xe) 2 years ago

leave him. he's manipulating you into staying in the relationship. i was in almost this exact situation a few months ago, where he would borderline yell at me if i didn't reply to his texts and he'd demand that i spend time with him instead of taking care of myself/mental health and doing homework. kindly tell him that the relationship is over and let him know why (ie "i felt like i was being guilt tripped into staying with you and it made me very uncomfortable") so that he doesn't do it again in another relationship. always trust your gut over people on the internet, but if i were you I'd end the relationship as soon as possible. also i see that you have a bi flag as your pfp-- in my experience, dating women is almost always 10 times better than dating men. i hope you have a wonderful day ^^

5points

memyselfandI 1 year ago

As someone who just got out of a very similar situation last year, break up with him. You probably think it’s partially your responsibility as a kind person and girlfriend to not make him miserable, which is noble but also terrible for your mental health, his social skills, your life, your friends’ worries, your mom’s inbox, and both his and your understanding of what a healthy relationship is. You’re not responsible for his feelings. If he’s going to be a big baby about rejection and make himself miserable, that’s his choice. But you need to get out and find someone who knows what a healthy relationship looks like. Preferably someone who’s already been in a relationship or has watched an older sibling or friend in a good relationship, so they know what to do or what not to do. I wish you luck, and don’t be afraid to block this dude if he can’t understand what breaking up means. I’ve had to break up with my ex about four times since I can’t block him entirely without losing an online

3points

Dee 1 year ago

His happiness is not your responsibility. Read and repeat until it sticks. Took me until my 30's to realize that.

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Rens 2 years ago

20points

Electra Smith 2 years ago

So glad that you are with someone who treats you right and makes you happy. Good job being strong and doing the right thing after so much wrong was done to you.

10points

Hey! 2 years ago

Been there, done that too and I'm so happy you're out of there!

5points

lauralett50 2 years ago

We panda ladies are here for you

5points

Alana Voeks 2 years ago

8points

memyselfandI 1 year ago

Try getting a cat. (If you can.) Good for non-clingy companionship, and any guy you meet who doesn’t like cats is already a red flag. Perfect jerk detector!

3points

BeepBeepBoopBoop 2 years ago

7points

Zedrapazia 2 years ago

13points