“Don’t Help, Just Keep Filming”: 30 Times People Should Have Helped Someone In Trouble
InterviewNow that many of us have lived with a smartphone in our pocket for years, we tend to have a reflex to film or photograph anything that strikes our fancy. For better or worse, this also means documenting disasters, fails, and other events that would feel a lot worse if they happened to us.
The “Don't help, just keep filming” online group exists to document all those hilarious moments when someone needed assistance, but onlookers decided to, instead, immortalize the moment. So get comfortable, as you scroll through, upvote the best or worst ones, and be sure to share your thoughts in the comments section below. We also got in touch with the page’s moderators to learn more.
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Let Me Just Post This On Facebook
Don't Bother Turning It Off
He Looks Like He Deserved It Though
Bored Panda got in touch with the page’s moderators and they were kind enough to share some more details. “Allow me to give a little more context on this subreddit. This subreddit's previous admins and moderators participated in the Reddit Blackout by no longer moderating the content and not adhering to the Code of Conduct. Because of this, the entire team was removed. This happened in a number of subreddits, and so Reddit reached out for any experienced moderators to help with a number of different communities.”
“Personally, I have professional experience running social media and communities in the tech space as well as the video game industry. Because of this - I volunteered. This was maybe 4-6 months back. Myself and the other mod were selected by Reddit directly after we threw a comment on their (Reddit Admin) topic asking for help. I knew of r/donthelpjustfilm before but in passing.”
Woof🤿irl
Back When My Little Brother Got Stuck In The Toilet. Still Hanging On The Wall
Do Something Hooman?
I say this as a cat lover, and someone who was a cat rescue specialist with an animal welfare organisation for almost 2 decades - Keep. Your. Damn. Cats. Inside.
“Upon joining - we learned the sub was made private for about 3 months and also had the mod queue completely flooded with bogus reports on topics - content posted that didn't adhere to the subreddit's own posted rules, etc. Not to mention upon re-opening the sub, no one really knew that it was back open. I assume this is because folks' interest in this sub is cursory and not a "main event" kinda community.”
It's On My Leg!!!!!!!!
Smiling On The Outside, Struggling On The Inside
So My Mom Was So Tired She Fell Asleep On The Dog Bed While Petting The Dog. Our Dog Jak Decided That Mom's Face Was Perfect For His Butt To Lay On. His Farts Tend To Be The Worst While He Naps. My Poor Mother 😴🐶💨
“As a Community Manager, you tend to simply focus on content curation and help folks to post. In my short experience here - that's been a tough one. We've got a fairly large community, but even with regular posting on my end - there's a little bump in engagement and other folks posting.”
Frog Confuses Christmas Light With Firefly And Illuminates Himself From Inside
The Chosen One
In The 70’s My Parents Thought It Was A Better Idea To Take A Photo Than Help Me
We were also curious to hear why they thought the content was popular in the first place. “I don't think it's that deep. You can look at the success of subs like r/childrenfallingover to see that people like to see "fails." The other moderator also shared his input. “Of course, people are drawn to disasters, accidents, and similar types of events. Historically people would always gather around or watch these types of events, even before phones.
This Kid Can't Eat
Please Help Grandma. She's Trying Her Best
It's just a sign telling her which number to put in on the app so the employees know which spot she's parked in. I think.
Load More Replies...She can't figure out the difference between a sign and an order screen with buttons....and I bet she still has her driving license, which is terrifying.
Why is it terrifying? It's not driving that she's trying to figure out, it's technology that she's never come up against before. Everyone needs someone to show them how to do new things in the beginning! Speaking as a senior who had to ask someone how to extend the time on a parking meter when I haven't had to use one in years and the technology has changed.
Load More Replies...I'd film my mom doing this for the laughs! Then I'd help her of course but I'm laughing first.
Totally understandable. It makes no sense without prior knowledge (including weird use of familiar terminology - "to check-in"?). Very alienating.
I also hate the fact that you need a special app for every thing you want to do. If I need a specific app, I won't order. I'm fed up with downloading and installing rubbish.
Load More Replies...I refuse to deal with ypur app! I probably won't be back at your establishment.
Ok...so its app ordering for kerb delivery. Idiot nanna clicking the images. No app
Idiot? The only idiots are the people who think they know everything.
Load More Replies...Your time will come when new technology outpaces your knowledge. And being unpleasant won't make anyone inclined to offer any help. A little empathy for people goes a long way.
Load More Replies...Sheep Charging Fisherman, Pushed Into The Water
To be fair, there's really no way to intervene in this situation. The sheep's gonna sheep, and if you try to step in, you're going to be in that pond, too.
"The term "bystander effect" first came around back in the 1960s because of the murder of Kitty Genovese. Now people simply have the option to film it to show their friends and social media, but the concept isn't exactly new. Although I would say our litigious society where people get sued or ridiculed for everything certainly doesn't help influence people to assist others." they shared with us.
Shortly After My First Christmas, When I’d Figured Out How To Scoot Backward (But Not Forward)…
Cat Gets Stuck, Hooman Gets Camera
He Could Have Picked Anywhere Else To Sit
In sociology, many of the images shown here might fall under the category of “someone else's problem,” the idea that, somehow the issue will just resolve itself. This isn’t just some modern malaise, it has been observed for quite some time. Oftentimes, when there are other people around, the people convince themselves that someone else will intervene.
This Is Fine. I'm Fine
Puppy Fighting For His Bed Back
Poor Guy
Of course, this doesn’t seem to stop people from whipping out their devices and immortalizing the situation that they could help prevent. Some folks point towards this sort of content as evidence that people are less helpful, but this might be a classic case of confirmation bias. After all, “Diffusion of responsibility” was no doubt happening before the cell phone, just with less evidence.
Ball In The Ice
Pick Him Up
How inconsiderate, if he freaks out, he might injure the beautiful bearded dragon.
Up Up And Away
When I Was A Kid A Big Plastic Easel Fell On Me And Mom Decided To Document
Let's Pray For Poor Kyle Tonight
Poor Cat Just Wanted To Have A Nap
Chickens are terrors! They are bullies, mine beat up my dogs and the cats.
It's All Fun And Games Until Kitty Heads Begin To Roll
You Should Have Stopped Him!!!
Every Man For Themselves
Tbf, if someone has got themselves stuck doing something stupid and is not in immediate danger of death or injury then I would probably take a pic before going to help.
A lot of these are originally posted as videos, so it would make sense someone might be filming in a bunch of them.
Load More Replies...Welcome to BP, Diana. Providence could use a Herald like you.
Load More Replies...Tbf, if someone has got themselves stuck doing something stupid and is not in immediate danger of death or injury then I would probably take a pic before going to help.
A lot of these are originally posted as videos, so it would make sense someone might be filming in a bunch of them.
Load More Replies...Welcome to BP, Diana. Providence could use a Herald like you.
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