Gotta love the yta self reporters. Disgusting scum.

I don't have proof of my SA's (yes, more than one) but that doesn't mean they didn't happen...that being said I don't give two shits if random people believe me or not, what happened happened, and my only option is to keep moving forward.

Am I the only one who noticed that shed's 28 and has been with him for 12 years? And he's 34 so he was 22 when they met. I feel like it's been a long time since it was ok for a 22 year old man to date a 16 year old girl.

The 4 who said YTA have no idea what they are talking about. Yes, men do get sexualy assaulted. But not nearly as often as women. 91% of those who are sexually assaulted are women, 9% are men. Those are FACTS. Yes, people get falsely accused, and those people should be punished. What OP's ex fiancee is asking for is straight out of medieval history, if not an even earlier time period. Can't work, be a baby making machine, obey and submit to him? Not bloody likely! Sad to say, there probably are a few misguided souls who agree with him & are willing to live like that. But it has taken smart, enlighten women far too many years to get where we are today to willingly go back to living that way. You 4 need to do some serious research about the issues & opinions you are tossing out. While I doubt you are able to, try to be as objective as possible while researching. Consider BOTH sides of an issue. And when I say research, I mean true research. Like you are writing a thesis for your masters degree! I've yet to meet someone who has really looked into a controversial subject whose opinions didn't change at least slightly. Let's see if any of you are courageous enough to even try. I look forward to your educated and informed replies.

I can't even with the "you're losing out on a man who values uncomfortably truths" comment. Like... Suggesting she should be a trad wife when she doesn't want to be one? Insisting she isn't special? That women are somehow worse than men as a gender? That isn't uncomfortable, it's deluded. She's well off without him.

According to law, if someone reports being raped, POLICE are supposed to proceed as if the accusation is true and investigate it as such. However, once charges are filed, the COURT assumes the defendant is innocent until proven guilty.

I hope he doesn't make his way back into her life! All of his statements are just huge red flags, and the fact that they've been dating for *twelve* years when she's only 28! He's six years older than her! So they were dating when she was 16 and he was 22, give or take.

Good thing you tossed that ring before the I dos and wound up being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. Any man or woman that can think an assault on a woman needs proof and that men don't get the same treatment really need to step back. Be it rep or dem it doesn't matter what party he's spewing hate about. It's still hate. Go live a life away from that monster in the making.

How can anyone be like "Oh, he was argumentative with others and it was cool. But when I started getting it, THEN it was a problem." It smacks of a lack of empathy and selfishness to me. We always hear "being rude to service workers" as a red flag, this sounds the same to me.

I see nothing to love about him. He’s a hateful, brainwashed misogynist who has absolutely no respect for women. He his not only a major AH, but he’s also a dangerous male who is obviously insecure about his own masculinity and therefore, feels the need to disrespect and abuse women.

This is the American Taliban taking over America & an extension of the Trump cult!

Andrew Tate is the absolute worst thing to happen in American society. He’s spreading his own insecurities about his masculinity to others like him. Thes uncivilized animals will never be able to Marty a woman who has self respect. All these male animals want to do is have total power over women all because of their insecurities about their masculinity.

I was impressed by this woman's emotional intelligence. I only wish I had half that at her (presumably late 20's-early 30's young) age.

These aholes are too much. I was just called a woke lefty femmo a minute ago. I'm like we were discussing women choosing the bear and they just started spewing all this misogynistic polioticrap. You'd think in this day and age we'd move past this garbage, but they seem to be going backwards to the freaking middle ages 😑

You dodged a bullet. Something similar happened to me (even if he didn’t want me to be a SAHM) and leaving has been the best decision

Hell, yeah. That may be why I'm a spinster, as a matter of fact.

I see the ex got all his friends to chime in with YTA comments.

If this cretin is so enamored of his fellow males to that level maybe he should marry one of his fellow cretins then.

Today, in France, there is a trial that opposes a woman to her husband and 51 of her 92 r*pists. The husband dr*gged her for 10 years to make her sleep while he went on the Internet to find men. He said 7 out of 10 men accepted. That means that 3 out of 10 men saw the proposition, refused it but didn't report it to anyone. The husband filmed every act so they are all on camera. We can see their faces and we can hear them. And you know what ? They are still claiming they didn't do anything ! But yes, it's always women...

I am extremely impressed with you. You understand that the life he wants is no longer compatible with yours. Instead of dragging this out, hemming and hawing, you were upfront, honest and decisive. Bravo

I'm a guy and I would have thrown the ring at him too.

YTAs... tell me you are an incel and/or drinking the Tate koolaid without telling me you are one.

You can always easily read the Andrew Tate followers. They give themselves away every time.

HE could be a good husband if HE could stop needing to be right all the time. Feminism isn't lying, feminism is just the radical idea that women are people too. He clearly doesn't agree, women are property to him.

Strong STRONG incel and misogyny vibes in the YTAs

12 years together, not married, only engaged, and he suddenly wants all of this radically different stuff before they marry? He 1) doesn't want to marry her, so this is equal parts trying to put her off and turn her into someone he thinks he might like better and, 2) he wants marriage/the right woman to magically transform him into the important, decisive man he always wished he was

I think at some point I would have looked at him and asked him if he would rather marry a man...my goodness. My husband and I are modern-traditional I guess you could call it. We both work and we have equal salary but the house and kids are mostly my workload where other bigger maintenance is his and it works. We help each other, however my husband does have an outdated view of things and generally has a poor outlook toward women. It's a constant agree to disagree but I have managed to put him right a few times and he has slowly changed his views a bit.

Sexual assault is a real thing and goes under reported. Based on DNA, incest stats have been revised from 1 in a million, to 1 in 7000. Many folks haven’t had DNA testing done at all. So abuse against women able to bear children, is higher than reported.

There have been some comments about women lying that they have been raped and women abusing boys. That is true. There are some cases. However, a lot of rapes are not reported to the police as they fear that they won't be believed. according to rape crises charities.

For all the YTA: Did that red pill hurt to swallow?

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Too much of this sort of garbage ! Cheap, low-effort copy/paste filler.