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“Wow, You Have Gotten So Fat”: Public Weight-Shaming Tirade Ends With Woman’s Clever Comeback
When you move abroad, there’s a unique thrill about going back home—reconnecting with family, revisiting childhood spots, and indulging in nostalgic treats. However, that excitement can fizzle out quickly when nosy neighbors and overly inquisitive aunties make it their mission to critique and interrogate every aspect of your life.
One such returnee, who is battling health issues including thyroid problems and a brain tumor, shared a powerful story about shutting down an insensitive neighbor who decided to comment on their weight gain. With a quick-witted response and a touch of humor, they transformed an uncomfortable encounter into a moment of self-empowerment, leaving the rude neighbor speechless.
Keep reading to see how they handled the situation with grace, turning what could have been a sour moment into a triumph of confidence and wit.
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A person dealing with significant health challenges shared a story of skillfully silencing a rude neighbor who made an unkind comment about their weight
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Research indicates that comments or judgments about someone’s weight can contribute to heightened anxiety and depression
Chances are, you’ve witnessed or experienced people making uninvited comments about someone’s weight. Unfortunately, these remarks happen more often than they should and can leave a lasting impact. While some people might think they’re offering helpful advice or encouragement, those remarks often land as anything but helpful.
Imagine going to a family gathering and being greeted with, “Oh, you’ve put on weight!” It doesn’t feel like a compliment, does it? Even if said with a smile, comments like these often leave the recipient feeling judged or embarrassed.
For many, weight stigma is more than a passing annoyance—it’s a source of deep emotional pain. Studies have shown that being teased or judged for your weight can lead to anxiety, depression, and even harmful behaviors like overeating.
Picture a teenager avoiding their school cafeteria because classmates mock their size, or an adult avoiding social events because they’re afraid someone will make a snide remark. The shame can be isolating.
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Instead of making remarks about weight, we should focus on fostering a supportive and uplifting environment, encouraging individuals in their journey toward health and well-being
Contrary to what some might believe, shaming people about their weight doesn’t inspire them to make healthier choices. Instead, it often has the opposite effect. Especially when it comes to kids.
A child teased on the playground for their weight might begin to see their body as a problem. Over time, this can lead to poor self-esteem and even disordered eating habits. Unfortunately, these experiences don’t just go away—they often shape how people view themselves well into adulthood.
So, instead of focusing on how someone looks, wouldn’t it be better to simply support them? Genuine, non-judgmental encouragement can go a long way in helping someone feel empowered to take control of their health. Saying something like, “I’m here for you if you ever want to talk,” is far more uplifting than making comments about appearance.
We also need to remember that weight is complex. It’s not just about diet and exercise—genetics, health conditions, and even medication can play a role. Judging someone without knowing their story is not only unfair but also unkind.
Just like in this case, the author’s neighbor made an insensitive comment about their weight without knowing the underlying health condition they were dealing with. Have you ever been unfairly judged or criticized for gaining or losing weight? Share your experience with us in the comments below.
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Online users applauded the author’s response, saying the neighbor’s behavior warranted it, as the author revealed more details
Many people commended the author for their bold actions
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winterwidow87 1 week ago
This is sadly not a cultural thing, most people who comment on other people's bodies pretending to be concerned for their health are often just straight up bullies who hide behind "health concern".
Shannon Donnelly 1 week ago
About 20 yrs ago, mainly due to medicine side effects, I gained about 120 lbs pretty quick, less than a yr, & it stuck. Tried the LapBand in 2014, but had complications, so had to loosen it completely but left it in to avoid more surgery. About 3 yrs ago, I realized 1 medication was specifically causing me to overeat, & once I got off that med, the weight fell off over @ 1.5 years, down to 150. In Oct 2023 I had my gallbladder & Lapband both removed. Saw my OB/GYN about a week later & my weight was 160. His 1st question was to ask if I was going to get another kind of weight loss surgery. Because I gained 10 lbs, the week before Halloween?! I stared at his giant muffin top silently for almost a minute before looking him straight in the eye & saying, "Nah, I'm good." Three months later I had lost 20 more lbs.
Upstaged75 1 week ago
I also had to have my lap band removed because it was making me sick. I didn't get another surgery either. Unfortunately last year I got sick and ended up on steroids for 6 months. By the time I was finished with them I was almost the size of a buffalo. ;) Thankfully the weight came off quickly once I was done with them.
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winterwidow87 1 week ago
This is sadly not a cultural thing, most people who comment on other people's bodies pretending to be concerned for their health are often just straight up bullies who hide behind "health concern".
Shannon Donnelly 1 week ago
About 20 yrs ago, mainly due to medicine side effects, I gained about 120 lbs pretty quick, less than a yr, & it stuck. Tried the LapBand in 2014, but had complications, so had to loosen it completely but left it in to avoid more surgery. About 3 yrs ago, I realized 1 medication was specifically causing me to overeat, & once I got off that med, the weight fell off over @ 1.5 years, down to 150. In Oct 2023 I had my gallbladder & Lapband both removed. Saw my OB/GYN about a week later & my weight was 160. His 1st question was to ask if I was going to get another kind of weight loss surgery. Because I gained 10 lbs, the week before Halloween?! I stared at his giant muffin top silently for almost a minute before looking him straight in the eye & saying, "Nah, I'm good." Three months later I had lost 20 more lbs.
Upstaged75 1 week ago
I also had to have my lap band removed because it was making me sick. I didn't get another surgery either. Unfortunately last year I got sick and ended up on steroids for 6 months. By the time I was finished with them I was almost the size of a buffalo. ;) Thankfully the weight came off quickly once I was done with them.
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