Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

How much attention do you pay to what’s happening around you on a night out? You may think you’re being careful, but danger might be closer than you expect.

Shirah Benarde, founder of NightCap, set out to prove this in a recent TikTok video. During a party with friends, she decided to run a small experiment by secretly ‘spiking’ their drinks with candy while filming it all on camera. Shockingly, not a single person caught on. Keep reading to find out how she pulled it off.

The TikToker set up a small experiment with her friends to prove a serious point

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Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Turns out, it’s surprisingly easy to tamper with someone’s drink

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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It’s incredibly important to never let your guard down in these situations

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Image credits: shiraah

You can watch the full video here

@shiraah With everything going on with #diddy right now, this is do important to remember. Do not let your guard down even at a private party. #diddyparty #drinkspikingprevention #spiked ♬ original sound – sped up songs &lt3

Drink spiking is more common than you might think

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Shirah Benarde’s experiment has successfully shown just how quickly a fun outing can turn into a potentially dangerous situation. And while many of us might be aware that drink spiking is a serious concern, we often underestimate the chances of it happening to us.

According to research conducted by YouGov in 2022, one in ten women (10%) and one in twenty men (5%) have experienced drink spiking. Alarmingly, another study revealed that while most incidents occur in bars or clubs, a quarter happen in private homes. This means that even in what we perceive to be a safe environment, there’s still a risk of someone taking advantage of our guard being down.

“Most commonly, drink spiking is with other alcohol, partly because it’s easy to conceal alcohol in another alcoholic drink,” says Nicole Lee, a professor at the National Drug Research Institute. However, there are also less noticeable substances that can be used, making their way into drinks like water, though they are less common. “There have been incidents of Rohypnol, ketamine, and GHB being used. Those drugs are clear and don’t smell,” adds Lee.

“The whole purpose of spiking is to incapacitate a person,” says Hayley Foster, the CEO of Full Stop Australia, an organization that provides counseling for those affected by sexual violence. “Often, it is to reduce that person’s ability to resist sexual advances.”

The reactions to being spiked can differ from person to person. According to the UK Metropolitan Police, common symptoms include confusion, nausea, hallucinations, paranoia, disorientation, poor coordination, memory loss, and difficulty communicating. In some cases, those affected may experience lowered inhibitions or even lose consciousness. These symptoms usually begin within 15 minutes of being spiked, depending on the substance, and can last for several hours.

Most people don’t report drink spiking to the police

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Despite the risks, only 7.2% of individuals who experience drink spiking report it to the police. Reasons for this vary, but victims often face shame that discourages them from coming forward. One woman, Corey, who was 18 when she recounted her experience of being spiked in a 2018 BBC article, described the ordeal as terrifying. “I couldn’t feel my legs, I couldn’t feel my arms, I couldn’t speak properly,” she shares.

“Everyone I told gave me the same responses: ‘Oh, it happens. You should have been more careful; you should have watched your drink,’” she explains. “I was getting blamed.”

“The hard part is that there is no proof I was spiked; it’s just my word,” Corey adds. “I kept getting told it was my fault. I didn’t want the police to say that it was me.”

Many activists are campaigning to address this issue and raise awareness while offering support to those who have been spiked. However, the best course of action is to protect yourself in advance. “Make sure you keep your drink close to you, don’t share drinks with other people, especially if you haven’t seen where it’s come from,” Lee advises.

If someone offers to buy your drink, be sure to go to the bar with them, watch it being made, and pick it up yourself. If you notice that your beverage tastes off, don’t hesitate to stop drinking. Your safety is far more important than trying to play it cool.

Many commenters agreed that this is a great way to make your friends aware of how unexpectedly their drinks could be spiked

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

However, some felt the experiment was a bad idea, thinking it could harm the trust the woman had with her friends

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

Others shared their own frightening experiences of getting roofied

Friends Learn A Scary Lesson After Woman ‘Spikes’ Their Drinks As A Wake-Up Call

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Paul C. 4 hours ago

Good for this lady. I've worked in a bar and seen the consequences of spiking. Luckily she was a friend, who I saw talking to a guy who I knew to be a bit dodgy. She only had one drink and started talking with a slur and he started to get closer. I decided I didn't care if I was wrong and took her up to the flat upstairs and the owners son sat with her. Less than ten minutes later he said she had fallen asleep. I called an ambulance and they took her to hospital. She had been given something and was out cold until mid day next day, but all ok. No proof it was the guy but we said he wasn't welcome again and he just shrugged, whatever. At the next meeting of pub landlords his name was brought up and a couple said they were worried about him and from then on his every move was watched. Everybody please be vigilant and don't be afraid to upset people, if you are wrong all you have done is upset their feelings. If you are right, you might just have saved their life.

6points

Donkey boi 3 hours ago

My cousin Jim and I (both males) were spiked while on holiday. Luckily, 2 (Female) friends we had made (not relevant, but they are the reason I love the Sheffield accent) kept an eye on and got us back to our hotel. I don't remember a single thing, but apparently I was 'an entertaining s**t show', whereas Jim was just a complete mess. Barely conscious, he had to be carried by the 2 girls, while I carried 'a very special and extremely rare flower' (which was in fact a Lucozade bottle). The following afternoon, when talking about it, I speculated that the girls were probably the actual targets, You see, Jim and I were drinking fancy "girly" looking cocktails, and the girls were drinking pints of beer. Shoved together on a table the size of a small tray it would be the most obvious assumption that the "girly" looking drinks were theirs. I think this girl is doing a good deed.

3points