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We learn about the world through our experiences and people that surround us, which is a normal process. Nobody’s experiences are completely the same, which leads us to having different perspectives on certain things.

That means that we might think something is quite common as we hear about it or see it often, but in general, it’s the opposite. Plane crashes happen less often than perceived, as well as many other things netizens pointed out in this Reddit thread.

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#1

“What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Quicksand.

I was led to believe it would be a much bigger problem in my adult life.

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    #2

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Being transgender.

    I saw a news reel once where the anchor was interviewing people off the street, all political affiliations. Conservatives thought 30% to 40% of kids were identifying as Trans. Liberals a bit closer, guessed 10%-20%.

    The real number revealed at the end of the segment?

    1.4% 💀

    Mermaidman93 , Rosemary Ketchum Report

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get it. I just don't. I don't need to get it. All I need to do is accept people and love them for who they are. Whether I get it or not is irrelevant. If calling someone "they" or having gender-neutral toilets or whatever makes them feel accepted and loved, so be it. It's not my place to judge.

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    #3

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) People surviving CPR and waking up immediately acting normal and asking what happened.

    CutthroatTeaser , Michel E Report

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    UKDeek
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In England, the survival rate for out of hospital cardiac arrest is about 8%... https://cks.nice.org.uk/topics/cardiac-arrest-out-of-hospital-care/background-information/prognosis/#:~:text=Fewer%20than%201%20in%2010,attempted%20survive%20to%20hospital%20discharge.

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    #4

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) That men are pretending to be trans so they can sneak into the ladies room to watch us pee.

    ArtichokeStroke , Juan Marin Report

    #5

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Stranger abductions of children represent less than one percent of all missing child cases (in the US, at least). They're mostly runaways or family abductions.

    LifeGivesMeMelons , Volodymyr Hryshchenko Report

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    LauraDragonWench
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to be more worried about a crazy relative abducting you than a crazy stranger. That said, as a child walking home from elementary school one day, I was followed by a strange car. I did what my mom taught me: ran away screaming and it peeled off, never to be seen again. I was either very lucky or just paranoid.

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    #6

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Casting director here.


    Having a career in acting, I don't mean being famous. I mean paying your bills with acting alone.


    I would hazard being an exclusively working actor is about 1% of actors.

    But the amount of people still going into acting tells me people think otherwise.

    Dontshunlee , Avel Chuklanov Report

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    Fabian Bernard
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same for musicians. Friends of mine are only famous in their area, but live honestly, enough to raise a Family. The only one I know earning quite a lot ( 4000€ a month) is another friend who is in the shadow as a studio musician, playing music for jingles, ads, TV shows or for singers who sing under their name only with anonymous band. It's the most lucrative job

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    #7

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Pearls. Of all the fine stones(I know it classifies differently, but for jewelry, it’s basically a stone), it’s the one that has to happen in an oyster, which only exist on Earth. Other planets are literally raining diamonds, they’re so common. But, pearls are probably one of the rarest substances to exist

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    Zaach
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The old trope of a broken necklace spilling pearls all over the floor will never happen - each pearl is knotted in place

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) vaccine injury

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    Shaunn Munn
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Senior citizen: Decades of vaccines - 0 reactions. I love 'em!

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    #9

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) My dog coming when I call him

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    Cam Schmit
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice. I'm actually under the impression that about 5% of dogs actually obey this command

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    #10

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Successfully suing a company for millions. Some Redditors will have you believe that any minor inconvenience should earn you some kind of massive payout. And the comments will assure you that the company will do anything to avoid bad PR.

    JK_NC , Sasun Bughdaryan Report

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    Lotekguy
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely a myth about easy money. Big business and the insurance industry have spent untold millions demonizing plaintiffs and their lawyers. The truth is quite the opposite. For every so-called frivolous suit that gets a windfall, there are dozens that either were lost lost or settled for less value because they couldn't afford to fight against the superior resources of the defense. The table is stacked against the injured or aggrieved "little guy " in favor of the haves.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Helium.

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    Trey Frog
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We’re -way- past the point where throwing it away for party balloons should be banned. And don’t get me started on mass balloon releases.

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    #13

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Walking into an alley in Manhattan. Happens all the time in shows/movies, in reality there are like 1 or 2 in the whole borough.

    fatcatfromspace , Isaac Weatherly Report

    #14

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Drag Queens at the local library.

    I go to my library at least twice a week, and I've yet to see one.

    3925 , John Shepherd Report

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    MontanaMariner
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's remember who they caught on "To Catch A Predator." Public figures, church member, etc.

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    #15

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Becoming a self-made millionaire. That's hard without a bunch of leg-ups.

    mydarthkader , cottonbro studio Report

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    Lotekguy
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to be rich, choose your parents wisely.

    Papa
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do some research and find out how many millionaires inherited their money. It's a smaller percentage than you probably think.

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    Hphizzle
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I became ceo of my company at 20, and millionaire by 28. My secret…hard work. Manifesting… and daddy gave me a couple hundred thousand dollars to start up my company. /s

    Cam Schmit
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my company made like $6000 or something and the IRS tried penalizing us $3200 for filing a tax return late for the previous year. The company existed for 14 days in 2022 and didnt' make a dime. Yet....$3200 in penalization.

    David
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    11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a full 20% of the 1% came from the bottom quintile of the socio-economic scale. It may not be common, but it isnt super rare for people to leap to higher income brackets. One of the biggest billionaires in America Harold Hamm (77th richest in the world), grew up as one of 13 kids to poor rural share croppers, dropped out of HS at 16 to pump gas at a gas station to help out his family. Today worth over $20 billion in the oil industry. Ok he is a very rare case, but a cool one

    Max Fox
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    11 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, self made millionaires are extremely common. If you include home equity, around 20% of all people in the USA have a net worth of over a million dollars by the time they retire. That is around how much a person with an income in the top 20% can having in savings and mortgage. A fairly large number of people in the bottom 50% who get an education can end up with that net worth. More than 1/2 of all millionaires are people with less than $2 million whose money comes from their own savings and things like 401ks. These millionaires are also mostly over 65, and are living exclusively from that $1 million. If a person lives for another 20 years, to the age of 85, that is $50,000 a year. A nice addition to Social Security, but hardly wallowing in riches. There are at least 6 million "self-made" millionaires in the USA, but $1,000,000 in net worth is not really that much these days, especially if you can no longer work.

    SM
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, they need to update the phrase to "self-made billionaire". Back when this phrase was first stated a million dollars was a super-rich person. Today inflation has made that "living comfortably".

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    StrangeOne
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The most common thing I hear about the ultra rich is their determination to become rich, their love of money and how much they schmooze with other rich folks and honing in on a talent, or something they like to do, that they peddle as being highly valuable and creating a demand for the service they want to provide. Also, heavy investing and searching for tax breaks and loopholes. The more wealth is accumulated, the more ethical and legal become unclear. Most of us wouldn't be able to handle being rich.

    SM
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "self-made", discounting all the work other people have done, discounting that money they get from governments, discounting the use of public facilities, ...

    Kaila Sterland
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No just have a pretty or Handsome face and so stupid stuff on tic Tok

    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm a self-made man. But the job is still under construction."

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    #17

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Your kid becoming a pro (or even college) athlete

    ddela123 , Keith Johnston Report

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    Geoffrey Scott
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    11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No problem chasing a dream, but have a back-up. I always tell kids "do the math..tell me your odds of success".

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Amnesia. It's common in fiction because it's convenient in ways that makes things easy for the writers, for example explaining why someone's dark past is a secret which can be revealed later at the climax of the story. In real life it's very rare and doesn't work like people think it does.

    MysteryRadish , Elīna Arāja Report

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    Puppy Dancing!
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    12 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got amnesia when I was 17 from a head blow, the past is only linked by stories and some vignettes, very few memories. It has continued to today, I remember things for a few days. The longer term, where I remember things with stories and touchstones(that happened in such and such year, the year I started that job)and only a few visual memories, like pictures. It helps when something really bad happens, I don't really remember the emotions, the story remains, the memory doesn't. I keep a journal and pictures for important memories, and only remember the good. I magically remember facts, don't know where it comes from, so I can study information. This means I am a very happy person.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) People who are truly compatible with you(and I mean both friendships and relationships)

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    #20

    Razor blades or poison in Halloween candy. It's zero. Never happened. And now every single kid out trick or treating has to have every candy inspected by mom and dad, and Halloween itself has been hollowed out to a safe boring joke where kids collect candy from one block of stores or from the trunks of a circle of parent's cars.

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    Sonja
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It happened exactly once. And it was the father himself who tried to poison his child and blame it on a stranger poisoning Halloween candies. But he behaved so suspiciously that the parents of the other kids became suspicious and he got caught without anyone being harmed

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Making a living off just your art alone. Musicians, Artists, Film makers, Dancers -- that whole lot, what we see on TV and Movies are the cream of the crop (not that they are necessarily the best, mind you, they've just risen up somehow) and are a very small percentage. Most Artists of whatever medium will stay in relative obscurity -- i.e. you're a regional act, you gained some glint of fame, and yes admiration, even inspiring others -- but when you're not on tour, when you're not in the studio, you're working a job that pays the bills.

    I think the key to success here is that you find a job you like, are good at, and allows you to do your art without interference. That way, when you're 45 and your band still hasn't "broke through" or your art isn't commanding tens of thousands, you're not just stuck stocking shelves at the grocery (not that there's anything wrong with that, it just pays p**s-poor).

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While in prison, I sold a painting for a bag of jalapeno poppers. Monet never once sold a painting for a bag of jalapeno poppers. I win!

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Plane crashes. I know your lizard brain doesn't like it, but flying is THE safest mode of transportation

    Edit: because a lot of people mentioned it, I am specifically referring to commercial jets and the like. Small planes and helicopters are *way* less safe.

    Amazing_Excuse_3860 , Maria Charizani Report

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    DeShotz
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are far, far, far more likely to meet an untimely demise on the drive to the airport than aboard an aircraft. People often assume that if anything goes wrong on a plane , it is boom, game over. People forget that airplanes can glide and even helicopters can autorotate.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Savant abilities in autism. We have Rain Main to thank for that, largely, but there are big questions as to whether the guy this was based on actually should have been diagnosed with something other than ASD.

    Sweeper1985 , SHVETS production Report

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    K B.
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw him once and had the great privilege of asking him one question (he visited my school). What I remember most was wondering whether he could consent to being a performer. It seemed sad, not because of his incredible mind but because of little things like his handler (a family member I think) explaining away every small non relevant comment like his conversation was an embarrassing problem if his mind wandered off topic. It made me depressed in a way I couldn't express at 12 or 13. Such a wildly unique perspective being used to amuse a bunch of kids who mostly said rude things about him later.

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    #25

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Being awake during a surgery under general anesthesia. Patients worry about it all the time, but I’ve been doing this 19 years and never seen a real case of this.

    Sweatroo , Anna Shvets Report

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    #26

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Insanity pleas actually sticking.

    lack-of-creativity , Zachary Caraway Report

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    Trey Frog
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they’re a huge risk, because to make the plea you pretty much have to admit that you did what you’re on trial for.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Soft teeth. I've been in dentistry for 20yrs & I can't tell you how many times I've heard patients say "I just have soft/bad/weak teeth." Actual weak teeth caused by gene abnormalities resulting in malformed enamel occurs in approx 1/15,000 people in the US. I've literally never seen it in person. I've seen cases where a few teeth are involved, but never an entire mouth full of teeth, it's that uncommon. Bad diet, bad hygiene, smoking, drugs, meds, dry mouth, inhalers, acid reflux, etc are all wayyyyyy more likely to be the cause of decayed teeth. People just don't want to hear that.

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    Speechless Florals
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom says this, and what's way more likely is small town fraud. There's been a few examples of dentists lying and giving a lot of root canals to maximize the amount of money they make. Once my mom moved when she was in her 20s from her home town all of her teeth issues stopped.

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    #28

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) A business becoming profitable within 2 years. Be patient, it takes time (years). Businesses only fail if they have to be shut down. Keep them alive, ride out the time factor, and enjoy success down the road.

    globalfinancetrading , Tim Mossholder Report

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    Sonja
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Businesses can creep along for a very long time, getting indebted but not quite drowning for years upon years of incompetent management. If a business is well managed they shut down quickly when management realises it's not working out due to outside factors. Competent people will then cut their losses before it gets to bad. But incompetent people don't see the writing on the wall and often drag the dying horse along until it's truly dead and the stinking cadaver poisons everything.

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    #30

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Going missing in the Bermuda triangle

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    12 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Methane gas building up in the area from the Everglades run off has reduced greatly. Used to get huge explosions of methane that could be ignited.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) A happy healthy person who makes it through life without experiencing pain and suffering.

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    Sonja
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    12 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happiness isn't a feeling made to last. It's a short outburst of feeling. If you have a happy day, that's precious. But not being happy doesn't automatically mean being unhappy. But you shouldn't make happiness your main goal. Aim for contentment and peace of mind because both are feelings that are sustainable and stable if you can find them. Then you'll find moments of happiness and joy every day. But if you're chasing happiness, you'll rarely be satisfied. And experiencing life without any pain and suffering would mean you're a sociopath who cares for nobody but yourself. As soon as you love anyone it's impossible.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Natural triplets.

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    Trey Frog
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve never seen triplets presented as anything but so rare that it alone is the basis for a novelty act.

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    #34

    Good parenting skills

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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If with good parenting skills you mean perfection, you are right. A perfect parent doesn't exist. Every parent makes mistakes. You learn the job as you go. But there are more parents striving to do their best than parents that are doing their worst. And when you are doing your best, you just hope that it's enough and that your mistakes aren't so big to ruin your children or your relationship with them.

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    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) Toxic shock syndrome from wearing tampons. When tampons were first made women were told that one tampon can last her whole period which was causing toxic shock syndrome and even then it wasn't super common now we are more educated and don't wear tampons for that long so it's very rare for toxic shock to happen unless you forget to take a tampon out for weeks.

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    Trey Frog
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Valid point, completely garbled context. It’s corrected by other commenters over on Reddit, but this should never have been used here.

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    #36

    The Jewish population. Worldwide there are about 16 million Jews, with about 7 million in Israel and 6 million in the US.

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    #37

    Vanilla beans, saffron. The real stuff

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    KitKat
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm growing a vanilla planifolia. It's a lovely green orchid. I'm eagerly waiting for it to flower

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    #38

    “What Is Extremely Rare But People Think It’s Very Common?” (35 Answers) OCD

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    Ace
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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't deserve the downvotes. People often think that a liking for order in any context is OCD, It's absolutely not. I like to have all my cash notes the same way round, for example, and knives hanging on a hook should all face the same way, but a true OCD person would be constantly checking them, again and again and again, even when there's absolutely no chance that anyone could have rearranged them. Not the best example, perhaps, but anyone claiming to be "a bit OCD about..." is absolutely NOT an OCD sufferer,

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    #39

    DID, psychopathy and sociopathy + narcissism.

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    12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rare? No, 30% or more of criminals have some elements of these personality traits. Naturally occuring sometimes, but rarely to an extreme level, usually more nurture than nature to get the extreme representation we occasionally see in individuals. If we could eliminate post partem depression and have 1 year off to bond with babies, we would have much less psychological devience.

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