We learn about the world through our experiences and people that surround us, which is a normal process. Nobody’s experiences are completely the same, which leads us to having different perspectives on certain things.
That means that we might think something is quite common as we hear about it or see it often, but in general, it’s the opposite. Plane crashes happen less often than perceived, as well as many other things netizens pointed out in this Reddit thread.
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Quicksand.
I was led to believe it would be a much bigger problem in my adult life.
Being transgender.
I saw a news reel once where the anchor was interviewing people off the street, all political affiliations. Conservatives thought 30% to 40% of kids were identifying as Trans. Liberals a bit closer, guessed 10%-20%.
The real number revealed at the end of the segment?
1.4% 💀
I don't get it. I just don't. I don't need to get it. All I need to do is accept people and love them for who they are. Whether I get it or not is irrelevant. If calling someone "they" or having gender-neutral toilets or whatever makes them feel accepted and loved, so be it. It's not my place to judge.
People surviving CPR and waking up immediately acting normal and asking what happened.
That men are pretending to be trans so they can sneak into the ladies room to watch us pee.
My little sister is trans, I really hope people don't think of her like this
Sadly, the few transgender people who have committed SA or done inappropriate things are blown up out of proportion in the media and sensationalised for click bait so people would think it was more common.
Load More Replies...Another woman watching another woman pee in a restroom is as creepy as anyone else doing it.
I can attest that has happened to me a few times. I find it just as uncomfortable when a group of ladies listens to someone peeing and make rude comments.
Load More Replies...As has been pointed out many times, a sexual predator is not going to be stopped by a sign forbidding entry. They're not going to bother with elaborate ruses to get their way, almost always it's an act of opportunity mixed with weak morals and ethics making them not think twice about it.
That is true. I know someone who was attacked by a man hiding in the women's restroom waiting for a woman to come in alone. He wasn't trans - just a normal straight man who also happened to be a predator. Fortunately she was able to fight him off and get help. The real predators won't care what's on the bathroom door, and probably won't bother much with disguises either.
Load More Replies...Yea the biggest problem with this is in the USA bathrooms are about as private as a bush in the woods. There is enough space between the door and wall someone could stab you with a knife in a closed stall. Mens bathrooms at large places sometime have god damn troughs, not ok in anyway. If they could just make the most private room private.
As if a man has ever needed to pretend to be a trans woman to commit violence...
To watch us pee... Not sure how they would do that, I try squeezing into a stall with my kid and that is already challenging, I doubt any pretending transgender is going to squeeze into the stall with me to watch me pee 😂
I don’t send my 5 year old to a public bathroom by himself because predators exist. The predator in my head isn’t a man in a dress. If you want to picture your predator as a man in a dress fine. Statistically it won’t be but take care of your kid all the same. That said there is not link between trans and child predation. Don’t use bad actors to justify taking away peoples rights. It’s just weak justification for your hate.
Just ask a mall security guard how often they see men going into the the women's washroom like it's the most normal thing to do. Predators don't care.
Load More Replies...I never understood this one. In most bathrooms in the USA - girl stalls built same as boy stalls. When I sit in a boy stall I can not see the person next to me except maybe their feet. So it seems like the Venn diagram of the folks "benefitting" would be an extremely small subset of people who get a thrill out of listening to a female urinate and are willing to dress up as female / pretend to be trans in order to get access. That can't be very many people in real life. And my second thought is who cares? Like - reverse it - if a transman wanted to sit in the stall next to me and hear me poop - it doesn't change my day. Could have happened for all I know.
The trans people I know use single room bathrooms for families and disabled people. When they know they aren't passing with the gender they identify as they know it will be trouble if they go into that gender's washroom, but they are not comfortable going into other genders washroom, too. At least that's what was told to me by a trans female when I asked as she was waiting for the family washroom to be free.
The truly ridiculous thing is that, in a women's bathroom, it would be RIDICULOUSLY OBVIOUS if someone were trying to watch you pee, and then it really wouldn't matter their anatomy or gender identity, like, holy c**p people, it's not like they've got x-ray vision, if they did, they wouldn't need to go IN to the women's restroom to do that in the first place.
All bathrooms are gender neutral at the university I work at. Or unisex, whichever you prefer.
Anyone who would do this is disturbed on a level that is a different problem altogether.
This is about the same as people who think lots of women are carrying fetuses to 9 months then deciding, at the last moment, to abort them. It just doesn’t happen on any measurable scale. But conservatives are consummate “slippery slope” thinkers so if you can’t guarantee their worst-case never, ever happens, they won’t accept it. It’s an absurdly unreasonable standard.
I never understood this one. Do the whack-a-doos think women have urinals like men? There are annoying gaps in the stalls, but a person would have to stand close to the door, kneel on the floor or sneaky peek from next door to get their Pervy look.
Be much easierto put on a tabard and carry cleaning supplies
How would you even know what sort of genitals someone else has in the bathroom with you? What kind of gender affirming surgery trans people choose to get is not your business and is not a reason to police their lives or keep them out of spaces that are for them too. Forcing vulnerable women to use men's rooms is not safe.
Load More Replies...Stranger abductions of children represent less than one percent of all missing child cases (in the US, at least). They're mostly runaways or family abductions.
You need to be more worried about a crazy relative abducting you than a crazy stranger. That said, as a child walking home from elementary school one day, I was followed by a strange car. I did what my mom taught me: ran away screaming and it peeled off, never to be seen again. I was either very lucky or just paranoid.
Casting director here.
Having a career in acting, I don't mean being famous. I mean paying your bills with acting alone.
I would hazard being an exclusively working actor is about 1% of actors.
But the amount of people still going into acting tells me people think otherwise.
Same for musicians. Friends of mine are only famous in their area, but live honestly, enough to raise a Family. The only one I know earning quite a lot ( 4000€ a month) is another friend who is in the shadow as a studio musician, playing music for jingles, ads, TV shows or for singers who sing under their name only with anonymous band. It's the most lucrative job
Pearls. Of all the fine stones(I know it classifies differently, but for jewelry, it’s basically a stone), it’s the one that has to happen in an oyster, which only exist on Earth. Other planets are literally raining diamonds, they’re so common. But, pearls are probably one of the rarest substances to exist
vaccine injury
My dog coming when I call him
Nice. I'm actually under the impression that about 5% of dogs actually obey this command
Successfully suing a company for millions. Some Redditors will have you believe that any minor inconvenience should earn you some kind of massive payout. And the comments will assure you that the company will do anything to avoid bad PR.
Absolutely a myth about easy money. Big business and the insurance industry have spent untold millions demonizing plaintiffs and their lawyers. The truth is quite the opposite. For every so-called frivolous suit that gets a windfall, there are dozens that either were lost lost or settled for less value because they couldn't afford to fight against the superior resources of the defense. The table is stacked against the injured or aggrieved "little guy " in favor of the haves.
Walking into an alley in Manhattan. Happens all the time in shows/movies, in reality there are like 1 or 2 in the whole borough.
Drag Queens at the local library.
I go to my library at least twice a week, and I've yet to see one.
Let's remember who they caught on "To Catch A Predator." Public figures, church member, etc.
Becoming a self-made millionaire. That's hard without a bunch of leg-ups.
Your kid becoming a pro (or even college) athlete
No problem chasing a dream, but have a back-up. I always tell kids "do the math..tell me your odds of success".
Amnesia. It's common in fiction because it's convenient in ways that makes things easy for the writers, for example explaining why someone's dark past is a secret which can be revealed later at the climax of the story. In real life it's very rare and doesn't work like people think it does.
I got amnesia when I was 17 from a head blow, the past is only linked by stories and some vignettes, very few memories. It has continued to today, I remember things for a few days. The longer term, where I remember things with stories and touchstones(that happened in such and such year, the year I started that job)and only a few visual memories, like pictures. It helps when something really bad happens, I don't really remember the emotions, the story remains, the memory doesn't. I keep a journal and pictures for important memories, and only remember the good. I magically remember facts, don't know where it comes from, so I can study information. This means I am a very happy person.
People who are truly compatible with you(and I mean both friendships and relationships)
Razor blades or poison in Halloween candy. It's zero. Never happened. And now every single kid out trick or treating has to have every candy inspected by mom and dad, and Halloween itself has been hollowed out to a safe boring joke where kids collect candy from one block of stores or from the trunks of a circle of parent's cars.
Making a living off just your art alone. Musicians, Artists, Film makers, Dancers -- that whole lot, what we see on TV and Movies are the cream of the crop (not that they are necessarily the best, mind you, they've just risen up somehow) and are a very small percentage. Most Artists of whatever medium will stay in relative obscurity -- i.e. you're a regional act, you gained some glint of fame, and yes admiration, even inspiring others -- but when you're not on tour, when you're not in the studio, you're working a job that pays the bills.
I think the key to success here is that you find a job you like, are good at, and allows you to do your art without interference. That way, when you're 45 and your band still hasn't "broke through" or your art isn't commanding tens of thousands, you're not just stuck stocking shelves at the grocery (not that there's anything wrong with that, it just pays p**s-poor).
While in prison, I sold a painting for a bag of jalapeno poppers. Monet never once sold a painting for a bag of jalapeno poppers. I win!
Plane crashes. I know your lizard brain doesn't like it, but flying is THE safest mode of transportation
Edit: because a lot of people mentioned it, I am specifically referring to commercial jets and the like. Small planes and helicopters are *way* less safe.
You are far, far, far more likely to meet an untimely demise on the drive to the airport than aboard an aircraft. People often assume that if anything goes wrong on a plane , it is boom, game over. People forget that airplanes can glide and even helicopters can autorotate.
Savant abilities in autism. We have Rain Main to thank for that, largely, but there are big questions as to whether the guy this was based on actually should have been diagnosed with something other than ASD.
I saw him once and had the great privilege of asking him one question (he visited my school). What I remember most was wondering whether he could consent to being a performer. It seemed sad, not because of his incredible mind but because of little things like his handler (a family member I think) explaining away every small non relevant comment like his conversation was an embarrassing problem if his mind wandered off topic. It made me depressed in a way I couldn't express at 12 or 13. Such a wildly unique perspective being used to amuse a bunch of kids who mostly said rude things about him later.
Being awake during a surgery under general anesthesia. Patients worry about it all the time, but I’ve been doing this 19 years and never seen a real case of this.
Soft teeth. I've been in dentistry for 20yrs & I can't tell you how many times I've heard patients say "I just have soft/bad/weak teeth." Actual weak teeth caused by gene abnormalities resulting in malformed enamel occurs in approx 1/15,000 people in the US. I've literally never seen it in person. I've seen cases where a few teeth are involved, but never an entire mouth full of teeth, it's that uncommon. Bad diet, bad hygiene, smoking, drugs, meds, dry mouth, inhalers, acid reflux, etc are all wayyyyyy more likely to be the cause of decayed teeth. People just don't want to hear that.
My mom says this, and what's way more likely is small town fraud. There's been a few examples of dentists lying and giving a lot of root canals to maximize the amount of money they make. Once my mom moved when she was in her 20s from her home town all of her teeth issues stopped.
A business becoming profitable within 2 years. Be patient, it takes time (years). Businesses only fail if they have to be shut down. Keep them alive, ride out the time factor, and enjoy success down the road.
Businesses can creep along for a very long time, getting indebted but not quite drowning for years upon years of incompetent management. If a business is well managed they shut down quickly when management realises it's not working out due to outside factors. Competent people will then cut their losses before it gets to bad. But incompetent people don't see the writing on the wall and often drag the dying horse along until it's truly dead and the stinking cadaver poisons everything.
Going missing in the Bermuda triangle
Methane gas building up in the area from the Everglades run off has reduced greatly. Used to get huge explosions of methane that could be ignited.
A happy healthy person who makes it through life without experiencing pain and suffering.
Happiness isn't a feeling made to last. It's a short outburst of feeling. If you have a happy day, that's precious. But not being happy doesn't automatically mean being unhappy. But you shouldn't make happiness your main goal. Aim for contentment and peace of mind because both are feelings that are sustainable and stable if you can find them. Then you'll find moments of happiness and joy every day. But if you're chasing happiness, you'll rarely be satisfied. And experiencing life without any pain and suffering would mean you're a sociopath who cares for nobody but yourself. As soon as you love anyone it's impossible.
Good parenting skills
If with good parenting skills you mean perfection, you are right. A perfect parent doesn't exist. Every parent makes mistakes. You learn the job as you go. But there are more parents striving to do their best than parents that are doing their worst. And when you are doing your best, you just hope that it's enough and that your mistakes aren't so big to ruin your children or your relationship with them.
Toxic shock syndrome from wearing tampons. When tampons were first made women were told that one tampon can last her whole period which was causing toxic shock syndrome and even then it wasn't super common now we are more educated and don't wear tampons for that long so it's very rare for toxic shock to happen unless you forget to take a tampon out for weeks.
Lots of these were informative, others, not so much. But, WHY must we have a troll in every thread!?
It's mostly the same idiots and they switch from account to account. The problem is that a lot of people are responding to them and they enjoy the attention. Sadly, these people have nothing positive to share with anyone, and so negative attention is better than no attention at all because they don't have the skills to earn positive attention. Ignore them, downvote them, and report them. And someone probably needs to alert the FBI to the person who is calling himself a muslim terrorist and using the other "clever" spelling of muslim terrorist. If this keeps up, I may feel the need myself. And believe me, if one of us does alert the FBI, they'll rip out every account he has after they haul him in for questioning. :-) Happy days!
Load More Replies...The one about trans kids kills me. I live in a state hell bent on making the life of trans people impossible. It's infuriating that they are spending so much time policing 1% of the population. It makes me so mad.
Lots of these were informative, others, not so much. But, WHY must we have a troll in every thread!?
It's mostly the same idiots and they switch from account to account. The problem is that a lot of people are responding to them and they enjoy the attention. Sadly, these people have nothing positive to share with anyone, and so negative attention is better than no attention at all because they don't have the skills to earn positive attention. Ignore them, downvote them, and report them. And someone probably needs to alert the FBI to the person who is calling himself a muslim terrorist and using the other "clever" spelling of muslim terrorist. If this keeps up, I may feel the need myself. And believe me, if one of us does alert the FBI, they'll rip out every account he has after they haul him in for questioning. :-) Happy days!
Load More Replies...The one about trans kids kills me. I live in a state hell bent on making the life of trans people impossible. It's infuriating that they are spending so much time policing 1% of the population. It makes me so mad.