In the short term they absolutely are. And she could have and should have been concerned enough to let the man sleep. He was in the verge of a complete breakdown. She should have realized that, She would have if she didn't have her head up her own a**e. And then once the crisis is over, talk about him learning to stop pushing himself to the limit.

It says they made a deal that he would get a day off to sleep and then she would get the same because he knows she's tired too. So she'd be getting a day off during his 1 week off of work where he takes all the child care responsibilities but she woke him up on his day off anyway.

He said he had been working on an important project at work, that was nearing its end. Their life is not this chaotic all the time, just sharing the implementation of this project. He is definitely NTA!!

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Yeah, I don't believe him for a minute. Sounds like the kind of guy who works late just to avoid dealing with his family, and she isn't having it. And if it takes him "several hours" just to FALL asleep, why isn't he seeing a doctor for his insomnia? He's full of s**t.

If you want verification of your partner's whereabouts, even when it's 2 hours, you might want to wonder if you need some help to deal with your distrust. That's a red flag for me as a woman.

Tbh it's about 2h when I go to the gym too. Driving there, getting changed, warming up, workout, maybe some cardio, stretching, showering and driving home adds up.