I remember this on Reddit, the OP cut that awful excuse of a friend out of their life and if I remember correctly, many of their mutual friends were so angry they didn't go either.

Good on OP for standing up for herself and refusing to attend the wedding. I'll never understand the mindset of brides who put their wedding aesthetic above having those near and dear to them involved in their wedding. When I (hopefully eventually) get married, I couldn't care less what my friends look like as long as they are comfortable, happy and by my side. I'm a wheelchair user and know other wheelchair users who have been refused to be in the wedding party because of being in a wheelchair- if any friend of mine did that they wouldn't be my friend any longer!

Wow. The gall.

I'll happily give her the silent treatment... what's wrong with brides??

Best way to be silent is to not show up!

I think the bride has a lot of problems. And I sense a sort of "bossy meanness" ... first demanding the guests wear yellow, which any seasoned couturier knows is a difficult color for most complexions. And second demanding silence ... uncomfortable silence. Where did she get these weird notions? I pity her husband. I suspect a rocky road ahead ...

What a great way to start off your marriage, with zero friends.

Any guest who gives in to her demands is indeed entitled to wear yellow.

Don’t invite anyone if you want a silent wedding and reception. Geez bridezilla.

1. I cracked up at the thought of a reception where everyone is dead silent and some instrumental music plays in the background. 😂 That's some horror movie sh*t. 2. It's the least of the problems with this post, but why yellow, of all colors?

When no one turns up she'll have the silent wedding she wants

Dear Amy not having it lol

I think this might be connected to a Mormon(?) wedding tradition where everyone sits in silent reflection for a period during the wedding. Not the entire thing. During the ceremony I actually understand (unless she's using it as a way of getting past the "any objections" part?). Guests aren't supposed to be nattering during the actual ceremony, it's a bit disrespectful to the officiant for a start. During the speeches - yeah, don't natter through it (disrespectful again), but the guests should be able to laugh and toast accordingly (a toast is everyone raising a glass - it's a communal thing). No first dance? No actual celebration? There's a reason she's never heard of anyone doing this before - it's c**p

Is she in a cult?

It’s incredible to see how many people are deranged these days.

I feel like its polite to be quite during the ceremony, but always??? Like all the time??

How about you schedule an event where everyone just stands around in silence looking at you for 4 solid hours? As a bonus, you could prohibit them from blinking lest you be out of their sight for even a microsecond. How attention starved are these people? That's a level of narcissism that therapy can't even fix.

If that's how she wanted them wedding, imagine what the housewarming party or baby shower would have been like. Fiancé was smart to run BEFORE the ceremony.

This has got to be fake!

Umm…. Contradicting yourself there, love… “I know it's uncommon. I've never heard of anyone else having one, but we've had them in my family.“ So which is it? Never heard of them or you’ve had them in your family (you’re lying and full of it!).

This whole special day BS, is getting insane. I have been married for 33 years. Our wedding was maybe $1,000. It focused on our families.

I can tolerate the yellow-only dress code, but I draw the line at “silent wedding”. (Unless you’re paying them well to attend your boring a*s wedding.)

All of the people at the wedding will most likely only be focused on the fact that they can't talk to each thus taking away all of the bride's attention. It's completely and obviously self-defeating. Weddings, by definition, make the bride and groom the main focus. What more do you need? JFC.

Amy was being pranked. So fake.

Never once thought about my wedding as a kid. I really do not get these kind of people.

Im having a 10 year birthday just for my dreads next year just to get back at all the haters!

These are making me more and more depressed about the general horribleness of some people.

This was where I had to stop reading this entire post. I’m just too disgusted.

I need to get away from a society where people feel entitled to other's money because they 'need' to throw a lavish wedding. It is a party. If you're getting married so that you can have an Insta perfect party and not because you and your partner want to celebrate your love with your closest friends and family DON'T GET MARRIED!

Also, yellow and dark skin is an awesome combo! I'm pink as, verging on blue after winter - I'd look like the Ukrainian flag!

An update from Reddit from someone who saw the original post on Facebook: "She actually goes on to comment that people DID send this to her fiance, she said she was hacked, he bought her story about being hacked, and he was "currently making [her] some eggs" as an apology for believing it was her in the first place. Talk about manipulative & crazy. This poor child." I truly hope that delusional man finally saw her true colours before the wedding (how was she going to explain after that that she actually didn't want the daughter at the wedding?) and realised she wasn't hacked and did write it.

What a really terrible person!

Frankly, at that point you will not be around to care. What are they going to do? Post on Heaven's Facebook and berate you for it? Besides, in the afterlife you hold all the cards. Let them say something - pretty sure hauntings trump gossip any day.

Yeah no problem and can you please give me back my €200 wedding gift asap and i will send you the £3.66 asap

Why are so many woman so fixated on this matching everybody look and vision of this wedding. I get wanting to have a lovely wedding and everyone looking their best, but so many of these brides seem to have forgotten that the wedding is one day and the marriage is so much more important. Also lol at the bride being shocked that all the 7.5" heels look like hooker shoes, what did she expect?!

Again how come that girls get the idea that this day is about aesthetics? And that the day is only about you? That is just so not the point. And you are going to be so unhappy when you think that. Because there will always be something that goes wrong. There will always be someone complaining about something. A wedding is about a happy day for everyone attending..

Ha, take that, pleb

I would call her bluff and send this to her fiancé and ask if it's true as I bet he has no idea bride is being so rude to one of this friends! The poor woman isn't even in the bridal party and she wants her to change her hair colour and hide tattoos or she doesn't love the couple. Some people really do go on a power trip when they get married!

Guest has saved herself heartache there as I guarantee even if she had have been given adequate time to make them, she would be paid for that mountain of work as it's "just wood and paint, probably only cost a few £'s!" Those choosy beggar types never take artists time and materials into proper account!

And let's hope for the kids sake she never will...

Bored panda censored highclass. 😂

Don't you mean "Ex best friend"?

Part of me hopes that this is satire . The other part has now lost all hope for humanity.

People shouldnt wear overpowering purfume/colonge at a crowded venue. Not because of the reason given but because you never know who has an allergy. On another note, all other request by bridezilla is nuts! Pay to be labor...no thanks!

Imagine how much beer and cake you can buy for 250!

Goddamn the people in this entire list.

What is wrong with these women? And why would any decent man want to marry them?

Imma go stand outside the venue eating a chicken leg, anyone got the address?

Ex-friend, right?

😂🤣😳🤣😂

"...a month traveling, bar hopping, swinging, and more in Europe..." Height of COVID. I have no words.