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While different cultures celebrate the holidays in different ways, many have one thing in common. Presents! Covered in pretty paper, maybe even tied up with a bow or ribbon, it's usually not the surprise inside but the thought that matters. Yes, material possessions are nice but another person thinking of you and trying to make you smile? That's a whole lot better. To most.

Because some kids still haven't figured it out and all they care about is how expensive or how cool their gift is. Don't get me wrong, I understand that it's normal for children to occasionally feel like the world revolves around them but getting a new car and dreading it because of its color? That's just plain entitlement.

So, to remind you to remain humble and thankful, Bored Panda compiled a list of boys and girls who didn't.

#1

Does This Count? Stop Buying Consoles For Yourselves. My Kids Need Them For Xmas

Does This Count? Stop Buying Consoles For Yourselves. My Kids Need Them For Xmas

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got the Accessory set for the gameboy color which I bought myself, for Christmas back then. And it was perfect...

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To learn more about this type of behavior, we contacted Talya Stone, media maven who now runs digital magazines Motherhood: The Real Deal and 40 Now What.

"Sadly, I believe that gratitude and humility don't come naturally to children these days because we worship at the altar of consumerism, and children in the western world are used to having pretty much everything they want, and a lot of the time it's on-demand," Stone told Bored Panda.

"Moreover, when parents want their children to enjoy the luxuries and perhaps every comfort and opportunity they didn't have as a child without any kind of struggle or wanting for anything in the mix, unfortunately, this can be a breeding ground for ingratitude and insolence. So yes, parents these days actually need to work even harder to instill gratitude and humility in their children simply because children in this modern world have it too good."

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    Just Get Them What They Ask For

    Just Get Them What They Ask For

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    C. Wade
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't overthink it, return them, get her a pair of bootleg cabled Apple earphones, the $1.50 kind. See how she likes them lol

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    #3

    Strangers Won't Give My Kid AirPods Or Money? Thanks For Ruining His Christmas

    Strangers Won't Give My Kid AirPods Or Money? Thanks For Ruining His Christmas

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    A B C
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, Pandas, if y'all don't give me 20 bucks, you're selfish and ruin my Christmas! You don't know me, but that doesn't matter. Send money. /s 🤦‍♀️

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    Girl Asks For New 4k TV Because The One Her Parents Got Her Wasn't Good Enough

    Girl Asks For New 4k TV Because The One Her Parents Got Her Wasn't Good Enough

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    Stone touched upon something very important. Overindulgence. The consequences of spoiling your kids aren't pretty. Research shows that it leads to self-centeredness, greed, and unwillingness to be held accountable for actions, to name just a few of the unpleasant traits seen in children and adults who got too much, too often. And the fact that we are more affluent than previous generations has a lot to do with it!

    "It's important for parents to teach [their kids] basic principles that can help to counteract the overindulgence as well as trying not to overindulge them in the first place," Stone highlighted.

    "Children these days are so used to getting what they want without having to work for it. So get them to do some chores and pull their weight around the house from an early age (not for money though!), teach them gratitude and how to say thank you, ensure they have boundaries for behavior and discipline when it's called for, teach them manners, educate them about those in the world who have less or nothing, and be sure that you raise them to understand the value of money."

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    #6

    Basically This Kid Asked If He Was An A-Hole For Breaking His Switch Because His Mom Wanted To Treat Herself; 20/10 That Kid's An A-Hole

    Basically This Kid Asked If He Was An A-Hole For Breaking His Switch Because His Mom Wanted To Treat Herself; 20/10 That Kid's An A-Hole

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    Seriously?

    Seriously?

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    Vorknkx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, the poor kid won't be allowed onto the playground due to outdated hardware :D

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    Psychotherapist Amy Morin said that while it's important to address a child's ungrateful behavior, parents also have to keep in mind that it's normal for the little ones to be a bit egocentric at times. However, over time, these moments should become less frequent, not more.

    Talya Stone also provided a few examples of how to achieve it:

    • Limit the number of presents they receive in the first instance;
    • Donate some presents to charity or disadvantaged children or better yet take them round to give food and drinks to the homeless;
    • Put some of their toys/gifts away then give it back to them so that they learn to appreciate them;
    • Educate them about saying please and thank you and why it's important to be grateful;
    • Instill a daily gratitude practice to help cultivate an attitude of gratitude;
    • Demand an appropriate level of respect in your family and ensure you are modeling this too;
    • Have them write thank you letters/make thank you videos for every present they receive.
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    Let's hope that next Christmas will be easier than this one!

    #8

    Oh My God, What A Spoiled Brat

    Oh My God, What A Spoiled Brat

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    R. U. Sirius
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This parent lack of knowing how messed up their kid is in terms of expectations/reality/gratitude/etc. is alarming af. And they think someone is just gonna hand them over a new/nearly newcar b/c of how messed up their kid expectations are? Smh... Why do people as dumb as this parent have kids... It should be a crime or something... :/

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    #9

    Bumblebee Didn’t Want To Be In Their Possession

    Bumblebee Didn’t Want To Be In Their Possession

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    Some Kids Are The Worst Kind Of Choosing Beggars

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    Spoiled Brat Wrecks Car Because It Wasn’t The One He Wanted

    Spoiled Brat Wrecks Car Because It Wasn’t The One He Wanted

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    So I Just Let Malique Open Up One Christmas Gift An He Had The Audacity To Tell Me To Take These Back. Oh Okay I'll Take It All Back

    So I Just Let Malique Open Up One Christmas Gift An He Had The Audacity To Tell Me To Take These Back. Oh Okay I'll Take It All Back

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    #13

    Entitled Kid Jealous Of His Mom Getting A Car

    Entitled Kid Jealous Of His Mom Getting A Car

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    GenericPanda09
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah...... parents can do that when they work and earn the money...... tough life huh.

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    #14

    I Have No Words

    I Have No Words

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    #15

    "My Son Must Have A £25k Car As A Present, It's An Emergency"

    "My Son Must Have A £25k Car As A Present, It's An Emergency"

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    Entitled Rich Kid Asks For Birthday Money

    Entitled Rich Kid Asks For Birthday Money

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    C. Wade
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a one way ticket to station You Ain't Getting Sh*t And I'm Never Talking To You Again. Please mind the gap.

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    #18

    When You Want Only One Present In The World

    When You Want Only One Present In The World

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kid literally just wants their grandparents to use their correct pronouns. They didn't even make a list of stuff they wanted for Christmas.

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    Sorry Mom

    Sorry Mom

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    That's That Christmas Spirit

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    He Only Got 6 Gifts

    He Only Got 6 Gifts

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    A B C
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I were involved, this entitled douche would get exactly five pieces of coal next year.

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    Entitled Girl Is Mad That Her Parents Are Taking Her To Disneyland Instead Of Taking Her To The Mall To Buy More X-Mas Presents

    Entitled Girl Is Mad That Her Parents Are Taking Her To Disneyland Instead Of Taking Her To The Mall To Buy More X-Mas Presents

    By the way,  she already bought some and is now demanding more, even though she’s getting a ton on the 25th too.

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    Vicky Z
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though i hate her attitude, i don't understand why a parent would force Disneyland to their child if they don't want to go

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    #25

    It's So Difficult To Feel Christmas Spirit

    It's So Difficult To Feel Christmas Spirit

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    A B C
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because we all know Christmas is only about getting cars. THAT is the true Christmas spirit. /s

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    #26

    Better Gave Him An iPad

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    This 10-Year-Old's Christmas List

    This 10-Year-Old's Christmas List

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    R. U. Sirius
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk. This is just a list. Kids make ridiculous Xmas lists all the time. And not everything listed is expensive (...or alive....). I think most kids know thAt the majority of their lists are just wishful thinking. What would mKe her a spoiled brat would be reacting like one upon being disappointed on x-Mas (heck, she may get stuff she didn't ask for and even appreciate it). This one is kinda putting the cart before the horse a bit imo.

    RandomBeing
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My little sister once asked santa for a life sized barbie dream house.

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    Persephone
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please at least don't get the real bunny. I'm 100% sure that bunny deserves better.

    Jon Steensen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if she also gets "clothes for bunny". Pets are animals and not babies.

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    Vicky Zar
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chanel purse? Wow Clothes for bunny? What is it, a freaking doll? 4000$??? The parents must be loaded if an 11 year old even thinks about such things

    Jack Holt
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad someone interpreted that because I had no idea what she was referring to

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    The swede.
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I give you my alarm clock so you can wake the f up from your demands.

    Daniel B
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know of 4,000 dollars??? When I was 10 I wanted Legos and a new ps4 game

    DCB
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love how the $4000 was slipped in there near the end...

    Ragnhild Nilsen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New sheets or an alarm clock. Something she NEEDS. Maybe some dollar store jewellery.

    Jill Bussey
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parent to child - you may choose three items from this list, the total of which is to be less than $100.

    Lorrie Rothstein
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they can't spell it they shouldn't get it. This list is ridiculous

    Jacob Nunez
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How am i gonna buy a kid “Gucci” slippers if they dont even know how to spell Gucci

    Kobus Loots
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IF I made this list as a kid, my parents would have yelled at me and given me coal

    Sofia Murat
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    8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    4,000 dollars? Wow, my cousin asked for a SECOND tablet, a phone, a siri or Alexa, and a bunch of dolls. A SECOND tablet, she complained the first one is too cheap. She is eight.

    Cory Tollman
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first thought was that real bunny is going to die, and quick.

    Lynne Stankard
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this the writing of a 10 year old??? No really! I thought it was a 5 year old. Can't spell , can't write - maybe a few extra lessons wouldn't go amiss.

    Lori
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely not a real bunny, which you plan on dressing up. How about some spelling books?

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    Kimberley Gayle Thomas
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok that's it! This one makes me so angry I have to say something. First of all, this entitled prick doesn't deserve an innocent pet. I don't want to even imagine what they'll do if they don't like it for some reason. 2nd, not only is this list so long it can enrich an army, but 3, apparently this kid, needs someone to buy them an education first due to all the errors ala a Nigerian scam letter.

    Spicy Mickey Mouse
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is wrong with this child? They want an ALARM CLOCK? They can have mine.

    Terry Tobias
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though she's got expensive stuff on her list she still asks for age appropriate regular things like new sheets, an alarm clock, and a real bunny. She's a possible save from becoming an entitled kid.

    Lynn Morello
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A dictionary so she can learn to spell. and a set of darts that you can hang this list up and toss darts at it. Highlight the Alarm Clock.

    River Daski
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for my 18th bday i felt horrendous asking for $200... but wtf does a 10yo need "Asenchal" oils for??? lol

    Raven DeathShade
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. It's hard to believe a 10-year-old has handwriting that neat. I've seen it done, but it's still hard to believe. 2. This is a kid who probably has heard about all this stuff from social media or from school. And at that age they don't really have a good grasp on money, how much things cost, or even if what they're asking for even exists. I have a 10-year-old brother. He asked for a Lego Inuyasha set for Christmas. Kids be kids, man.

    Daniel B
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FOUR THOUSAND DOLLARS HOW DO YOU KNOW OF THAT MUCH MONEY AT 10

    Nicki
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    4,000 DOLLARS?!?!? you have got to be kidding me.... 😡

    Analyn Lahr
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's she gonna do with $4,000? On top of all that other crap?

    A_fangirling_Demigod_witch
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care if she got everything else but I hope she didn' get the poor live bunny.

    Mary Mosher
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd tell her just as soon as she spells all the words correctly ...

    Arctic Fox Lover
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's too old to be spelling like this, and too young to want any of this. Also, laundry detergent? Or should I say, landry ditugent

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    Sue Hazlewood
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    4,000 dollars? On top of everything else, wow how greedy and entitled.

    Marco Conti
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about spelling and text formatting lessons instead? They put a margin to the left for a reason.

    Tunk
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think judging from the many comments here that a lot of people really need to consider not having kids. And maybe learn to lighten up. The future is looking pretty crappy lately with everyone being so self righteous. Continually. For a ten year old I think their handwriting is pretty good!

    R. U. Sirius
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lmao! I wrote one of the nicest comments on this one (I think?) and I am kid-free now (and forever hopefully thus by choice). So idk what to think about this. Some of these comments are so harsh. I don't care if the kid is 10/11 and their spelling sucks. heck. these people could be insulting someone with dyslexia and thus at that age they would be very likely to have iffy spelling. They might have iffy spelling every now and then forever with dyslexia depending on how good of an education they get (aka in terms of being taught reading/writing/spelling/etc while having dyslexia). I honest will give kids that haven't hit puberty yet more slack in general. Also it is clear sometimes kids are brats due to terrible parenting so it it isn't 100% their fault as they were never taught how to be act normal in those cases. I mean have any of these people read Calvin & Hobbes? There's a strip where he gives his mom this huge stack of papers. It's 100 pages AND he's asking for the craziest stuff!

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    Bob D. Lin Quint
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn she's really asking too much. The only thing on my Christmas list was $4000.

    ThEboRedEsTpANdA
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What're you gonna spend that $4k on that you don't have the audacity to put on that list? Spelling lessons perhaps? *cough cough 'purfum' cough cough*

    GaeFrog
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She can't even spell half the things on the list right yet and she wants an iPhone 11?

    ScreamQueen XX
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely spelling lessons but there's nothing wrong with this list I used to make lists like this all the time my mom would just roll her eyes

    Lara Treadwell
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love to see what the aftermath was if they got socks a book and smellies.

    Carole
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe this list is pick and choose? In that case I'd pick the pink duct tape! On another note, why would a 10 year old want laundry detergent for Christmas?

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    #28

    The World Of Presents Can Be Very Unfair

    The World Of Presents Can Be Very Unfair

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    This Girl I Used To Know From Middle School Hasn't Aged Well

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    Arthur's Jumper Is Finished And He Hates It

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure I'd call him a brat. It's a pity about the hard work and the yarn that went into it, but he is not a Weasley. Kids don't have to love all the clothes that are put on them.

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    On USPS Adopt A Santa Letter. Because Clearly, This Child Wants A Tattoo Gift Certificate

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    snipergun
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do assume that parent wrote that part... Hampster cage... Yeah. Not sure who is really the one to blame here.

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    Just Painted My 3 Year - Old Brothers Jeep Red Cause He Only Wants To Drive It If Its Red, Now He's Crying Cause He Wants It White Again

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    Shelli PL
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly not sure he’s a brat but rather a youngling that would cry because water is wet ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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    Worst Present Ever, Mama

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think a 5yo is in the same category as a 20yo who didn't like the color of the car they got. The mom is right - meet 'em where they're at.

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