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The subreddit r/ChoosingBeggars is full of screenshots, pictures, and stories of entitled people revealing their true colors. After you spend enough time on it, you begin to notice common character tropes, too. There's the parent who uses their child's birthday as an excuse to get a discount. The art expert lowballing creators. And, of course, the dissatisfied customer.

The latter often end up on the subreddit through their ridiculous reviews. The drill is usually something like this: they expect a freebie, then get offended for having to pay for the product or service, and turn to the internet to pen a novel, trying to shut down the "vulturous" business. However, even if the premise remains the same, these folks somehow consistently outdo each other.

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A Restaurant Review I Stumbled On. The Customer Is So Many Kinds Of Wrong

A Restaurant Review I Stumbled On. The Customer Is So Many Kinds Of Wrong

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#2

63 Sandwiches In 1 1/2 Hours!?! How Dare They!

63 Sandwiches In 1 1/2 Hours!?! How Dare They!

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A sense of entitlement is virtually a belief that someone deserves special treatment or recognition for something they didn't really earn. Simply put, people with this mindset feel that the world owes them without having to give anything in return.

Entitlement is a narcissistic personality trait and while we don't know exactly how it develops, some possible factors are:

  • The environment a person grows up in; 
  • The way their parents treated them; 
  • Whether adults solved their problems for them;
  • How they are treated by authority figures.
#3

Giving Your Church A One Star Review For Giving You A Free Turkey

Giving Your Church A One Star Review For Giving You A Free Turkey

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#4

Customer At My Local Pub Couldn't Pay For A Pint And Gave A Bad Tripadvisor Review, Pub Responded Accordingly

Customer At My Local Pub Couldn't Pay For A Pint And Gave A Bad Tripadvisor Review, Pub Responded Accordingly

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#5

Review Of A Nice And Cheap Neighborhood Bike Shop

Review Of A Nice And Cheap Neighborhood Bike Shop

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Since entitled people often see themselves as superior to others, it's not a surprise that this way of thinking affects their interpersonal relationships. 

When you believe you should get better treatment than others or that the rules simply don't apply to you, you're more likely to suffer in the long term. When you believe you aren't getting what you're owed, an entitlement mentality can result in:

  • Conflict in relationships;
  • Unhappiness;
  • Disappointment;
  • Depression.

Your career may suffer as well. Yes, entitled people often interview well and can land leadership roles because of their confidence, however, they often lack team spirit and avoid problem-solving in the workplace; most of their decisions are self-serving, and this can quickly become apparent to their co-workers. 

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1 Star At My Small Business (Martial Arts)

1 Star At My Small Business (Martial Arts)

Because i wouldn't negotiate the price... Even for "referrals" and he was nice enough to make a second email and leave two 1 star reviews... I don't mind someone asking but if told no, just respect that.

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#7

A Review On An Apartment That Caught My Eye

A Review On An Apartment That Caught My Eye

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#8

This Was Posted As A Review On A High-End Water Bottle’s Website

This Was Posted As A Review On A High-End Water Bottle’s Website

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#9

This Review For A Hotel

This Review For A Hotel

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What's more, as these reviews show, feeling entitled to something and not getting what you want can reinforce the mindset instead of shattering it. This often follows a vicious 3-step cycle:

1. When you're entitled, you're always vulnerable to the threat of unmet expectations.

2. When your expectations are not met, it can lead to dissatisfaction and other emotions like anger and a sense of being cheated. 

3. When you're distressed, you try to fix the situation and console yourself. This results in self-reassurance that you deserve everything you've ever wanted, which reinforces the same entitled behavior.  

#10

A Grocery Store Downtown In My City Has A Number Of 1-Star Google Reviews Because They Don’t Allow People To Park In The Very Tiny Parking Lot To Go Eat And Shop Elsewhere

A Grocery Store Downtown In My City Has A Number Of 1-Star Google Reviews Because They Don’t Allow People To Park In The Very Tiny Parking Lot To Go Eat And Shop Elsewhere

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#11

Local Restaurant Stays Open Late To Serve Great Food To Customer After Hours, Has Audacity To Be Out Of Fries, Receives One-Star Review

Local Restaurant Stays Open Late To Serve Great Food To Customer After Hours, Has Audacity To Be Out Of Fries, Receives One-Star Review

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#12

Cb Complaining About The Portion Sizes After Only Ordering Enough For Half Of The Group

Cb Complaining About The Portion Sizes After Only Ordering Enough For Half Of The Group

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#13

I’m Giving These Guys My Business, Not Because Of Their Many 5-Star Reviews, But Because Of Their Only 1-Star Review

I’m Giving These Guys My Business, Not Because Of Their Many 5-Star Reviews, But Because Of Their Only 1-Star Review

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It's all fun and games when we're "meeting" entitled people via r/ChoosingBeggars. But having someone like this in your life can be a really exhausting experience. While there might be no easy way to resolve a situation with them, if you decide to have a talk, there are several points you should hit.

1. Everything happens for a reason. What's theirs? Not that you have to meet their needs (as already mentioned, their needs may be unreasonable), but giving them a chance to be heard could halt the entitled behavior. Life is comprised of causes and conditions, maybe you can unearth the underlying cause and prevent further entitled behavior from occurring.

#14

Review Of A Jimmy Johns Near Me

Review Of A Jimmy Johns Near Me

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#15

A Couple Decorates Their House Every Year And Allows People To Visit And Walk Through Their Garden For Free

A Couple Decorates Their House Every Year And Allows People To Visit And Walk Through Their Garden For Free

All in honor of their daughter who passed away. They even have a pretty legit Santa on certain days. Lady gives them poor review.

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#16

Cb Thinks She Deserves Free Use Of A Vacuum At An Automatic Carwash That Requires Paying For Exterior Wash. One Of The Few Bad Reviews Of This Place

Cb Thinks She Deserves Free Use Of A Vacuum At An Automatic Carwash That Requires Paying For Exterior Wash. One Of The Few Bad Reviews Of This Place

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2. Not everyone who behaves like a jerk recognizes the way they come off. In fact, they may be oblivious that their behavior is creating a negative impression of them. Everyone at the core wants to be content and our actions are usually geared toward that end result. But it's the route they have taken that's the problem. If you can diplomatically explain that their method is not yielding the desired result, you might be able to get them to at least reconsider their course.

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It’s Almost As If The Developers Of This Sleep App...also Need Money To Survive? This Review Made Me Want To Go Premium And I Haven’t Even Tried The App Yet

It’s Almost As If The Developers Of This Sleep App...also Need Money To Survive? This Review Made Me Want To Go Premium And I Haven’t Even Tried The App Yet

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#18

From A Local Chocolate Shop's Google Reviews

From A Local Chocolate Shop's Google Reviews

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#19

Leaving A Negative Review Even After Being Refunded For A Custom Engagement Ring Following A Breakup

Leaving A Negative Review Even After Being Refunded For A Custom Engagement Ring Following A Breakup

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3. "Let me tell you how you're making me feel." This one, of course, depends on what kind of relationship you have with the person. Within the right environment, this type of exchange can benefit both parties. Even if their intention was pure, they can't dismiss the way they are making you feel. Hopefully, realizing they are annoying and irritating you will be an eye-opening experience.

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#20

This Google Review For A Friendly Australian Skate Shop

This Google Review For A Friendly Australian Skate Shop

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#21

Tripadvisor Review Of A Maui Beach

Tripadvisor Review Of A Maui Beach

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#22

This Review Of The Chewy App I Just Found

This Review Of The Chewy App I Just Found

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4. Are you seeing things that aren’t there? Perception is tricky. Though you might feel in your heart there is entitled behavior at play, someone else might perceive the situation completely differently. Find a trusted third party to give an outside perspective. As each of our lives consists of different emotional backgrounds and experiences, we are going to react to behavior differently. What you might see as entitled behavior, another might perceive as totally neutral.

#23

Customer Just Left This Review Of The Place Where My GF Works. The "Main Dude" Says He's Never Seen Him Before Lol

Customer Just Left This Review Of The Place Where My GF Works. The "Main Dude" Says He's Never Seen Him Before Lol

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#24

Was Looking At Some Reviews For Vegas Hotels. Can't Imagine What It Must Be Like Dealing With People Like This

Was Looking At Some Reviews For Vegas Hotels. Can't Imagine What It Must Be Like Dealing With People Like This

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#25

This Video-Editing App Review

This Video-Editing App Review

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But if all of the above fails, you want to protect yourself from being taken advantage of. Setting some boundaries might be useful. Name your limits. Reiterate and uphold them. Don't be afraid to say no, communicate when they cross the line, and stay consistent.

Don't forget, you can also find a subreddit for shaming them!

#26

Barbie App Review: “Give Me All The Stuff Free Or Else I Will Sue”

Barbie App Review: “Give Me All The Stuff Free Or Else I Will Sue”

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#27

Negative Review For A Nail Salon Near My House

Negative Review For A Nail Salon Near My House

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#28

Apparently This Big-Box Beauty Store Should Do More For This Reviewer

Apparently This Big-Box Beauty Store Should Do More For This Reviewer

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#29

Review At A Restaurant I Just Went To. Theft

Review At A Restaurant I Just Went To. Theft

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#30

Cb Left An Unfavorable Review At A Local Steakhouse Because They Did Not Get Something For Free…

Cb Left An Unfavorable Review At A Local Steakhouse Because They Did Not Get Something For Free…

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#31

Review For Consignment Shop. They Didn’t Give Her A Tax Discount A Day Early

Review For Consignment Shop. They Didn’t Give Her A Tax Discount A Day Early

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#32

Review Shared By Restaurant Owner In Our Local Group

Review Shared By Restaurant Owner In Our Local Group

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#33

Google Reviews Are A Goldmine

Google Reviews Are A Goldmine

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#34

Best Kebabs. Great Staff. One Star

Best Kebabs. Great Staff. One Star

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#35

A Review Of A Local Food Pantry By A Total Garbage Human

A Review Of A Local Food Pantry By A Total Garbage Human

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#36

Mario Kart On iOS/Android Has Come Out Today For Free And This Is One Of The Reviews

Mario Kart On iOS/Android Has Come Out Today For Free And This Is One Of The Reviews

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#37

Extras Should Always Be Free. You Want To Make A Profit, Enjoy Your One Star Review!!!

Extras Should Always Be Free. You Want To Make A Profit, Enjoy Your One Star Review!!!

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#38

“They Give Me A Discount But I Wanted More, One Star Rating!!”

“They Give Me A Discount But I Wanted More, One Star Rating!!”

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#39

This Lady Leaving Reviews Based On Whether Or Not The Restaurant Let Her Store Her Breast Milk In Their Fridges

This Lady Leaving Reviews Based On Whether Or Not The Restaurant Let Her Store Her Breast Milk In Their Fridges

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#40

Gets Free Fast Passes And Still Complains And Leaves Bad Review. (Disney World)

Gets Free Fast Passes And Still Complains And Leaves Bad Review. (Disney World)

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#41

Apple App Store Review: Game Was Too Hard, And For That Demands Refund

Apple App Store Review: Game Was Too Hard, And For That Demands Refund

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#42

They Released The Minecraft Trial I Just Knew There Would Be Reviews Like This

They Released The Minecraft Trial I Just Knew There Would Be Reviews Like This

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